As a woman what have you learned about men?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men are optimists. They patiently tolerate all the b.s. and hypocrisy ladled out by the women in their lives hoping that one day the woman will suddenly become enlightened. Even though the odds strongly disfavor that ever happening. "But but but only a LOSER baby man expects the woman to pay for a date!!!![said the feminist].". Lol.

Honestly, men are really just more content than women. Y’all complain so much. Just fking chill.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men are optimists. They patiently tolerate all the b.s. and hypocrisy ladled out by the women in their lives hoping that one day the woman will suddenly become enlightened. Even though the odds strongly disfavor that ever happening. "But but but only a LOSER baby man expects the woman to pay for a date!!!![said the feminist].". Lol.

I guarantee if you'd work on that misogynistic anger you'd get laid more often.

[Anonymous]

They are selfish in a way I think most women cannot even fathom, we are socialized so differently. Nothing malicious, but they are very clear in their prioritization of Self.

They are visual and a lot of them are cheaters.

They definitely do not GAF about sexual assault, childhood sexual abuse, sexual harassment, the glass ceiling or any other pernicious plague that affects women and girls disproportionately. See point one.

Women are a lot harder on/more critical of other women’s appearances than men are.

They will do a lot to be with a woman if they want to be with her. There are no mixed signals if a man is into you.

They don’t know how good they have it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Men are optimists. They patiently tolerate all the b.s. and hypocrisy ladled out by the women in their lives hoping that one day the woman will suddenly become enlightened. Even though the odds strongly disfavor that ever happening. "But but but only a LOSER baby man expects the woman to pay for a date!!!![said the feminist].". Lol.

I guarantee if you'd work on that misogynistic anger you'd get laid more often.

I bet if a survey was taken, it would show that people who throw around terms like misogynist and misogynistic anger as part of their regular discussion habits would turn out to be amongst the most angry and frustrated of all. Projecting your hostility and anger onto others isn't a good look.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No man truly wants or expects to carry household responsibilities 50/50.

For many of them, that's because they expect to carry more than 50% of some of the non-household responsibilities.

Such as?

$$$$$

So let me get this straight. Women work the same amount of hours as men and often get paid significantly less for the same work. But somehow you think that because she didn't bring home the same or higher paycheck you get to treat her like hired help.

PS I've always made more than my husband

Add me to the pile of women who work full-time and have always made more than my husband. It is a constant fight to get him to pull his weight.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:They are selfish in a way I think most women cannot even fathom, we are socialized so differently. Nothing malicious, but they are very clear in their prioritization of Self.

They are visual and a lot of them are cheaters.

They definitely do not GAF about sexual assault, childhood sexual abuse, sexual harassment, the glass ceiling or any other pernicious plague that affects women and girls disproportionately. See point one.

Women are a lot harder on/more critical of other women’s appearances than men are.

They will do a lot to be with a woman if they want to be with her. There are no mixed signals if a man is into you.

They don’t know how good they have it.

If you didn't have a good father, or perhaps none was present in your life at all, causing you to be permanently embittered against all men, at some point you will have to acknowledge that your mom shared 50% of the responsibility for helping to create that scenario. You can't have it both ways. You had a mother AND a sperm donor. And both are equally responsible. As an adult, you are 100% responsible for your decision to carry a grudge against all men because Daddy didn't live you or maybe wasn't there at all.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Men are optimists. They patiently tolerate all the b.s. and hypocrisy ladled out by the women in their lives hoping that one day the woman will suddenly become enlightened. Even though the odds strongly disfavor that ever happening. "But but but only a LOSER baby man expects the woman to pay for a date!!!![said the feminist].". Lol.

I guarantee if you'd work on that misogynistic anger you'd get laid more often.

I bet if a survey was taken, it would show that people who throw around terms like misogynist and misogynistic anger as part of their regular discussion habits would turn out to be amongst the most angry and frustrated of all. Projecting your hostility and anger onto others isn't a good look.

And this just shows you how wrong you are. Just upthread I was defending a man for simply expressing what his preferences are in a partner when a bunch of women started laughing at him. You should examine why you have so much hate and hostility towards women. I'm not projecting my anger since I have none towards men (I have a son and a wonderful partner) but you seem to be extremely angry.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:They are selfish in a way I think most women cannot even fathom, we are socialized so differently. Nothing malicious, but they are very clear in their prioritization of Self.

They are visual and a lot of them are cheaters.

They definitely do not GAF about sexual assault, childhood sexual abuse, sexual harassment, the glass ceiling or any other pernicious plague that affects women and girls disproportionately. See point one.

Women are a lot harder on/more critical of other women’s appearances than men are.

They will do a lot to be with a woman if they want to be with her. There are no mixed signals if a man is into you.

They don’t know how good they have it.

Well, that was intense.

[Anonymous]

From this thread, it sounds like women are raising crappy men. Do better, moms.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That an only child/son will have a hard time telling his mommy that she is not the center of the universe. He can have your back and say/do all the right things, but narcissistic mommy who lives about an hour away will make him feel guilty forever.

My DH is one out of 6 siblings, two of tgem are male. He is the only one under mommy's spell while others live their own lives and manipulate his loyalty to make him do 100% instead of a proportionate share.

Its sense of obligation, not being an only child or son, which holds these men enmeshed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:From this thread, it sounds like women are raising crappy men. Do better, moms.

With fathers like you for the sons to look up to, how can they?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:They are selfish in a way I think most women cannot even fathom, we are socialized so differently. Nothing malicious, but they are very clear in their prioritization of Self.

They are visual and a lot of them are cheaters.

They definitely do not GAF about sexual assault, childhood sexual abuse, sexual harassment, the glass ceiling or any other pernicious plague that affects women and girls disproportionately. See point one.

Women are a lot harder on/more critical of other women’s appearances than men are.

They will do a lot to be with a woman if they want to be with her. There are no mixed signals if a man is into you.

They don’t know how good they have it.

If you didn't have a good father, or perhaps none was present in your life at all, causing you to be permanently embittered against all men, at some point you will have to acknowledge that your mom shared 50% of the responsibility for helping to create that scenario. You can't have it both ways. You had a mother AND a sperm donor. And both are equally responsible. As an adult, you are 100% responsible for your decision to carry a grudge against all men because Daddy didn't live you or maybe wasn't there at all.

Or maybe you have blinders on about your own father.

Minus the child abuse statement.... I know a ton of good fathers who do not care about the glass ceiling, sexual harassment (or can't even identify it or call it just joking).

Statistically speaking, most do cheat.

So I'm not sure this is a daddy issue thing but more of a reality thing.

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Anonymous wrote:Men are optimists. They patiently tolerate all the b.s. and hypocrisy ladled out by the women in their lives hoping that one day the woman will suddenly become enlightened. Even though the odds strongly disfavor that ever happening. "But but but only a LOSER baby man expects the woman to pay for a date!!!![said the feminist].". Lol.

I guarantee if you'd work on that misogynistic anger you'd get laid more often.

I bet if a survey was taken, it would show that people who throw around terms like misogynist and misogynistic anger as part of their regular discussion habits would turn out to be amongst the most angry and frustrated of all. Projecting your hostility and anger onto others isn't a good look.

And this just shows you how wrong you are. Just upthread I was defending a man for simply expressing what his preferences are in a partner when a bunch of women started laughing at him. You should examine why you have so much hate and hostility towards women. I'm not projecting my anger since I have none towards men (I have a son and a wonderful partner) but you seem to be extremely angry.

Your poor son. Your poor partner. I pity them.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Men are optimists. They patiently tolerate all the b.s. and hypocrisy ladled out by the women in their lives hoping that one day the woman will suddenly become enlightened. Even though the odds strongly disfavor that ever happening. "But but but only a LOSER baby man expects the woman to pay for a date!!!![said the feminist].". Lol.

I guarantee if you'd work on that misogynistic anger you'd get laid more often.

I bet if a survey was taken, it would show that people who throw around terms like misogynist and misogynistic anger as part of their regular discussion habits would turn out to be amongst the most angry and frustrated of all. Projecting your hostility and anger onto others isn't a good look.

And this just shows you how wrong you are. Just upthread I was defending a man for simply expressing what his preferences are in a partner when a bunch of women started laughing at him. You should examine why you have so much hate and hostility towards women. I'm not projecting my anger since I have none towards men (I have a son and a wonderful partner) but you seem to be extremely angry.

Your poor son. Your poor partner. I pity them.

Like I said, work on that anger issue. Not for me or any woman you might encounter and repulse. But for you! it will make you a lot happier.

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Anonymous wrote:Men are optimists. They patiently tolerate all the b.s. and hypocrisy ladled out by the women in their lives hoping that one day the woman will suddenly become enlightened. Even though the odds strongly disfavor that ever happening. "But but but only a LOSER baby man expects the woman to pay for a date!!!![said the feminist].". Lol.

I guarantee if you'd work on that misogynistic anger you'd get laid more often.

I bet if a survey was taken, it would show that people who throw around terms like misogynist and misogynistic anger as part of their regular discussion habits would turn out to be amongst the most angry and frustrated of all. Projecting your hostility and anger onto others isn't a good look.

And this just shows you how wrong you are. Just upthread I was defending a man for simply expressing what his preferences are in a partner when a bunch of women started laughing at him. You should examine why you have so much hate and hostility towards women. I'm not projecting my anger since I have none towards men (I have a son and a wonderful partner) but you seem to be extremely angry.

Your poor son. Your poor partner. I pity them.

Like I said, work on that anger issue. Not for me or any woman you might encounter and repulse. But for you! it will make you a lot happier.

Projection is when you externalize your own emotions onto someone else because you are too ashamed to acknowledge them in yourself. You surely aren't a mind reader. Your insistence on attributing emotions to other people simply because they don't have the same opinion as.you is classic projection, especially given your insistence on doubling and tripling down when called out in it. Another clue is your insistence that all men are angry except for your "wonderful" husband. Your husband must be wonderful or else it would reflect poorly on you. Narcissist much?