Why do married men fall for younger women?

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Anonymous wrote:It helps them delay admitting to themselves that they are going to die someday.


It's a hell of a lot simpler than that, sweetheart.

Older women always play the mortality card because they themsleves cant deal with the fact that they have spoiled.


Older women don't "spoil", they mature. Think wine, scotch... You have to refine your palate to appreciate these things.

If you're still in your wine cooler phase, well, that's your loss.


Men age like wine. Women age like milk. I understand why that bothers you, I do.


My post will probably get deleted, but most white males do not age like fine wine, they age like milk. Just keep your wallet full or keep your political power and you’ll be fine. I hardly think Green’s side piece was attracted to his body. You think she’d be with him if he were working at Home Depot?


Look, Hollywood picks older males and younger women for a reason. Mother nature has an expiration date for all women. It's just a fact. Don't be a hater.

My son just graduated HS in June and we must have gone to two dozen grad parties. Without question, every single one of the dads looked objectively better than the moms. Same with college drop off . The moms at drop off looked haggard af from carrying bags up a flight of steps! I'm 50, btw.


Yeah, you're 50, not 20, not 30. You're looking at these men through 50yo eyes. Unless a 40-50yo man has $ and a good job, explain the point in a 20/30yo woman being interested in him? If he can't provide for the 20-30yo, there's no point in that woman wasting her youth on the over 40yo guy.

Yes, yes, I'm sure all of the 40-50yo dads you encounter could be mistaken for Henry Cavill.


You should be right, but I'm living proof that in Washington, DC on the dating apps in 2024, it is very easy for a mid-40s man with a good job (not a millionaire) to regularity date ands sleep with 22-27yo women.



Congrats? I’m a 40s woman who can also date and sleep with 20s men on dating apps.

It’s not hard to get a 20-something to sleep with you. 20-somethings are horny and want to experiment.

Men like to pretend they’re the only ones who can sleep with younger people but it’s just not true. MILF p0rn is one of the most popular categories. Plenty of young guys want an older woman to show him the ropes.

But it’s very rare for someone to marry someone 20 years older unless there is substantial money involved. And now that more women have more money, we’re starting to see that they, too, can find a young guy to marry them in exchange for money.
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Hell yeah I'm 25 and I love FUPA
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Anonymous wrote:It helps them delay admitting to themselves that they are going to die someday.


It's a hell of a lot simpler than that, sweetheart.

Older women always play the mortality card because they themsleves cant deal with the fact that they have spoiled.


Older women don't "spoil", they mature. Think wine, scotch... You have to refine your palate to appreciate these things.

If you're still in your wine cooler phase, well, that's your loss.


Men age like wine. Women age like milk. I understand why that bothers you, I do.


My post will probably get deleted, but most white males do not age like fine wine, they age like milk. Just keep your wallet full or keep your political power and you’ll be fine. I hardly think Green’s side piece was attracted to his body. You think she’d be with him if he were working at Home Depot?


Look, Hollywood picks older males and younger women for a reason. Mother nature has an expiration date for all women. It's just a fact. Don't be a hater.

My son just graduated HS in June and we must have gone to two dozen grad parties. Without question, every single one of the dads looked objectively better than the moms. Same with college drop off . The moms at drop off looked haggard af from carrying bags up a flight of steps! I'm 50, btw.


Yeah, you're 50, not 20, not 30. You're looking at these men through 50yo eyes. Unless a 40-50yo man has $ and a good job, explain the point in a 20/30yo woman being interested in him? If he can't provide for the 20-30yo, there's no point in that woman wasting her youth on the over 40yo guy.

Yes, yes, I'm sure all of the 40-50yo dads you encounter could be mistaken for Henry Cavill.


You should be right, but I'm living proof that in Washington, DC on the dating apps in 2024, it is very easy for a mid-40s man with a good job (not a millionaire) to regularity date ands sleep with 22-27yo women.



Congrats? I’m a 40s woman who can also date and sleep with 20s men on dating apps.

It’s not hard to get a 20-something to sleep with you. 20-somethings are horny and want to experiment.

Men like to pretend they’re the only ones who can sleep with younger people but it’s just not true. MILF p0rn is one of the most popular categories. Plenty of young guys want an older woman to show him the ropes.

But it’s very rare for someone to marry someone 20 years older unless there is substantial money involved. And now that more women have more money, we’re starting to see that they, too, can find a young guy to marry them in exchange for money.


Why would you come here and brag about being a slerm dump?
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Anonymous wrote:It helps them delay admitting to themselves that they are going to die someday.


It's a hell of a lot simpler than that, sweetheart.

Older women always play the mortality card because they themsleves cant deal with the fact that they have spoiled.


Older women don't "spoil", they mature. Think wine, scotch... You have to refine your palate to appreciate these things.

If you're still in your wine cooler phase, well, that's your loss.


Men age like wine. Women age like milk. I understand why that bothers you, I do.


My post will probably get deleted, but most white males do not age like fine wine, they age like milk. Just keep your wallet full or keep your political power and you’ll be fine. I hardly think Green’s side piece was attracted to his body. You think she’d be with him if he were working at Home Depot?


Look, Hollywood picks older males and younger women for a reason. Mother nature has an expiration date for all women. It's just a fact. Don't be a hater.

My son just graduated HS in June and we must have gone to two dozen grad parties. Without question, every single one of the dads looked objectively better than the moms. Same with college drop off . The moms at drop off looked haggard af from carrying bags up a flight of steps! I'm 50, btw.


Yeah, you're 50, not 20, not 30. You're looking at these men through 50yo eyes. Unless a 40-50yo man has $ and a good job, explain the point in a 20/30yo woman being interested in him? If he can't provide for the 20-30yo, there's no point in that woman wasting her youth on the over 40yo guy.

Yes, yes, I'm sure all of the 40-50yo dads you encounter could be mistaken for Henry Cavill.


You should be right, but I'm living proof that in Washington, DC on the dating apps in 2024, it is very easy for a mid-40s man with a good job (not a millionaire) to regularity date ands sleep with 22-27yo women.



Congrats? I’m a 40s woman who can also date and sleep with 20s men on dating apps.

It’s not hard to get a 20-something to sleep with you. 20-somethings are horny and want to experiment.

Men like to pretend they’re the only ones who can sleep with younger people but it’s just not true. MILF p0rn is one of the most popular categories. Plenty of young guys want an older woman to show him the ropes.

But it’s very rare for someone to marry someone 20 years older unless there is substantial money involved. And now that more women have more money, we’re starting to see that they, too, can find a young guy to marry them in exchange for money.


Why would you come here and brag about being a slerm dump?


Lol. Someone got triggered.
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Anonymous wrote:No 20 something man sees a woman in her 40s as long term relationship material. Banging a milf sure why not.


You miss my point: No 20-something woman is going into a LTR with a 40+ man unless money/security is involved. You think a 20-something woman is moving in with a 40-something guy living at his mom's house?

Do you seriously think there aren't 20-something guys looking to be "kept," too? It's just that most women wouldn't want to be used like that, but most men don't really care because they think with their ____.

The person to whom I responded was talking about dating/sex which anyone can get whether for free or paying for it. This is about a LTR. Mark Green is 60 friggin years old. That 32yo woman would not be with him for the long haul if he wasn't in Congress and that's why he's going back after saying he wouldn't. Mark my words, it was intoxicating for her to be with a powerful politician, not grandpa working as a greeter at Walmart.
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Anonymous wrote:It helps them delay admitting to themselves that they are going to die someday.


It's a hell of a lot simpler than that, sweetheart.

Older women always play the mortality card because they themsleves cant deal with the fact that they have spoiled.


Older women don't "spoil", they mature. Think wine, scotch... You have to refine your palate to appreciate these things.

If you're still in your wine cooler phase, well, that's your loss.


Men age like wine. Women age like milk. I understand why that bothers you, I do.


My post will probably get deleted, but most white males do not age like fine wine, they age like milk. Just keep your wallet full or keep your political power and you’ll be fine. I hardly think Green’s side piece was attracted to his body. You think she’d be with him if he were working at Home Depot?


Look, Hollywood picks older males and younger women for a reason. Mother nature has an expiration date for all women. It's just a fact. Don't be a hater.

My son just graduated HS in June and we must have gone to two dozen grad parties. Without question, every single one of the dads looked objectively better than the moms. Same with college drop off . The moms at drop off looked haggard af from carrying bags up a flight of steps! I'm 50, btw.


Omg. So not true. I also just stopped a son off at college and this was not the case—-maybe because it was an elite school— but the moms, self included, were all in better shape or save shape—- Pilates, weights, hot yoga, boot camp, running.

At my 30th HS reunion I could recognize any of the men—fat, bald, old— but my girlfriends all looked the same. A few old make HS friends were offended when I didn’t recognize them.
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Anonymous wrote:No 20 something man sees a woman in her 40s as long term relationship material. Banging a milf sure why not.


You miss my point: No 20-something woman is going into a LTR with a 40+ man unless money/security is involved. You think a 20-something woman is moving in with a 40-something guy living at his mom's house?

Do you seriously think there aren't 20-something guys looking to be "kept," too? It's just that most women wouldn't want to be used like that, but most men don't really care because they think with their ____.

The person to whom I responded was talking about dating/sex which anyone can get whether for free or paying for it. This is about a LTR. Mark Green is 60 friggin years old. That 32yo woman would not be with him for the long haul if he wasn't in Congress and that's why he's going back after saying he wouldn't. Mark my words, it was intoxicating for her to be with a powerful politician, not grandpa working as a greeter at Walmart.


+1. Men who think it’s because they “age like wine” are delusional. A 20 year old is not going to marry an average middle class man, and especially not after he loses half of everything in a divorce and has to move into an apartment with a mattress on the floor.

There is a very small percentage of men who attract a small percentage of women because they offer financial security to women who don’t want to work and view their own success depends on which man they can land rather than what they themselves can accomplish.

And that’s fine. It works for them (sometimes….they also have a very high divorce rate). But the average 50 year old man will not be able to get a 25 year old to marry him.
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Anonymous wrote:No 20 something man sees a woman in her 40s as long term relationship material. Banging a milf sure why not.


You miss my point: No 20-something woman is going into a LTR with a 40+ man unless money/security is involved. You think a 20-something woman is moving in with a 40-something guy living at his mom's house?

Do you seriously think there aren't 20-something guys looking to be "kept," too? It's just that most women wouldn't want to be used like that, but most men don't really care because they think with their ____.

The person to whom I responded was talking about dating/sex which anyone can get whether for free or paying for it. This is about a LTR. Mark Green is 60 friggin years old. That 32yo woman would not be with him for the long haul if he wasn't in Congress and that's why he's going back after saying he wouldn't. Mark my words, it was intoxicating for her to be with a powerful politician, not grandpa working as a greeter at Walmart.


+1. Men who think it’s because they “age like wine” are delusional. A 20 year old is not going to marry an average middle class man, and especially not after he loses half of everything in a divorce and has to move into an apartment with a mattress on the floor.

There is a very small percentage of men who attract a small percentage of women because they offer financial security to women who don’t want to work and view their own success depends on which man they can land rather than what they themselves can accomplish.

And that’s fine. It works for them (sometimes….they also have a very high divorce rate). But the average 50 year old man will not be able to get a 25 year old to marry him.


Exactly. I mean I'm sorry, but no, just no. Fine wine? Please. He's Boones Farm

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Anonymous wrote:No 20 something man sees a woman in her 40s as long term relationship material. Banging a milf sure why not.


You miss my point: No 20-something woman is going into a LTR with a 40+ man unless money/security is involved. You think a 20-something woman is moving in with a 40-something guy living at his mom's house?

Do you seriously think there aren't 20-something guys looking to be "kept," too? It's just that most women wouldn't want to be used like that, but most men don't really care because they think with their ____.

The person to whom I responded was talking about dating/sex which anyone can get whether for free or paying for it. This is about a LTR. Mark Green is 60 friggin years old. That 32yo woman would not be with him for the long haul if he wasn't in Congress and that's why he's going back after saying he wouldn't. Mark my words, it was intoxicating for her to be with a powerful politician, not grandpa working as a greeter at Walmart.


+1. Men who think it’s because they “age like wine” are delusional. A 20 year old is not going to marry an average middle class man, and especially not after he loses half of everything in a divorce and has to move into an apartment with a mattress on the floor.

There is a very small percentage of men who attract a small percentage of women because they offer financial security to women who don’t want to work and view their own success depends on which man they can land rather than what they themselves can accomplish.

And that’s fine. It works for them (sometimes….they also have a very high divorce rate). But the average 50 year old man will not be able to get a 25 year old to marry him.


Exactly. I mean I'm sorry, but no, just no. Fine wine? Please. He's Boones Farm



Haha. Yes, and his soon to be ex-wife looks decent. Seems like she was doing sports and not let herself go
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Anonymous wrote:It helps them delay admitting to themselves that they are going to die someday.


This is it.

It also conveniently ensures that the new wife will outlive them and be able to care for them when they are dying.

There’s a marriage like this in my husband’s family that is currently ending and that was the husband’s reasoning for marrying his third wife. She’s 15 years younger than him. Once he got sick and had to stop working, she moved out.
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Anonymous wrote:I don't see what the big deal is. People change. **shrugs**


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Anonymous wrote:It helps them delay admitting to themselves that they are going to die someday.


It's a hell of a lot simpler than that, sweetheart.

Older women always play the mortality card because they themsleves cant deal with the fact that they have spoiled.


Older women don't "spoil", they mature. Think wine, scotch... You have to refine your palate to appreciate these things.

If you're still in your wine cooler phase, well, that's your loss.


Men age like wine. Women age like milk. I understand why that bothers you, I do.


My post will probably get deleted, but most white males do not age like fine wine, they age like milk. Just keep your wallet full or keep your political power and you’ll be fine. I hardly think Green’s side piece was attracted to his body. You think she’d be with him if he were working at Home Depot?


Look, Hollywood picks older males and younger women for a reason. Mother nature has an expiration date for all women. It's just a fact. Don't be a hater.

My son just graduated HS in June and we must have gone to two dozen grad parties. Without question, every single one of the dads looked objectively better than the moms. Same with college drop off . The moms at drop off looked haggard af from carrying bags up a flight of steps! I'm 50, btw.


Married men have the longest life expectancy in the world. Followed by single women, then single men, then married women.

I wonder why


This is untrue. Educated single women never married no children have longer life expectancy than married women and married and single men.

I’ve done the research repeatedly for 20 years now. If you’ve found some other contrary source, please cite to it.


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Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It helps them delay admitting to themselves that they are going to die someday.


It's a hell of a lot simpler than that, sweetheart.

Older women always play the mortality card because they themsleves cant deal with the fact that they have spoiled.


Older women don't "spoil", they mature. Think wine, scotch... You have to refine your palate to appreciate these things.

If you're still in your wine cooler phase, well, that's your loss.


Men age like wine. Women age like milk. I understand why that bothers you, I do.


My post will probably get deleted, but most white males do not age like fine wine, they age like milk. Just keep your wallet full or keep your political power and you’ll be fine. I hardly think Green’s side piece was attracted to his body. You think she’d be with him if he were working at Home Depot?


Look, Hollywood picks older males and younger women for a reason. Mother nature has an expiration date for all women. It's just a fact. Don't be a hater.

My son just graduated HS in June and we must have gone to two dozen grad parties. Without question, every single one of the dads looked objectively better than the moms. Same with college drop off . The moms at drop off looked haggard af from carrying bags up a flight of steps! I'm 50, btw.


Yeah, you're 50, not 20, not 30. You're looking at these men through 50yo eyes. Unless a 40-50yo man has $ and a good job, explain the point in a 20/30yo woman being interested in him? If he can't provide for the 20-30yo, there's no point in that woman wasting her youth on the over 40yo guy.

Yes, yes, I'm sure all of the 40-50yo dads you encounter could be mistaken for Henry Cavill.


You should be right, but I'm living proof that in Washington, DC on the dating apps in 2024, it is very easy for a mid-40s man with a good job (not a millionaire) to regularity date ands sleep with 22-27yo women.



Congrats? I’m a 40s woman who can also date and sleep with 20s men on dating apps.

It’s not hard to get a 20-something to sleep with you. 20-somethings are horny and want to experiment.

Men like to pretend they’re the only ones who can sleep with younger people but it’s just not true. MILF p0rn is one of the most popular categories. Plenty of young guys want an older woman to show him the ropes.

But it’s very rare for someone to marry someone 20 years older unless there is substantial money involved. And now that more women have more money, we’re starting to see that they, too, can find a young guy to marry them in exchange for money.


Hopefully now that women can do it, too, there will be less stigma.
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Anonymous wrote:No 20 something man sees a woman in her 40s as long term relationship material. Banging a milf sure why not.


You miss my point: No 20-something woman is going into a LTR with a 40+ man unless money/security is involved. You think a 20-something woman is moving in with a 40-something guy living at his mom's house?

Do you seriously think there aren't 20-something guys looking to be "kept," too? It's just that most women wouldn't want to be used like that, but most men don't really care because they think with their ____.

The person to whom I responded was talking about dating/sex which anyone can get whether for free or paying for it. This is about a LTR. Mark Green is 60 friggin years old. That 32yo woman would not be with him for the long haul if he wasn't in Congress and that's why he's going back after saying he wouldn't. Mark my words, it was intoxicating for her to be with a powerful politician, not grandpa working as a greeter at Walmart.


+1. Men who think it’s because they “age like wine” are delusional. A 20 year old is not going to marry an average middle class man, and especially not after he loses half of everything in a divorce and has to move into an apartment with a mattress on the floor.

There is a very small percentage of men who attract a small percentage of women because they offer financial security to women who don’t want to work and view their own success depends on which man they can land rather than what they themselves can accomplish.

And that’s fine. It works for them (sometimes….they also have a very high divorce rate). But the average 50 year old man will not be able to get a 25 year old to marry him.


I think it’s … unlikely that the 50 year old’s interest in the 25 year old is marriage.
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Anonymous wrote:It helps them delay admitting to themselves that they are going to die someday.


This is it.

It also conveniently ensures that the new wife will outlive them and be able to care for them when they are dying.

There’s a marriage like this in my husband’s family that is currently ending and that was the husband’s reasoning for marrying his third wife. She’s 15 years younger than him. Once he got sick and had to stop working, she moved out.


Huh. That’s usually the husband’s move.
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