Rattled by a friend’s comment- what did she really mean?

[Anonymous]

If it's California she could just mean the tax code or various overreaches of government. Meaning California liberal politics. Not federal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She was telling you she voted for Trump. I don't know if she wanted you to be "one of the good ones" and signal back that you did too, or if she was trying to subtly gloat that her side is ascendant so now she doesn't have to pretend to care anymore about "celebrating all the holidays" and "having civil discourse with people in an interracial marriage."

This. Pay attention OP

[Anonymous]

I don’t know if it has been mentioned already in the thread, but I really hate how white people and republicans stole the real definition of what it means to be “woke”.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don’t know if it has been mentioned already in the thread, but I really hate how white people and republicans stole the real definition of what it means to be “woke”.

They didn’t steal it, they’re just mocking it.

[Anonymous]

Let me venture a guess.
Your husband is OK bc he is Asian, it's the Blacks & Hispanics she has trouble with. Your husband seems white adjacent to her & thus, she could express herself.

Several interracial couples I know have expressed a similar sentiment.

Suerte with this "relationship"

[Anonymous]

So many performers.