. You failed the assignment, pp. Or maybe you are just a jerk. |
I can relate to wrong timing. It is what it is. I hope you both find each other again. |
Send him a note to the department. |
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Lol, I feel the opposite. I went to PSU for freshman year during the Paterno days. A younger Paterno was in my English class. I chose PSU because it was in-state, well-priced, and had every major. I didn't know what I wanted to major in so I didn't want my parents to pay for an expensive school like the Ivy they went to. My parents never intervened in my choice because my reasons seemed logical and they had both picked their own colleges without parental intervention. Other than the classes, I had a terrible time at PSU. I got straight As, but had to deal with a mentally ill roommate, drunks, poor advising, dorm vandalism on big game nights, and personal safety issues. I GTFO'd after freshman year. I probably should have gone to my parents' Ivy or a SLAC. However, I transferred to Pitt and was happy there. I definitely needed to be somewhere with less emphasis on football and drinking. |
Not realizing that I was worthy in the relationship I had with my first love. My lack of confidence then caused me to spiral later on. |
Just chiming in to say that this is really crappy of him. Making his wish a change in your behavior rather than changing his own. Super gross, especially because you were thinking of him and the relationship and weighing that against what you personally wanted (which is what people do in partnerships). No wonder you were mad. |
My declining health |
When other people believed in me, I didn't believe in myself. This was in my career, sports, art... everything, really. |
ugh, SAME! |
Not being more confident about people liking me and joining the sorority.
(I did do a junior year abroad) |
I do wish that I had the tools when I was much younger and married DH (amazing man, father, partner, lover) to find a way to commingle our families in a healthy way. We are both from different backgrounds and the disagreements from both sides was exhausting. At some point we had to choose a side and I chose my DH's family (more mentally stable). With that, I lost any closeness I had with my own family and eventually drifted apart where there is no communication. I wish I knew more when I was younger, wish I had someone outside of my DH to guide me. I do miss my family every single day, but the bridge is burned. |
Only a year on The Hound? I would argue you’re not yet finished. |
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I think I know you. I remember having a conversation with a very good friend who thought she was being smart and conservative with her money, and didn't understand what she was giving up. This is the main problem with forcing people to manage their own retirement money. |