Married neighbors having an affair

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op isn't posting anymore but as a np, I don't get all the hate being spewed. She has a dilemma. It's valid. She's torn up because she can see herself in the pregnant lady's shoes. I get it. I would want someone to tell me. It is humiliating that the whole block knows. But that's not relevant to the question of Myob unless she knows for certain what the pregnant lady's position is on wanting to know. Whether I told would depend on the closeness of my friendship. I would be MYOB with any of my neighbors because I am not close. But I could never keep a secret like that from a best friend who had previously told me she'd want to know.

No, she doesn't have a dilemma. If they broke into her home and were doin the nasty then yes, that would be a dilemma. These are not her lives. Maybe she is missing some drama in her own life and is projecting, I don't know, but she needs to put her own feeling of necessary superiority behind and mind her own business.

[Anonymous]

Is this in Cottage Farm?

[Anonymous]

Oh yeah right. It's burgundy woods and everyone knows who they are. If you don't say something I will.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh yeah right. It's burgundy woods and everyone knows who they are. If you don't say something I will.

If everybody knows, wouldn't it stand to reason that at least one of the spouses also knows?

[Anonymous]

IMO It's worse if one of the spouses knows and is looking the other way, or perhaps they have an open marriage behind closed doors - it isn't something you typically advertise at the neighborhood pool. If you do have an open marriage I would think you would at least sleep with single people!

[Anonymous]

OP back with an update! I thought about it more & decided Im going to wait until after the baby is born, maybe 8-12 weeks out? Then I am going to go to her and just have a discussion with her 1 on 1. I will not show her proof or mention it unless it looks like she doesnt believe me, & then I will. I will also see if the arrival of the baby changes the social scene & if they keep spending time together. Something about them all socializing so often makes it a lot worse. & the cheating woman acting like her best friend, its wrong. I spoke to my neighborhood girlfriends and were all on the same page.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP back with an update! I thought about it more & decided Im going to wait until after the baby is born, maybe 8-12 weeks out? Then I am going to go to her and just have a discussion with her 1 on 1. I will not show her proof or mention it unless it looks like she doesnt believe me, & then I will. I will also see if the arrival of the baby changes the social scene & if they keep spending time together. Something about them all socializing so often makes it a lot worse. & the cheating woman acting like her best friend, its wrong. I spoke to my neighborhood girlfriends and were all on the same page.

You might regret this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

I LIVE NEXT TO THESE PEOPLE FOR HEAVENS SAKE & JUST BOUGHT A BRAND NEW EXPENSIVE HOUSE. But the fact is that they are having an affair. I know that they are having an affair and my husband actually took a picture to show me because he knew I wouldnt believe it. That was a while ago and we noticed a bunch of other stuff after. I am not some crazy old lady making things up about neighbors because I am bored.

I would not be getting involved except that my conscious is really weighing on me.

You sound really awful what with the mention of your BRAND NEW EXPENSIVE "new construction" house. What relevance is any of that? Also, it is your conscience that is allegedly weighing on you, not your "conscious."

Lol Sounded like a John Updike novel

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP back with an update! I thought about it more & decided Im going to wait until after the baby is born, maybe 8-12 weeks out? Then I am going to go to her and just have a discussion with her 1 on 1. I will not show her proof or mention it unless it looks like she doesnt believe me, & then I will. I will also see if the arrival of the baby changes the social scene & if they keep spending time together. Something about them all socializing so often makes it a lot worse. & the cheating woman acting like her best friend, its wrong. I spoke to my neighborhood girlfriends and were all on the same page.

Ha ha! I knew it! OP is a nasty bitch who has already told half the neighborhood. All this talk of trying to do the right thing. And her perverted husband taking pictures!

What a bunch of nasty low-lifes. Karma is a bitch and it's gonna get you!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Lmao. I can't believe all the posters are hating on OP, saying she's going to break up a marriage and is horrible. ....are you fucking kidding me??? OP isn't the one stepping out like her two loser pig neighbors. Bunch of cheating asses on here.

OP is a troll who can not make up her story straight Have you ever seen a woman giving up a baby for adoption because the husband cheats?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP back with an update! I thought about it more & decided Im going to wait until after the baby is born, maybe 8-12 weeks out? Then I am going to go to her and just have a discussion with her 1 on 1. I will not show her proof or mention it unless it looks like she doesnt believe me, & then I will. I will also see if the arrival of the baby changes the social scene & if they keep spending time together. Something about them all socializing so often makes it a lot worse. & the cheating woman acting like her best friend, its wrong. I spoke to my neighborhood girlfriends and were all on the same page.

Wow, she would get attached to the baby. You'd ruin her chance of getting the baby adopted. You have a black heart.

[Anonymous]

OP is the nastiest person on DCUM, and that is saying something.


She is nasty for the sake of being nasty! Or maybe her entire personality is rotten.

She at last have the attention of the neighborhood. And she is doing it out of jealously. I bet the other neighbors have bigger and better houses than her.

[Anonymous]

I would want to know, nosey neighbor or not. I don't have low self esteem enough to stay in a marriage in which my partner is intimate with someone else.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP back with an update! I thought about it more & decided Im going to wait until after the baby is born, maybe 8-12 weeks out? Then I am going to go to her and just have a discussion with her 1 on 1. I will not show her proof or mention it unless it looks like she doesnt believe me, & then I will. I will also see if the arrival of the baby changes the social scene & if they keep spending time together. Something about them all socializing so often makes it a lot worse. & the cheating woman acting like her best friend, its wrong. I spoke to my neighborhood girlfriends and were all on the same page.

Ha ha! I knew it! OP is a nasty bitch who has already told half the neighborhood. All this talk of trying to do the right thing. And her perverted husband taking pictures!

What a bunch of nasty low-lifes. Karma is a bitch and it's gonna get you!

OP needs to get a life or hobby ASAP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would want to know, nosey neighbor or not. I don't have low self esteem enough to stay in a marriage in which my partner is intimate with someone else.

Again, you are you. You do not speak for every single human being on this fucking planet. So - everyone MYOB

Why is this such a difficult concept for people to grasp!