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My senior NCS daughter is not (nor has regularly been) stressed. The work isn't easy, but she knows how to plan, when to ask for help from a teacher or when to pull together a study group. She has learned these skills at NCS. She feels highly supported by her teachers and classmates. None of her peers ask her what her grades are, but apparently there is a contingent of moms who are convinced they know everything about every student. She and her friends have gotten into a few schools (EA) but have not announced broadly where they are going, because they are waiting on RD after being deferred from ED. They are polite enough not ask specifics of each other until decisions are final. They each choose to share or not, without judgement. It is inappropriate to be making guesses about the current senior class because all the data isn't available and these girls deserve privacy while they await the final decisions. There is plenty of information on SCOIR that junior families can access. I am sure that your daughter has been assigned a college counselor by now and if you have specific concerns you should email that person. If you don't have a junior, just email any of the three. The results (that are public) from the class of '24 are solid but incomplete. Please have the decency to let this play out. Or in simpler terms, get a grip! |
And many on the IG are NOT top 10 (Wake, SC, Syracuse etc.) That said, there are a lot of on-edge families waiting for the end of March with no idea how it's going to go. |
You guys aren't getting my point. I'm not talking about the fact that some COLLEGES allow students to get in early but remain uncommitted until May and apply to other schools. I am talking about the fact that NCS did NOT allow students to apply early action somewhere, get in, and then apply to other schools. Even if the early action admittance was NOT binding on the college's end, NCS required the student to accept. They were not allowed to apply anywhere else. Thus, colleges knew that if an NCS girl got in early action, she was going there and would not apply anywhere else. STA did not have this policy, but NCS did. |
The class of 2025 (current juniors) is the first class to be back fully in-person at NCS and all DMV public and private schools (no virtual grading at all). At my kid's private (not NCS) they have reported that this grade the lowest GPA in a decade (both because they did not get a Covid GPA bump (a real thing even at the private schools because of online grading) and they were also academically behind when they entered 9th grade. |
That is no longer an NCS policy. Nor is it one of any other school. They do request, as a courtesy to other families, for students to withdraw acceptances if they KNOW they will not attend. But it is not a requirement. Most students apply to several early action schools. Many are waiting on ED deferrals and many on RD decisions. |
Previous posters have sited specific schools that some of the class has been rumored to have gotten into and then decided to announce/speculate if they are hooked. This is very inappropriate. This is all still playing out. Better to look at data from previous year. I'm glad those posts were removed.These are teen girls, and highly identifiable. |
Well it doesn’t sound like that’s the case anymore I mean it’s not really relevant is it? It’s just not the case anymore at NCS or anywhere else I am aware of. |
| This is fascinating. I bet anonymous DCUM posters would go ballistic about this but it would really help the school community if they continued such a policy. In recent years at NCS there have been 3.9 girls who have "run the table" on top10 admits during RD and no one below them has gotten in. I think something similar has happened at Sidwell. This is why some schools (GDS) restrict kids from applying to more than 3 reaches (and every top 10 school is considered a reach). |
I agree and I did not post anything about anyone being hooked. Don’t really know to be honest and also don’t know the GPAs of my daughters friends. They don’t discuss it. I will say though if you have a kid in the dmv getting into an Ivy people will discuss it and whether they are hooked so people should get thicker skinned. I don’t like it but it happens so if your kid is hooked people will mention it. |
Nah. You can’t control kids like that. I don’t agree. |
Bad idea. |
People can tour whatever schools they like without any explanations. We are also a Junior parent and our tours probably don’t make sense to anyone else either. |
People may discuss it in person but no one should be discussing it on a public online forum. How would you like to see strangers discussing your daughter and speculating about her qualifications? This thread not only discussed Ivy acceptances/speculation but also girls admitted to other “less competitive” colleges and named those schools. It is unacceptable behavior and hopefully it is removed each time so the individuals doing it will finally stop. |
I asked because I was curious. But I think it's relevant since people are discussing admissions tactics. |
I would not like it and have already said it should not be done. I am just saying it seems to be a pattern on these boards. Also I don’t like them putting down any colleges. |