Do all women only care about money?

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Anonymous wrote:I am a 34 year old man and I make 50k working for a non profit. It is challenging make ends meet and dating is tough. Women ghost me once they know about how much I earn. It is very demoralizing. Is there any hope for me?

In this area, not much. 50K is barely enough to take care of yourself on a shoestring, just-out-of-college, live-in-a-shoebox budget. So a woman dating you must accept she will be the sole provider, for all intents and purposes. I mean do you know what it takes to have a mortgage and take care of children? Who would want this life? What do you bring to the table?

You’re projecting your goals onto OP. Plenty of people live in HCOL areas knowing they will never buy. Plenty of people also don’t want kids. He may find someone who isn’t interested in having kids and is okay with renting long term. In DC over 57% of the population rents and most of those people will never own property in DC. Too expensive.

DP.

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If I didn't want kids I could date someone making 50k if they were very frugal and saving wisely for retirement.

I love apartment living and it wouldn't bother me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I married a man who made 70k when we married. I was also a non profit worker and I made 60k at marriage.
I truly did not think the finances through. We are now 35 and childless and will probably never own a home. I am so depressed I’m suicidal. I was so so foolish.
My husband has now also become emotionally abusive and has developed an aggressive angry and bitter attitude.

It’s a lose-lose.

Wow, with a HOI of $130k at the time you married, you two couldn't get it together enough to even buy a house? Lack of income is not your problem. I bought and sold 4 houses before I ever topped $100k in income and raised 3 kids. That's not meant to brag. It's really pretty average. What's wrong with you?

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Anonymous wrote:You now have 6 pages of resounding, YES from the women. They are only after the money as a first priority. The rest is all secondary.

Go to near the end of this video at the 6:00 mark. It explains it all and how women choose.

https://youtu.be/pInk1rV2VEg

You need to work on your reading comprehension skills, incel. Or are you confused and you were reading a different red-pill thread in another browser tab?

I can read just fine. That said. I only read through the first 3 pages and the majority of women posting confirm, it's about the money.

😂 So “6 pages of RESOUNDING YES” has flaccidly diminished to “most of the responses on the few pages I bothered to read.” Appropriate.

Yes, you caught me and I admitted my crime. I projected that the average response I read in the first 6 pages would likely match the next 3 pages I didn't bother to read through. I can only afford to lose so many brain cells in a day. That said, do we really need a DCUM consensus to call this settled? It's pretty damn obvious that most women place a high value on a man's income when choosing a mate, or a potential mate in the case of dating?

I'd say a threshold income. Not high.

I do not know a single woman who would turn down a man who made 80k in his thirties becausr of his income. That is not a high income in this area.

I do not know a single who would consider marrying a man who made 50k in his 30s in a senior role( entry level is different).

The threshold is around 80-100k. That's what you need in this area to be able to pay your own 50% of the bills and still save a bit for retirement.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You now have 6 pages of resounding, YES from the women. They are only after the money as a first priority. The rest is all secondary.

Go to near the end of this video at the 6:00 mark. It explains it all and how women choose.

https://youtu.be/pInk1rV2VEg

You need to work on your reading comprehension skills, incel. Or are you confused and you were reading a different red-pill thread in another browser tab?

I can read just fine. That said. I only read through the first 3 pages and the majority of women posting confirm, it's about the money.

😂 So “6 pages of RESOUNDING YES” has flaccidly diminished to “most of the responses on the few pages I bothered to read.” Appropriate.

Yes, you caught me and I admitted my crime. I projected that the average response I read in the first 6 pages would likely match the next 3 pages I didn't bother to read through. I can only afford to lose so many brain cells in a day. That said, do we really need a DCUM consensus to call this settled? It's pretty damn obvious that most women place a high value on a man's income when choosing a mate, or a potential mate in the case of dating?

TL;DR Incel angry women expect men to bring something, anything to relationship.

[Anonymous]

This isn’t a women problem. This is a you problem. It’s very interesting that you are converting it to a misogynist premise.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I am a 34 year old man and I make 50k working for a non profit. It is challenging make ends meet and dating is tough. Women ghost me once they know about how much I earn. It is very demoralizing. Is there any hope for me?

I am positive you see bottlenecks and inefficiencies at the nonprofit you work at, I’m sure you have ideas on a better way to do whatever it is your organization does.

Now your job is to find a better way to deliver whatever it is you deliver along with getting yourself a salary commensurate with your service, if you work for a small nonprofit the founder is probably known to you if not the person you directly report to, he’s not that smart is he?

This is your time to build something great, this is your time to work yourself to the bone. The men who achieve real worthwhile things in this world for the most part have the ball rolling by 40, you’ve got six years left; remember this, what one man can do another can do.

These women aren’t ditching you because of how much you make, these women are ditching you because they are looking at a mid-level information worker who probably has a chip on his shoulder at a young age.


Don’t worry about your 50 K for now, go build something incredible and your compensation will be in direct proportion to your contribution, you will be drowning in broads if that’s what you really want.

[Anonymous]

Your post sounds misogynistic. Of course all women don’t only care about one thing. Maybe stop finding women online and try real life.

If you are attractive, smart, kind, and polite, that should get you some dates. Unless you have larger problems than your salary. Try sports, volunteer work , outdoor activities , social events.

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What do you think men work for? Money

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You now have 6 pages of resounding, YES from the women. They are only after the money as a first priority. The rest is all secondary.

Go to near the end of this video at the 6:00 mark. It explains it all and how women choose.

https://youtu.be/pInk1rV2VEg

You need to work on your reading comprehension skills, incel. Or are you confused and you were reading a different red-pill thread in another browser tab?

I can read just fine. That said. I only read through the first 3 pages and the majority of women posting confirm, it's about the money.

It's about a grown man barely being able to support himself. And what that says about the grown man. I'm sure if you compared a hot nice personality man making $100K versus an ugly jerk making $500K there would be very mixed answers that would likely favor the hot nice guy. So it's not only about the money, but if you can barely support yourself and not doing anything with your life besides whining about how you can't get a date, that will likely be a deal breaker for most.

Maybe. What if the $500k guy was not a jerk, just unattractive, especially compared to his lower income friend in this example? Does ugly, nice and rich trump hot, nice, and broke? I'll bet it does most of the time.

I was in that exact situation and picked hot/broke.

In retrospect, I wouldn’t have picked either. Life is really hard without enough money. But life is also joyless without good sex. Both options suck.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I am a 34 year old man and I make 50k working for a non profit. It is challenging make ends meet and dating is tough. Women ghost me once they know about how much I earn. It is very demoralizing. Is there any hope for me?

In this area, not much. 50K is barely enough to take care of yourself on a shoestring, just-out-of-college, live-in-a-shoebox budget. So a woman dating you must accept she will be the sole provider, for all intents and purposes. I mean do you know what it takes to have a mortgage and take care of children? Who would want this life? What do you bring to the table?

You’re projecting your goals onto OP. Plenty of people live in HCOL areas knowing they will never buy. Plenty of people also don’t want kids. He may find someone who isn’t interested in having kids and is okay with renting long term. In DC over 57% of the population rents and most of those people will never own property in DC. Too expensive.

DP.

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If I didn't want kids I could date someone making 50k if they were very frugal and saving wisely for retirement.

I love apartment living and it wouldn't bother me.

Same, but OP’s attitude would.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What is she can’t immediately go back to work after delivering? If money is right now, imagine how tight it will be when you’re supporting a wife and a child! Agreeing to marry you is agreeing to be the breadwinner, agreeing to be poor, or agreeing to forgo children.

OP needs to find someone who does not want children. A low income would be sufficient with a couple making 100K.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What is she can’t immediately go back to work after delivering? If money is right now, imagine how tight it will be when you’re supporting a wife and a child! Agreeing to marry you is agreeing to be the breadwinner, agreeing to be poor, or agreeing to forgo children.

This. What if she gets put on bed rest? What if you have a preemie that's in the NICU for a while. What if any serious medical problem happens to either of you our your child? Because most families do experience something at some point. If you can't wrap your head around the need to earn more, that's going to be really off-putting. A woman is not "only caring about money" because she wants to avoid being totally poor whenever something serious comes up. Women like stability.

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Anonymous wrote:Most women do not want to be with a man who is 34 and hasn’t figured out how to support himself.

Pretty much. It indicates larger issues.

Yes, could be a teacher.

Teachers make 55k at 22 here.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What is she can’t immediately go back to work after delivering? If money is right now, imagine how tight it will be when you’re supporting a wife and a child! Agreeing to marry you is agreeing to be the breadwinner, agreeing to be poor, or agreeing to forgo children.

This. What if she gets put on bed rest? What if you have a preemie that's in the NICU for a while. What if any serious medical problem happens to either of you our your child? Because most families do experience something at some point. If you can't wrap your head around the need to earn more, that's going to be really off-putting. A woman is not "only caring about money" because she wants to avoid being totally poor whenever something serious comes up. Women like stability.

Why don't you earn more money so you don't have to worry about emergencies and whatnot?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No, but my credit card bill is over $25,000 this month which is basically your entire post tax salary. So if you plan to have kids and not really struggle, you should find a new job.

I'd rather date a guy who makes 50K than a guy who feels the need to gloat that his credit card bill is bigger than somebody's post-tax salary. My guess is that you are a real disappointment in the bedroom.