Rough sex amongst teens
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Anonymous
So? Does that mean that they are helpful in this regard (to this discussion)? No, they are generally not. Though you'd hope they would be. |
Anonymous
OT: you should count yourself lucky that you have not encountered the women call themselves boy moms! |
Anonymous
+1 |
Anonymous
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I got three boys. Boys are great.
Girl moms could try to raise fewer snowflakes and role modeling their anxiety onto their daughters, like getting offended by the term “boy moms.” |
Anonymous
It influences girls and women as likely is the reason the pleasure of orgasm for the woman is a low priority- from the NYT article: “While the prevalence of choking has skyrocketed, rates of orgasm among young women have not increased, nor has the “orgasm gap” disappeared among heterosexual couples. “It indicates they’re not doing other things to enhance female arousal or pleasure,” Dr. Herbenick said. When, for instance, she asked one male student who said he choked his partner whether he’d ever tried using a vibrator instead, he recoiled. “Why would I do that?” he asked. Perhaps, she responded, because it would be more likely to produce orgasm without risking, you know, death. In my interviews, college students have seen male orgasm as a given; women’s is nice if it happens, but certainly not expected or necessarily prioritized (by either partner). It makes sense, then, that fulfillment would be less the motivator for choking than appearing adventurous or kinky. Such performances don’t always feel good.” |
Anonymous
Ugh. The orgasm differential and the fact that the article has noticed that in a hetero hook-up, sexual pleasure and gratification (e.g., oral) tends to center on the male. And discomfort or pain (e.g., choking) tends to center on the female. |
Anonymous
If it's so dissatisfying why do women keep going back for more? They could just say "enough" and demand better. |
Anonymous
Are you also the same person saying that girls are trying to engage and how in the world could boys say no to that. How is this not a double standard. How come boys can’t say no. How come boys can’t choose not to engage. Fact is boys date rape drug girls, they assault them, they choke them, they rape them, they talk the girls into doing things and they demean them, and later they slut shame them. Girls do not spike guy drinks, they don’t assault and rape them, they don’t choke them, they don’t slur shame them after. But ah yes, girls should just say no. But what if they do. What if they are at a party and say no, but the guy doesn’t listen and chokes and penetrates her anyway. 99% of boy moms are gonna say, well it’s her fault. She shouldn’t be in a position that the boy is alone and excited with her. This is why 70% of high school and college assaults go unreported. The shaming. But yes, girls should just say no and the poor boys are being pressured by girls. How can they not say no?!? LOL |
Anonymous
| Women’s empowerment has gone so backward. The worst part is that they think they are being modern and progressive but are instead reducing themselves to simply being objects. |
Anonymous
I believe the “orgasm gap” highlighted in the NYT article is serious and not getting better. One way to address this would be to modify family-life-education (ie sex ed) for tweens and teens to be more positive and direct about boys pleasuring girls to the point of orgasm through the varied means available in 2024. While not new, boys performing oral sex needs to be put in a much more positive light so both genders are more accepting, or even make it an expectation. And boys should be encouraged to purchase vibrators for use on their partners; girls should come to expect it, or made to feel to use their own during coitus to achieve orgasm. |