Size 14, pretty face, 215 pounds. Would you date me?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I say this as an overweight person.

First of all, if you are 215 lbs at 5'8 you are not a size 14. I'm a 12 and weigh 180, same height.

Secondly - I can't stand when fat women say they have big boobs (again, I do too). Boobs are made of fat. You have big boobs because you are fat.

I don't think it would hurt to start dating - but you have to be realistic about your options. And don't post a pic where you are way skinnier than you are now.

It depends how you carry your weight. I am overweight 5'5 and weight 194lbs and am a size 14 ( some are baggy 14 depending on brand i.e not tight) so 19lbs and 3inches taller could definitely be a size 14. Just because it is not for you doesn't mean it is not for her bodytype.

I think PP's pictures already prove that. Can we put the questioning of size behind us now and answer OP based on the girl she said best represented her?

Thanks

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP again- this is the body that most closely resembles mine, except my boobs are much bigger. Thanks for posting, PP!

http://www.mybodygallery.com/photos-30575-body-shape.htm?StartAt=4#.U6r8YYm9LCR

Body like her and much bigger boobs? OP, in my single days I would have kidnapped a world leader to meet someone like you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP again- this is the body that most closely resembles mine, except my boobs are much bigger. Thanks for posting, PP!

http://www.mybodygallery.com/photos-30575-body-shape.htm?StartAt=4#.U6r8YYm9LCR

Whatever, OP. Yes, you are super hot, look like you weigh 50 pounds less than you actually do, and everyone would date you.
Happy now?

http://www.mybodygallery.com/photos-40731-body-shape.htm?StartAt=5#.U6sen_ldXy4

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Same stats all size 14. I can't believe there are so many women that don't even understand that bodies differ

http://www.mybodygallery.com/photos-40671-body-shape.htm?StartAt=0#.U6r3kCm9LCQ
http://www.mybodygallery.com/photos-30575-body-shape.htm?StartAt=4#.U6r3uym9LCQ
http://www.mybodygallery.com/photos-30574-body-shape.htm?StartAt=5#.U6r31Cm9LCQ
http://www.mybodygallery.com/photos-29310-body-shape.htm?StartAt=6#.U6r4Cim9LCQ
http://www.mybodygallery.com/photos-22795-body-shape.htm?StartAt=8#.U6r4Iym9LCQ
http://www.mybodygallery.com/photos-39156-body-shape.htm?StartAt=1#.U6r4Rym9LCQ

They are all fat , what's the point

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Same stats all size 14. I can't believe there are so many women that don't even understand that bodies differ

http://www.mybodygallery.com/photos-40671-body-shape.htm?StartAt=0#.U6r3kCm9LCQ
http://www.mybodygallery.com/photos-30575-body-shape.htm?StartAt=4#.U6r3uym9LCQ
http://www.mybodygallery.com/photos-30574-body-shape.htm?StartAt=5#.U6r31Cm9LCQ
http://www.mybodygallery.com/photos-29310-body-shape.htm?StartAt=6#.U6r4Cim9LCQ
http://www.mybodygallery.com/photos-22795-body-shape.htm?StartAt=8#.U6r4Iym9LCQ
http://www.mybodygallery.com/photos-39156-body-shape.htm?StartAt=1#.U6r4Rym9LCQ

Not one of them appeal to me. I guess I am just not into overweight/obese women ...... but some men are and so there is hope. The other thing that would concern me is if a woman were markedly overweight before having children, she'd probably look like an Amazon after she has a couple.

[Anonymous]

Oral and Anal on 1st date will help a lot.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Same stats all size 14. I can't believe there are so many women that don't even understand that bodies differ

http://www.mybodygallery.com/photos-40671-body-shape.htm?StartAt=0#.U6r3kCm9LCQ
http://www.mybodygallery.com/photos-30575-body-shape.htm?StartAt=4#.U6r3uym9LCQ
http://www.mybodygallery.com/photos-30574-body-shape.htm?StartAt=5#.U6r31Cm9LCQ
http://www.mybodygallery.com/photos-29310-body-shape.htm?StartAt=6#.U6r4Cim9LCQ
http://www.mybodygallery.com/photos-22795-body-shape.htm?StartAt=8#.U6r4Iym9LCQ
http://www.mybodygallery.com/photos-39156-body-shape.htm?StartAt=1#.U6r4Rym9LCQ

They are all fat , what's the point

The point was to refute all the posters saying she couldn't be a size 14. Okay you think size 14 is fat. Duly noted. I think less than 6 inches means Vienna sausage. There are people that like all shapes and sizes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm very curvy (big boobs) but yeah. Those are my stats. Face is very pretty (natural blonde, green eyes) but I'm overweight. Should I bother starting with online dating or lose weight first? I'm 5'8.

Depends on who you're trying to attract. If you wanna attract guys that are shallow, superficial or seeking arm candy I'd say lose the weight first.

[Anonymous]

All these fat women coming to the defense of OP is hilarious.

If you are fat and you know you are fat then do something about it and lose some weight instead of trying to justify your obesity. For most people all it needs is a change in lifestyle and your uncontrolled eating.

There is discrimination against fat people in terms of their social life, their job prospects, chances of promotion, their health, their self esteem, etc. Just do something about it rather than getting all defensive about people pointing out some home truths.

Quite honestly, I don't care about adults who eat uncontrollably and get obese but it does bother me a lot when I see their children following suit because you are condemning them to the same sort of handicaps that you face. I view it as tantamount to child abuse.

[Anonymous]

OP, you have two choices:

1. Lose weight, have wider dating selection
2. Not lose weight and find men who specifically go for big women (they definitely do exist though are not the majority. I believe there are dating websites for big ladies and their admirers) or men who don't care about looks (I think that would be pretty hard, actually).

Only you can say how hard it is for you to lose weight and how fast you can do it, as compared to how worth it would be for you. Keep in mind that if you lose weight, find a guy who likes the 150lb you and then put all the weight back on (happens frequently), you may have a major problem as that wasn't what the man signed up for.

[Anonymous]

I also believe that there is a lid for (mostly) every (sane) pot, but also that OP's weight limits her opportunities and selection. If you have a great personality and that doesn't matter so much to you, then don't worry about it, OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP again- this is the body that most closely resembles mine, except my boobs are much bigger. Thanks for posting, PP!

http://www.mybodygallery.com/photos-30575-body-shape.htm?StartAt=4#.U6r8YYm9LCR

BULLSHIT.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP again- this is the body that most closely resembles mine, except my boobs are much bigger. Thanks for posting, PP!

http://www.mybodygallery.com/photos-30575-body-shape.htm?StartAt=4#.U6r8YYm9LCR

Whatever, OP. Yes, you are super hot, look like you weigh 50 pounds less than you actually do, and everyone would date you.
Happy now?

http://www.mybodygallery.com/photos-40731-body-shape.htm?StartAt=5#.U6sen_ldXy4

Finally someone online not lying to themselves.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm very curvy (big boobs) but yeah. Those are my stats. Face is very pretty (natural blonde, green eyes) but I'm overweight. Should I bother starting with online dating or lose weight first? I'm 5'8.

Depends on who you're trying to attract. If you wanna attract guys that are shallow, superficial or seeking arm candy I'd say lose the weight first.

So a guy that doesn't want to date a woman who is obese is shallow, superficial, and seeking arm candy? Got it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP again- this is the body that most closely resembles mine, except my boobs are much bigger. Thanks for posting, PP!

http://www.mybodygallery.com/photos-30575-body-shape.htm?StartAt=4#.U6r8YYm9LCR

Whatever, OP. Yes, you are super hot, look like you weigh 50 pounds less than you actually do, and everyone would date you.
Happy now?

http://www.mybodygallery.com/photos-40731-body-shape.htm?StartAt=5#.U6sen_ldXy4

Finally someone online not lying to themselves.

I don't get it. You think the poster here is lying about her weight and pant size? I don't know ANY woman that would say they weigh more than they do.

http://www.mybodygallery.com/photos-30575-body-shape.htm?StartAt=4#.U6r8YYm9LCR