How many men have you slept with?

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Anonymous wrote:I'm shocked at the amount of "one only" people.

Me, too--and I'm one of them! Dh and I were both each other's firsts in college.

They either met their spouses very young or very physically unattractive (not meaning to be rude but I know some couples like this) or very shy.

Why? Literally everyone I know who has slept with one person fits one of the three categories.

NP- I think the opposite is true. The unattractive, chunky women always have higher numbers. It's a self-esteem thing or daddy issues. The really attractive, undamaged women aren't sleeping around.

Agreed. Beautiful women don't sleep around, in my experience

I think both unattractive and unattractive women sleep around. Actually, I know both attractive and unattractive women sleep around.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm shocked at the amount of "one only" people.

Me, too--and I'm one of them! Dh and I were both each other's firsts in college.

They either met their spouses very young or very physically unattractive (not meaning to be rude but I know some couples like this) or very shy.

Why? Literally everyone I know who has slept with one person fits one of the three categories.

NP- I think the opposite is true. The unattractive, chunky women always have higher numbers. It's a self-esteem thing or daddy issues. The really attractive, undamaged women aren't sleeping around.

Agreed. Beautiful women don't sleep around, in my experience

I think both unattractive and unattractive women sleep around. Actually, I know both attractive and unattractive women sleep around.

Right, we're talking about BEAUTIFUL women, not merely attractive.

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1. I grew up very conservative AND met my husband young. Not conservative any more but quite happy I had nobody before him.

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Lucky 13. DH, too. We are not each other's 13 though (had a break) so that's a good omen!

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about 20. I don't remember if DH was 20 or 21. I met him when I was 25, fresh out of grad school. Just him since.

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Man here, about 30. Seems pretty typical, according to previous posts.

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Gah, gross.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm shocked at the amount of "one only" people.

Me, too--and I'm one of them! Dh and I were both each other's firsts in college.

They either met their spouses very young or very physically unattractive (not meaning to be rude but I know some couples like this) or very shy.

Why? Literally everyone I know who has slept with one person fits one of the three categories.

NP- I think the opposite is true. The unattractive, chunky women always have higher numbers. It's a self-esteem thing or daddy issues. The really attractive, undamaged women aren't sleeping around.

they are the serial monogamists.

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4 including DH. First time I was 22 in grad school and didn't enjoy it. Second and third guys were OK but needy. Met DH at age 24 but didn't date for two years. Then, OMG! Still going strong many years later. He really aims to please in so many ways.

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Anonymous wrote:For those who have been with several partners, is your significant other aware of your number?

17:18 here. I don't think I've ever mentioned a number to him but DH knows I had sex with a ton of guys in my teens & early 20s .

My wife was a self proclaimed slut before we met. Don't know her number, don't care.

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Around 30. Not chunky, ugly or damaged.

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I think DH is 13 or 14. I was 31 when we met.

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Op I don't think 20-25 is a lot. I know people with over 100 partners.
I'm 32 I've had 21 partners not including women.

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Anonymous wrote:Op I don't think 20-25 is a lot. I know people with over 100 partners.
I'm 32 I've had 21 partners not including women.

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I agree, 20-25 doesn't strike me as a lot either.