How many men have you slept with?

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Anonymous wrote:Only 1 , my husband.

Thanks Honey, that was what I was hoping to hear!

Why? MYOB.

Wow, one.

I work in higher ed, and I'm relieved to report that young women today will never settle for the first guy they sleep with.

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Anonymous wrote:1 and i am so so so depressed about it. Wtf do i do???

wait until your husband dies?

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Anonymous wrote:Ashamed to say, about 50. I was a big slut in college. Married my DH at age 26.

You're not marriage material

Obviously her husband disagrees.

What did her husband say when he found out she was the biggest slut in college? If someone told me that I would imagine trains, drunken casual sex, sex tapes, etc. but maybe her hubby wants to be a cuck? I don't see an alpha guy wanting someone like that.

It's disturbing that just because someone has slept with a lot of people that you assume they've made sex tapes and had trains run on them. Step away from the porn, dude.

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I'm not a "dude" dumbass. Obviously to be a slut you are being a risk taker especially in college where drinking and sex is easier. Guess you live in a bubble.

Sweetheart, I'm sorry you're bitter about having forgone fun opportunities and not having had it pay off for you. Or maybe you're just ugly and wishing that you can raise your own stock by not having casual sex (sorry, that's not how it works). Your vitriol directed at other women is disturbing and very obviously rooted in jealousy and bitterness. If you become a nicer person, your life will get better.
Signed - a woman whose slept with at least 30+ men and currently married to an "alpha."

Sweetie I am happily engaged to the hottest young surgeon in dc/pa and I do not care if you believe me or not because you obviously have enough time to troll and defend your promiscuous life. Its obvious by you being so thin skinned and clearly ashamed of your past for taking a strangers words to heart and offending you. I could care less if you clapped your booty naked for free with every guy you met but you might want to take a look at your life to improve your self esteem.


Signed,
Young attractive woman with high self esteem with a similar true "alpha" SO

..... Who will be divorced in under a year......

Bitter much?

Not even a little bit, you just sound really immature. Not ready for marriage. Or any modicum of self awareness. But I'm pretty sure you won't understand that observation.

No mature adult tells a woman that she not "marriage material" & destined for divorce just because she had a high number of sexual partners prior to meeting her husband & no intelligent adult still seriously buys into that kind of black & white, puritanical thinking in 2016.

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Anonymous wrote:Ashamed to say, about 50. I was a big slut in college. Married my DH at age 26.

You're not marriage material

Obviously her husband disagrees.

What did her husband say when he found out she was the biggest slut in college? If someone told me that I would imagine trains, drunken casual sex, sex tapes, etc. but maybe her hubby wants to be a cuck? I don't see an alpha guy wanting someone like that.

It's disturbing that just because someone has slept with a lot of people that you assume they've made sex tapes and had trains run on them. Step away from the porn, dude.

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I'm not a "dude" dumbass. Obviously to be a slut you are being a risk taker especially in college where drinking and sex is easier. Guess you live in a bubble.

Sweetheart, I'm sorry you're bitter about having forgone fun opportunities and not having had it pay off for you. Or maybe you're just ugly and wishing that you can raise your own stock by not having casual sex (sorry, that's not how it works). Your vitriol directed at other women is disturbing and very obviously rooted in jealousy and bitterness. If you become a nicer person, your life will get better.
Signed - a woman whose slept with at least 30+ men and currently married to an "alpha."

Sweetie I am happily engaged to the hottest young surgeon in dc/pa and I do not care if you believe me or not because you obviously have enough time to troll and defend your promiscuous life. Its obvious by you being so thin skinned and clearly ashamed of your past for taking a strangers words to heart and offending you. I could care less if you clapped your booty naked for free with every guy you met but you might want to take a look at your life to improve your self esteem.


Signed,
Young attractive woman with high self esteem with a similar true "alpha" SO

..... Who will be divorced in under a year......

Bitter much?

Not even a little bit, you just sound really immature. Not ready for marriage. Or any modicum of self awareness. But I'm pretty sure you won't understand that observation.

No mature adult tells a woman that she not "marriage material" & destined for divorce just because she had a high number of sexual partners prior to meeting her husband & no intelligent adult still seriously buys into that kind of black & white, puritanical thinking in 2016.

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I met DH at 21, I am 41 now.

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Ho, ho, the price is low!

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Anonymous wrote:I hope you ladies that gave it up to so many guys and were adventurous in your youth continue to share your best treasures with your husbands. Oral, anal, threesomes, whatever. If you gave these things to your throwaway boy toys I hope hubby gets the goods too.

Most of the time, that's not the way it works out.

Why is that? Then what good is the experience they boast about?

Lol, fool, they enjoyed their lives. That was what's good about it.
In any case, sexy husbands get laid. Unsexy husbands don't get laid. Wife's sexual history has nothing to do with it.

Husbands who have wives with sexy hormones get laid. Husbands who have wives with asexual hormones don't get laid. Wife's sexual history may or may not be an indication of her hormonal tendencies.

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Except when they get older and finding attractive men to pull becomes less frequent. As attractive successful men settle down there's less options for these types of women. They will end up settling for someone they wouldn't have given the time of day before.

If you every hear a wife/GF say "I normally don't go for his type" or "he's not the type I'm usually attracted to by I like him" that's a huge sign. She has settled and he's not getting laid, but he got fooled into thinking he would.

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another one and done. Got together at 23 and now am 48

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Anonymous wrote:I hope you ladies that gave it up to so many guys and were adventurous in your youth continue to share your best treasures with your husbands. Oral, anal, threesomes, whatever. If you gave these things to your throwaway boy toys I hope hubby gets the goods too.

Most of the time, that's not the way it works out.

Why is that? Then what good is the experience they boast about?

Lol, fool, they enjoyed their lives. That was what's good about it.
In any case, sexy husbands get laid. Unsexy husbands don't get laid. Wife's sexual history has nothing to do with it.

Husbands who have wives with sexy hormones get laid. Husbands who have wives with asexual hormones don't get laid. Wife's sexual history may or may not be an indication of her hormonal tendencies.

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Except when they get older and finding attractive men to pull becomes less frequent. As attractive successful men settle down there's less options for these types of women. They will end up settling for someone they wouldn't have given the time of day before.

If you every hear a wife/GF say "I normally don't go for his type" or "he's not the type I'm usually attracted to by I like him" that's a huge sign. She has settled and he's not getting laid, but he got fooled into thinking he would.

Believe it or not, it is not at all rare for attractive, successful men to end up happily married to "these type of women" so the women don' have to settle.

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One-DH. Married for 20 years . We are 42 and I have no regrets of having multiple partners. Why 30-40 partners ? For what? Yikes. I always wanted to give my body and heart to one man.

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Married 20 years (and faithful since). Female. Fairly typical of my cohort, I think.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm 35. I've slept with close to 50 men. I had a list at once point, but don't know where it is now.

Lost virginity at 15 to summer fling, then slept around during high school and college. I was married from 26-31 and then divorced and have been remarried since I was 33. DH has been my only partner since my divorce. DH knows my approxinumber but isn't keen on talking about it. He says he's fine with the abstract idea of me having other partners but doesn't want to know details. He's had more partners than me and I similarly don't want to know the details.

You must be dying to tell someone the salacious details. I just want you to know I'm here for you

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Around 20

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2 and I'm almost 50 years old never married but in long term relationship

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None. (I'm a heterosexual male.)

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Anonymous wrote:So many people want there to be consequences for female promiscuity. They want women who dare have sex to end up alone, or divorced early, or unhappy. Oh, but boo hoo hoo, that's not how life works. The "slut" may find a great guy and live happily ever after, while you end up cheated on and divorced after "saving yourself." That's real life. Deal with it.

There are consequences (unintended pregnancy, STD's) as well as ones for society when many women go down this path. Just because there are more promiscuous women than in the past doesn't make them marriage material all of a sudden. Husbands of these women, if they were being honest, would prefer a woman with 3 partners over one with 30.