Found a hotel notepad from a hotel we've never stayed at

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I never wasted $ on an AP. It was wham bam. When I take my wife for a getaway or family on vacation we stay at 5-star hotels or luxury Airbnbs.

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Both the frugality and the lavishness described here are pretty sick flexes. But I figure this PP won't comprehend why. I hope his wife is an ex-wife, if not already, then very soon. And that she gets pots and pots of money in the divorce. Since he saved so much by not spending on those APs.

He writes like J1 J2 guy on the Jobs forum.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Promo notepads dont usually have many pieces of paper on them. Sometimes only 5-10. Could DH have just used all of the paper and thrown the cardboard backing piece in the trash?

Or tossed it into his briefcase/backpack. Must be exhausting to live like OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I never wasted $ on an AP. It was wham bam. When I take my wife for a getaway or family on vacation we stay at 5-star hotels or luxury Airbnbs.

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Both the frugality and the lavishness described here are pretty sick flexes. But I figure this PP won't comprehend why. I hope his wife is an ex-wife, if not already, then very soon. And that she gets pots and pots of money in the divorce. Since he saved so much by not spending on those APs.

He writes like J1 J2 guy on the Jobs forum.

Well, now I've gotta go find those posts....Interesting. Maybe that means J1 is job one with family and J2 is job two where there's an AP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t think men having affairs spring for high-end hotels for their dalliances. I would say expect more a Fairfield than Fairmont for that TBH

This is NOT true. I used to work at the Ritz Carlton.

My thoughts exactly. It’s all about the illusion and fantasy for both parties. Especially is the woman is really attractive. He needs to put her on a pedestal in order to cheat. It’s worth it in his mind because she’s so —- (fill in the superlative).

A fancy hotel feeds the ego. The Red Roof Inn says I’m a bad dirty guy who is into bad dirty women. If he’s not self loathing low budget won’t do. He and she must have the best.

But personally I’d let it go. Stick your head back in the sand for now. You have little kids to raise and that’s a tough to do alone when the kids are babies. They need your time and attention focus on them.

Yup. You go high-end when you're punching above your weight as a married man. You need to flash the cash to make the AP think she is just so HAWT that the man throws away his marital vows and diverts money that could be used to support HER and the kids. This works particularly well when the hottie is significantly younger or from a lower social class and used to jokers scraping nickels and points together to stay at a Marriott and eat at Olive Garden. You bring someone like that to the Fairmont and throw around the cash, and you'll be rewarded as only she can do.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t think men having affairs spring for high-end hotels for their dalliances. I would say expect more a Fairfield than Fairmont for that TBH

This is NOT true. I used to work at the Ritz Carlton.

My thoughts exactly. It’s all about the illusion and fantasy for both parties. Especially is the woman is really attractive. He needs to put her on a pedestal in order to cheat. It’s worth it in his mind because she’s so —- (fill in the superlative).

A fancy hotel feeds the ego. The Red Roof Inn says I’m a bad dirty guy who is into bad dirty women. If he’s not self loathing low budget won’t do. He and she must have the best.

But personally I’d let it go. Stick your head back in the sand for now. You have little kids to raise and that’s a tough to do alone when the kids are babies. They need your time and attention focus on them.

Yup. You go high-end when you're punching above your weight as a married man. You need to flash the cash to make the AP think she is just so HAWT that the man throws away his marital vows and diverts money that could be used to support HER and the kids. This works particularly well when the hottie is significantly younger or from a lower social class and used to jokers scraping nickels and points together to stay at a Marriott and eat at Olive Garden. You bring someone like that to the Fairmont and throw around the cash, and you'll be rewarded as only she can do.

Not when you are punching below your weight like a lot of narcissists like to do (aka affairing down). And that is very common. She will think an afternoon at Marriott and a once in a blue moon lunch or dinner at Bonefish Grill are fantastic. She’s just so thrilled to be blowing a man out of her league and hoping he might be the exit out of her lonely suburban existence.

[Anonymous]

^ when her own husband never takes her out- this is heaven to her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t think men having affairs spring for high-end hotels for their dalliances. I would say expect more a Fairfield than Fairmont for that TBH

This is NOT true. I used to work at the Ritz Carlton.

My thoughts exactly. It’s all about the illusion and fantasy for both parties. Especially is the woman is really attractive. He needs to put her on a pedestal in order to cheat. It’s worth it in his mind because she’s so —- (fill in the superlative).

A fancy hotel feeds the ego. The Red Roof Inn says I’m a bad dirty guy who is into bad dirty women. If he’s not self loathing low budget won’t do. He and she must have the best.

But personally I’d let it go. Stick your head back in the sand for now. You have little kids to raise and that’s a tough to do alone when the kids are babies. They need your time and attention focus on them.

Hot.

[Anonymous]

Omg, stop it. I once gave a co-worker a ride just across the bridge to Arlington from GT.
His dropped a condom out of his wallet somehow. Luckily I found it, but I would be dead if DH had found it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He might not have stayed there but went for a meeting in a conf room where everyone got a pen and notepad at their seat. I have those from hotels where I went to a lunch or panel or something.

This. I also randomly grab note pads when I am in the office if I have jotted things down I want to put in an email or document later. We have “hotelling” at my company so I get a random office each time I come in and people who used it before me often leave notepads and pens with various logos.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Omg, stop it. I once gave a co-worker a ride just across the bridge to Arlington from GT.
His dropped a condom out of his wallet somehow. Luckily I found it, but I would be dead if DH had found it.

But would you have been dead if he dropped a notepad from the GT Ritz Carlton?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He might not have stayed there but went for a meeting in a conf room where everyone got a pen and notepad at their seat. I have those from hotels where I went to a lunch or panel or something.

Yep. Literally got back from a conference this morning that took place at a $900 a night hotel. I did not stay there but I’m guessing I have pens in my purse.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Omg, stop it. I once gave a co-worker a ride just across the bridge to Arlington from GT.
His dropped a condom out of his wallet somehow. Luckily I found it, but I would be dead if DH had found it.

Coworker was dropping a hint…..

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t think men having affairs spring for high-end hotels for their dalliances. I would say expect more a Fairfield than Fairmont for that TBH

This is NOT true. I used to work at the Ritz Carlton.

My thoughts exactly. It’s all about the illusion and fantasy for both parties. Especially is the woman is really attractive. He needs to put her on a pedestal in order to cheat. It’s worth it in his mind because she’s so —- (fill in the superlative).

A fancy hotel feeds the ego. The Red Roof Inn says I’m a bad dirty guy who is into bad dirty women. If he’s not self loathing low budget won’t do. He and she must have the best.

But personally I’d let it go. Stick your head back in the sand for now. You have little kids to raise and that’s a tough to do alone when the kids are babies. They need your time and attention focus on them.

Yup. You go high-end when you're punching above your weight as a married man. You need to flash the cash to make the AP think she is just so HAWT that the man throws away his marital vows and diverts money that could be used to support HER and the kids. This works particularly well when the hottie is significantly younger or from a lower social class and used to jokers scraping nickels and points together to stay at a Marriott and eat at Olive Garden. You bring someone like that to the Fairmont and throw around the cash, and you'll be rewarded as only she can do.

Not when you are punching below your weight like a lot of narcissists like to do (aka affairing down). And that is very common. She will think an afternoon at Marriott and a once in a blue moon lunch or dinner at Bonefish Grill are fantastic. She’s just so thrilled to be blowing a man out of her league and hoping he might be the exit out of her lonely suburban existence.

The even cheaper ones just use her house and don’t have to pay for any hotel.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t think men having affairs spring for high-end hotels for their dalliances. I would say expect more a Fairfield than Fairmont for that TBH

This is NOT true. I used to work at the Ritz Carlton.

My thoughts exactly. It’s all about the illusion and fantasy for both parties. Especially is the woman is really attractive. He needs to put her on a pedestal in order to cheat. It’s worth it in his mind because she’s so —- (fill in the superlative).

A fancy hotel feeds the ego. The Red Roof Inn says I’m a bad dirty guy who is into bad dirty women. If he’s not self loathing low budget won’t do. He and she must have the best.

But personally I’d let it go. Stick your head back in the sand for now. You have little kids to raise and that’s a tough to do alone when the kids are babies. They need your time and attention focus on them.

Yup. You go high-end when you're punching above your weight as a married man. You need to flash the cash to make the AP think she is just so HAWT that the man throws away his marital vows and diverts money that could be used to support HER and the kids. This works particularly well when the hottie is significantly younger or from a lower social class and used to jokers scraping nickels and points together to stay at a Marriott and eat at Olive Garden. You bring someone like that to the Fairmont and throw around the cash, and you'll be rewarded as only she can do.

Not when you are punching below your weight like a lot of narcissists like to do (aka affairing down). And that is very common. She will think an afternoon at Marriott and a once in a blue moon lunch or dinner at Bonefish Grill are fantastic. She’s just so thrilled to be blowing a man out of her league and hoping he might be the exit out of her lonely suburban existence.

Hey - I love an afternoon at a Marriott and lunch at the Bonefish! Let's not throw the baby out with the bathwater.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t think men having affairs spring for high-end hotels for their dalliances. I would say expect more a Fairfield than Fairmont for that TBH

This is NOT true. I used to work at the Ritz Carlton.

My thoughts exactly. It’s all about the illusion and fantasy for both parties. Especially is the woman is really attractive. He needs to put her on a pedestal in order to cheat. It’s worth it in his mind because she’s so —- (fill in the superlative).

A fancy hotel feeds the ego. The Red Roof Inn says I’m a bad dirty guy who is into bad dirty women. If he’s not self loathing low budget won’t do. He and she must have the best.

But personally I’d let it go. Stick your head back in the sand for now. You have little kids to raise and that’s a tough to do alone when the kids are babies. They need your time and attention focus on them.

Yup. You go high-end when you're punching above your weight as a married man. You need to flash the cash to make the AP think she is just so HAWT that the man throws away his marital vows and diverts money that could be used to support HER and the kids. This works particularly well when the hottie is significantly younger or from a lower social class and used to jokers scraping nickels and points together to stay at a Marriott and eat at Olive Garden. You bring someone like that to the Fairmont and throw around the cash, and you'll be rewarded as only she can do.

Not when you are punching below your weight like a lot of narcissists like to do (aka affairing down). And that is very common. She will think an afternoon at Marriott and a once in a blue moon lunch or dinner at Bonefish Grill are fantastic. She’s just so thrilled to be blowing a man out of her league and hoping he might be the exit out of her lonely suburban existence.

The even cheaper ones just use her house and don’t have to pay for any hotel.

So wait, narcissist men affair/hookup below their league? And who exactly affair/hooks up above their league?