Parents should be sure that their kids are developing other interests and abilities. If they see that their children are coming home from school and doing nothing but studying, they can encourage them to engage in an activity that develops their abilities in arts, athletics, music, or teamwork. Kids have a lot to learn on the way to being adults, and as parents we need to see that our kids are getting the experiences they need to be good and productive adults. If I'm reading applications, and one kid has accomplishments in the categories of academics, arts, athletics, and leadership and another candidate has the same level of accomplishment in academics but nothing else, which applicant is the better choice for my school? When applicants have the same academic achievement, the ones who have time to achieve in other areas concurrently have lots more potential for the future. |
OMG. I agree with this so much! |
This. If someone is truly as gifted in everything as the PP suggested, they will get in on academic merits alone. |
The practice in Chosen is now deployed to maintain the Asian quota in the Ivy League. http://www.theamericanconservative.com/articles/the-myth-of-american-meritocracy/ This is a really convincing article. And I am not a conservative by any means. |
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Parents need to keep the big picture in mind. Focussing on any one category to the exclusion of all else is not doing the best we can for our children.
If our hopes for success for our children are to come true, we need to provide the opportunities for them to develop all of their talents and interests, in addition to encouraging good health and fitness. The academically successful child who engages in a variety of activities is developing the skills needed to be a successful and productive adult. |
| Many of our kids will work for Asian bosses, treated by Asian doctors, and taught by Asian professors... Maybe we should thank them rather than trying to beat them down. |
This is you and I's big picture. I try my best to encourage my child to try a variety of things as well. But the picture for the society is absolutely what the PP said. The scientific breakthroughs are absolutely carried out by the studious hyper-focused individuals. They need a place to flourish. The Stuvys of world is as appropriate a place as any other place. |
? Many of "us" actually are Asian-American. |
Points well taken. Fair point. |
And we, too, will be working for Asian-Americans. I'm Asian. My direct manager is Asian. I'm in high tech. |
| The new gen Asian kids - US born, late 80 kids - are starting to hit the work force with pretty impressive resume. It's the beginning. |
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Steve Jobs was extremely well rounded and extremely successful. He would never have thought of adding fonts to the Mac if it weren't for a calligraphy class that he took after dropping out of college. You are making a sweeping generalization, PP. http://www.ncregister.com/daily-news/what-a-calligrapher-priest-taught-steve-jobs |
But it was the other Steve who really invented Apple computer. Steve Jobs is a visionary but scientist he is not. |
If it weren't for Jobs, Wozniak would've just been a computer club geek with some cool ideas. Jobs had the sense to partner up with Wozniak, who was a shy engineer content at staying at HP. Someone asked him if he could improve Atari's video game and he had the sense to recruit Wozniak. Many visionaries partner up with technical people to make their ideas become a reality. Look at Alexander Graham Bell (another college dropout) and Thomas Watson, for example. I realize that Wozniak was more than a technician and was very much an inventor, but he didn't have the bold vision to do much with his ideas. He needed Jobs to draw it out of him. |