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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]61 yo man. Sorry but 40s is the age I look to date. Very few woman I've seen hold up well into their 50s and past menopause. [/quote]

I’m a 42yr old woman. The idea of dating someone 20 yrs older than me seems odd.  I think of the long term.  When I’m 62, you’d be 81.  Do you find many 40 yr old women to date?[/quote]

40 year old woman here and I was just thinking the same thing. 61 is too old for me. My limit would be about 53, but preferably 40-45.[/quote]
I am 47 female, and I would not date a 60+ year old unless he looked much younger, around 50 (maybe).  My DH is in his early 50's, but looks a bit younger.  He's got a bit of a belly but other than that is in pretty good shape.  I am a size 4 and am about the same weight as when I got married in my early 30's.

The only way a 60+ yr old man can get a 40 yr old woman is:

1. he has lots and lots of money
2. he is very fit and looks much younger than 60
3. the woman is very very desperate[/quote]

I know you want to believe that but you are so wrong.[/quote]
Really?  Well since this is an anonymous forum I suppose you could lie and tell me some story that "proves" me wrong.   As I said, I'm 47.. I have many female friends who are my age and no way would they date a 60 yr old who weren't either #1 or #2, and none of my friends are that desperate.[/quote]
OK, so your friends are not who I'm going to date.  But as for #1, it's nice to know that you would all whore yourself out for the right guy, no matter his age.  Some of you sound threatened that an older man like myself dates younger women in part for their better looks as if that's bad thing to choose when given the choice, or it's somehow immoral.  But at least I'm choosing someone based on who she is, which includes other factors than looks.  But your friends would date a man they would never choose if he has lots of money? Wow, that's really sad.[/quote]
OH, please,  :roll:  you are choosing a younger woman because of her physical attributes mostly. That makes you shallow.  How is that any worse than a woman choosing a man because he is able to financially support her and her children?    I bet if an older woman had a better personality and other non physical attributes that were better than the younger, more attractive woman, you'd still pick the younger woman simply because of her looks.  You are shallow.  Just admit it.    I don't care if you date only younger woman. I'm just informing you that no 40 year old woman would date a 60 yr old man unless the situation was one of the three.[/quote]

-you are choosing a younger woman because of her physical attributes mostly. That makes you shallow.  How is that any worse than a woman choosing a man because he is able to financially support her and her children?

You can call me shallow but we are all shallow to some degree or really hideous people who can't help their looks would have just as much success with finding partners as anyone else.  That said, I see a big difference.  I find her looks pleasing, but that isn't enough to sustain a relationship.  It's the whole person.  If looks were all that mattered to me, I'd go even younger than 40s.  Either way, I'm with someone I desire and enjoy.  I read #3 on this list as saying, a lot of women would choose a man she doesn't desire and just tolerate his old ass, as long he has money.  I'll stand by my statement for those taking shots at me while saying that many women would gladly whore themselves out for the right guy.  I'm using my own words to characterize it but I'm not the one who put it out there.  Yet I see there is a lot of agreement among women here.  Again, that's just sad.

-I bet if an older woman had a better personality and other non physical attributes that were better than the younger, more attractive woman, you'd still pick the younger woman simply because of her looks.

You sound like someone trying to hook a man up on a blind date with her friend who has a "great personality."  Don't kid yourself that you are any different, or better than me.  Yes, looks play a part in my initial attraction to anyone.  If I'm not attracted, I may never get to know her better personality.  It's a harsh, cruel world we live in that way.  So tell me, how many guys did you date who totally turned you off with their looks, body, height, etc., but you stuck with them for their personality?  I'll bet your husband is hideous and always was, but he's a great guy, right?

-[b] I don't care if you date only younger woman[/b]. I'm just informing you that no 40 year old woman would date a 60 yr old man unless the situation was one of the three.

Clearly you do care as it seems to bother you a lot.  much tat you can't believe that any woman in her 40s could stand to be with me unless there is some serious flaw in her thinking or other nefarious motivations.  I have nothing against dating a woman closer to my age, but I'm not attracted to most of them.  I know, that makes me a horrible man.  As for the 3 points, I don't qualify with on the first two and no woman I've ever dated is desperate for anything except maybe a good relationship.  They could all get plenty of men, especially younger men, any night of the week.

Again, it's sad that not one woman in this thread can just be happy for me, or anyone in a good relationship.  Someone posted about the level of misogyny in this thread.  It think it's the other way around.  Why is it such a threat to you for a man to state he prefers younger women?  That's certainly not a new or radical idea.[/quote]

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