Forgot to add- there was a Spanish speaking person that read the names of Hispanic students with perfect pronunciation. Traditional Asian names were pretty butchered. |
+1 at the HS ceremony, majority of "teacher favorite" awards were non Asian. Majority of scholarships awarded by outside organizations were Asian. They recognized kids who got straight As in the past 2 years, which was a long list and had more diverse kids. They did not recognize kids who got straight As all 4 years, which would've been a much smaller list, and probably mostly Asian. They do whatever they can to NOT recognize the academic achievements of Asian students in the school. |
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You might have been at the same graduation. I also noticed that about the AAPI graduates and no effort being made to pronounce the names correctly and the lack of recognition of National Merit Semifinalists/Finalists and Presidential Scholar Finalists and even musical achievements.
It seemed purposely planned not to have recognition of AAPI graduates which was upsetting. |
You really have no clue about anything do you? Your post is full of the vitriol that creates bias and discrimination against Asian-Americans students. My child by virtue of looking Asian is assumed not to speak English well or be able to write and is actually placed in a lower reading group despite being able to read chapter books by K. If I speak out about anything I am immediately slapped down even when the teacher is wrong because Asians are not supposed to complain and we are supposed to have advantages. Does not matter whether you are FARMS because no one will believe you. We haven't even gotten to bullying of the little Asians and don't forget about sports where your child is assumed to stink at it because of how they look. They are passed over as classroom leaders by teachers and instead are seen as the kids who do all the work. I think it's horrible what happened to your child but don't you dare take this as another opportunity to put us down by claiming everything is so much better for Asian Americans. |
Another sad part is that because the schools are so against recognizing Asian American students' academic achievement, non Asian kids who are also very high achievers don't get the recognition either. There were some non Asian kids who got straight As all four years, but because the school didn't want to recognize the much higher achievement of straight As all 4 years, that meant those non Asian kids were also cheated out of that recognition. All because they don't want to recognize so many Asian students as being high achieving. yes, there is systemic bias against Asian American students. |
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Chloe Kim received a lot of hate when she won her gold at the Olympics. Drove her to tears:
https://www.espn.com/olympics/story/_/id/31182888/olympic-gold-medalist-chloe-kim-shares-experience-anti-asian-hate People don't mind it when Asian Americans stay in their lane as silent worker bees, but a surprising number of Americans don't like to see Asian American success. |
I don't think it is reasonable to expect teachers and administrators to be able to pronounce all these unusual names. |
Yes it is reasonable to expect the person reading names at graduations to get it right. If you were moderating a panel or introducing a speaker and you didn’t know how to pronounce a name, I assume you would check first and write it down phonetically in your notes so you didn’t look like an ass |
No one will change their behavior if there are no consequences. That's life. |
I do not see this at our HS in FCPS that is about 25-30% Asian. Class officers are often Asian; multiple faculty awards at graduation went to Asian students; the principal sent a news blast about the mostly-Asian team that won It’s Academic, etc. I am thinking our school isn’t that different from other local schools with a lot of Asian kids and maybe some of the claims here are coming from people in other areas or exaggerated by people with an anti-public school agenda. |
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I’m at a private school with asian child and it’s the same situation. It’s not one person trying to take down publics but rather many people telling their school’s truth. At our peer schools, as soon as the schools become 30-40% Asian, they fall out of favor and quickly lose white applicants. And then the school takes more asian students or if they have an upper school they take even international students to survive, and everyone stays away because “it’s the asian school.”
In my personal experience, the kids at my child’s k-8 who are white are chosen more for teacher-selected leadership positions, allowed more leeway for bad behavior, and given the benefit of the doubt when it comes to academics. The Asian kids- especially the girls- are expected to be good little soldiers and not rock the boat. When my daughter’s white bully was having a hard time socially and lashing out at other kids, she was given special sessions with the school counselors and the teacher chastised the girls she bullied when they mandated mediation sessions. When my daughter had reported the bullying, the teacher admonished her to focus on herself, try to work out her problems with the bully and not just run to adults, not be a tattle tale, etc. The lowest point that told me my daughter would always be invisible to the people in power was last winter. Multiple administrators and teachers who had known our family since kindergarten asked if my DD was playing violin in the talent show. She’s been at the school for 5 years. She does not play any instrument. She gets signed out regularly for travel events for her sport so it’s known in writing how she spends massive chunks of her time. At that point I realized that they sincerely believed she was one of the other Asian girls in the grade. And probably had for a while. Read “Race on the top” which is a really illuminating book about how this situation comes to be and the tensions between Asian and whites parents. |
I think it's ridiculous to lump "Asian students" together as a monolith. Asia is so huge and diverse that, even in the U.S., the experience of various Asian groups is going to have so many variables that their treatment is going to vary wildly. |
PP here. We are not in FCPS. And it's not an exaggeration. Your experience is yours; and mine is mine. I support public schools whole heartedly. |
I think a lot of the complaints in this thread are overwrought, but I think it's very reasonable to expect a kid's name to be pronounced correctly at graduation. At my kids' school, we have a lot of kids whose families come from all over the world, including a lot of Asian kids. The administrator who announces the names starts practicing for graduation in (I think) March. They have the graduating seniors provide a phonetic spelling of their names to help make sure he gets it right. |
Huh? Do you expect a single person of Asian ethnicity to be able to pronounce the Korean, Chinese, Japanese, Thai, Laos, and Vietnamese names? |