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I know and am around a lot of teens. What they say publicly and what they say privately are very different. Teens, especially girls, who say anything against gender ideology face exclusion and for the girls, the possibility of violence. They all know that. This group is not going to tolerate what the millennials did. |
I will never forget being yelled at by a woke person on Tumblr about Nymphadora Tonks. I had expressed how much I appreciated that Rowling wrote a character like Tonks because I saw my twenty-something awkward tomboy-self in her. The Tumblrite screamed at me for erasing nonbinary people, that I was appropriating THEIR character, that Tonks was nonbinary but Rowling betrayed us all by having Tonks marry Lupin and become more feminine afterwards. I actually wondered if I should have felt guilty for being an oppressive cis woman and "stealing" Tonks from them. I had anxiety wondering if Rowling and I were bad people. The woke left is absolutely a cult and they are just as terrible as the Christian right. |
I wondered the same. |
I wondered why some transwomen claim they have cramps after they start HRT. We live in crazy times. |
I don't understand this either. I agree with Rowling, but God Forbid you say that publicly. You risk a lot. And isn't that the whole problem This has been so sensationalized that (natal) women are made to fear their safety...yet again! Trans women are not the same as natal women. If they were born women, they wouldn't be trans in the first place. It is nonsensical to me that they feel they *must* have the exact same moniker and that natal women *must* deny reality and once again be at the bottom when it comes to rights and wishes. As groups they have different needs, medical and otherwise. |
The hate is not coming from the vast majority of the natal women who have concerns on this thread. But once again, the concerns of natal women are deemed irrelevant. And if we voice them, we are hateful and hysterical or jerks or whatever. No. Your view is overly simplistic and unrealistic. And I can still feel this way and be kind and supportive of trans individuals. But, like ANY other group on earth, I don't have to agree with everything they say. |
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Can the critics of JK Rowling on the thread identify some of her statements that are "hateful"?
Is it just that she has questioned whether the physical reality and lived experiences of biological women and transwomen are not identical? Or opposed, e.g. transwomen in womens' prisons? Or is it something else? |
Lol, project much? |
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Everyone is so very nice and polite on this thread. No one wants to state the obvious, Which is that the trans women movement is just another form of misogyny. JK Rowling is getting the hate because she financed a crisis center for abused women in Scotland. Genuine women. Not trans. Maybe women who have been raped don't want to share a room with some stranger who has a penis. Shocking. Maybe some people don't think it's fair for some 6'1 mediocre male swimmer to suddenly declare he's a woman and swim for the University of Pennsylvania and win everything because of his biological advantages. And maybe people forget that the only reason Youngkin became governor of a pretty blue state is because Loudoun County officials decided to move a trans woman rapist from school to school. And arrest a victim's father when he objected.
No one has any issues with trans men. But the colonization of women's spaces by trans women has become ridiculous. But say anything and watch your livelihood be destroyed, Must be quiet. Can't be accused of being a TERF. Bette Midler is the enemy. It's become a theater of the absurd |
I’m in a both/and camp. I agree that gender is largely a construct and can imagine a world where being female and male are like avatars. But, JK Rowling is also reminding us that society and humans are also complex and primal. Women have not and do not have equal protections and there are physical realities that can be exploited. And are being exploited. I trust that Gen Z will work it out, though. |
A transman might need an OB. |
BS. It’s legit not a big deal for most teens today. Maybe teens in conservative areas who grew up hearing bigoted things from their parents won’t be as accepting. |
Transgender women certainly know what it’s like to be oppressed. Just look at this thread. |
Link? |
Exactly. |