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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The girls are the ones telling the boys to choke them. [/quote]

Yes, the same deluded girls drinking too much and telling boys they love anal. Girls that are desperate for male approval and hoping random hook-ups turn into Mr. Darcy. [/quote]

Yup.  Weird how people don’t understand that our disgusting porn-ified culture influences girls, too.

Unless you are an absolute freaking weirdo, no girl *naturally* wants anal sex, and no girl *naturally* wants to be GD choked.  This is porn influence on a bunch of idiot boys and insecure girls.[/quote]

It influences girls and women as likely is the reason the pleasure of orgasm for the woman is a low priority- from the NYT article:

“While the prevalence of choking has skyrocketed, rates of orgasm among young women have not increased, nor has the “orgasm gap” disappeared among heterosexual couples. “It indicates they’re not doing other things to enhance female arousal or pleasure,” Dr. Herbenick said.

When, for instance, she asked one male student who said he choked his partner whether he’d ever tried using a vibrator instead, he recoiled. “Why would I do that?” he asked.
Perhaps, she responded, because it would be more likely to produce orgasm without risking, you know, death.

In my interviews, college students have seen male orgasm as a given; women’s is nice if it happens, but certainly not expected or necessarily prioritized (by either partner). It makes sense, then, that fulfillment would be less the motivator for choking than appearing adventurous or kinky. Such performances don’t always feel good.”[/quote]

I believe the “orgasm gap” highlighted in the NYT article is serious and not getting better.  One way to address this would be to modify family-life-education (ie sex ed) for tweens and teens to be more positive and direct about boys pleasuring girls to the point of orgasm through the varied means available in 2024.

While not new, boys performing oral sex needs to be put in a much more positive light so both genders are more accepting, or even make it an expectation.  And boys should be encouraged to purchase vibrators for use on their partners; girls should come to expect it, or made to  feel to use their own during coitus to achieve orgasm.[/quote]

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