Women who have affairs w/ men they know are married

[Anonymous]

^there is some truth to this. It’s often a desperation or cowardice move from people who can’t face the consequences of their own feelings.

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Anonymous wrote:Lol okay please tell us your secret formula on “how to spot a whore.”

This I love - how do you spot a "whore"? I admittedly have had affairs. Not a single person would look at me and think I'm a whore. Quite the opposite, [/b]I imagine most women find me unattractive. But men, that's a different story[b] and I know if they are not sleeping with me they would be sleeping with someone else. It's always the married persons fault. The AP is just a convenience.

Men have very low standards when it comes to no-strings sex. It’s not something to be proud of. JFC

Some things are more important than superficial looks.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Lol okay please tell us your secret formula on “how to spot a whore.”

This I love - how do you spot a "whore"? I admittedly have had affairs. Not a single person would look at me and think I'm a whore. Quite the opposite, [/b]I imagine most women find me unattractive. But men, that's a different story[b] and I know if they are not sleeping with me they would be sleeping with someone else. It's always the married persons fault. The AP is just a convenience.

Men have very low standards when it comes to no-strings sex. It’s not something to be proud of. JFC

Some things are more important than superficial looks.

P@@ssy? Lol. You admit if it wasn’t you it would be someone else. Sounds very superficial to me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Many married men who go on the apps and stuff flat out lie about their marriage, saying they have an open marriage or DADT. Unless you are really careful to verify you just don’t know if they are lying to get what they want..

Wait, people aren’t completely honest in their OLD profiles?

Should we alert the media?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Lol okay please tell us your secret formula on “how to spot a whore.”

This I love - how do you spot a "whore"? I admittedly have had affairs. Not a single person would look at me and think I'm a whore. Quite the opposite, [/b]I imagine most women find me unattractive. But men, that's a different story[b] and I know if they are not sleeping with me they would be sleeping with someone else. It's always the married persons fault. The AP is just a convenience.

Men have very low standards when it comes to no-strings sex. It’s not something to be proud of. JFC

Some things are more important than superficial looks.

P@@ssy? Lol. You admit if it wasn’t you it would be someone else. Sounds very superficial to me.

I’m not PP, but your post exemplifies the blindness in this space.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I would just like to point out that as you can see by the almost universal tone taken towards them on this site, to the wife the OW isn’t a real person either, just a caricature. The wife’s perspective is also entirely self centered and distorted but she can’t hear it.


NP. You’re comparing a spouse who’s been betrayed to one who willingly engages with a married person? Boy oh boy.

No I’m comparing the myopia of one vs the myopia of the other. The moral judgment isn’t the point of the observation.

That is the most ridiculous argument.

To the betrayed: the OW is very real.

In fact, it’s that reality that blows up families and friendships and children’s lives.

To the OW in the affair (the wife doesn’t even know about her, remember?!?!!) - the kids and wife don’t exist or are an obstacle to overcome.

Unless you have been an OW, you don’t know what you are to her.

Unless she has talked to the OW.

Well, I did! She had zero empathy for me. She wanted me to feel sorry for HER, a cheating married woman banging my spouse. She was angry at me. Remorse, guilt, empathy….haaaaahaaaaa. None there.

And you have none for her. You are just proving the point here.

She’s not entering someone else’s marriage. She’s not the one doing the harm. The victim shouldn’t have empathy for her rapist, her robber, her abuser. Lady, you are completely off your rocker to try and justify knowingly banging married men for pleasure without abandon or consequence.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Many married men who go on the apps and stuff flat out lie about their marriage, saying they have an open marriage or DADT. Unless you are really careful to verify you just don’t know if they are lying to get what they want..

Wait, people aren’t completely honest in their OLD profiles?

Should we alert the media?

And married women lie and say they are only looking for “no strings”. Bunch of liars on sites for having a relationship built on lying.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:^there is some truth to this. It’s often a desperation or cowardice move from people who can’t face the consequences of their own feelings.

This. Cowardice.

Why else would you do something so self-destructive? It’s literally an inability to face your situation in any other way besides lying.

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Anonymous wrote:I would just like to point out that as you can see by the almost universal tone taken towards them on this site, to the wife the OW isn’t a real person either, just a caricature. The wife’s perspective is also entirely self centered and distorted but she can’t hear it.


NP. You’re comparing a spouse who’s been betrayed to one who willingly engages with a married person? Boy oh boy.

No I’m comparing the myopia of one vs the myopia of the other. The moral judgment isn’t the point of the observation.

That is the most ridiculous argument.

To the betrayed: the OW is very real.

In fact, it’s that reality that blows up families and friendships and children’s lives.

To the OW in the affair (the wife doesn’t even know about her, remember?!?!!) - the kids and wife don’t exist or are an obstacle to overcome.

Unless you have been an OW, you don’t know what you are to her.

Unless she has talked to the OW.

Well, I did! She had zero empathy for me. She wanted me to feel sorry for HER, a cheating married woman banging my spouse. She was angry at me. Remorse, guilt, empathy….haaaaahaaaaa. None there.

And you have none for her. You are just proving the point here.

She’s not entering someone else’s marriage. She’s not the one doing the harm. The victim shouldn’t have empathy for her rapist, her robber, her abuser. Lady, you are completely off your rocker to try and justify knowingly banging married men for pleasure without abandon or consequence.

This.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Many married men who go on the apps and stuff flat out lie about their marriage, saying they have an open marriage or DADT. Unless you are really careful to verify you just don’t know if they are lying to get what they want..

Wait, people aren’t completely honest in their OLD profiles?

Should we alert the media?

Lying about or misrepresenting yourself is one thing. Lying about your relationship status involves other people into a much messier situation.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Lol okay please tell us your secret formula on “how to spot a whore.”

This I love - how do you spot a "whore"? I admittedly have had affairs. Not a single person would look at me and think I'm a whore. Quite the opposite, [/b]I imagine most women find me unattractive. But men, that's a different story[b] and I know if they are not sleeping with me they would be sleeping with someone else. It's always the married persons fault. The AP is just a convenience.

Men have very low standards when it comes to no-strings sex. It’s not something to be proud of. JFC

Some things are more important than superficial looks.

P@@ssy? Lol. You admit if it wasn’t you it would be someone else. Sounds very superficial to me.

Thats my point. Its all superficial.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I would just like to point out that as you can see by the almost universal tone taken towards them on this site, to the wife the OW isn’t a real person either, just a caricature. The wife’s perspective is also entirely self centered and distorted but she can’t hear it.


NP. You’re comparing a spouse who’s been betrayed to one who willingly engages with a married person? Boy oh boy.

No I’m comparing the myopia of one vs the myopia of the other. The moral judgment isn’t the point of the observation.

That is the most ridiculous argument.

To the betrayed: the OW is very real.

In fact, it’s that reality that blows up families and friendships and children’s lives.

To the OW in the affair (the wife doesn’t even know about her, remember?!?!!) - the kids and wife don’t exist or are an obstacle to overcome.

Unless you have been an OW, you don’t know what you are to her.

Unless she has talked to the OW.

Well, I did! She had zero empathy for me. She wanted me to feel sorry for HER, a cheating married woman banging my spouse. She was angry at me. Remorse, guilt, empathy….haaaaahaaaaa. None there.

And you have none for her. You are just proving the point here.

She’s not entering someone else’s marriage. She’s not the one doing the harm. The victim shouldn’t have empathy for her rapist, her robber, her abuser. Lady, you are completely off your rocker to try and justify knowingly banging married men for pleasure without abandon or consequence.

You are totally missing the point being made here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lol okay please tell us your secret formula on “how to spot a whore.”

This I love - how do you spot a "whore"? I admittedly have had affairs. Not a single person would look at me and think I'm a whore. Quite the opposite, [/b]I imagine most women find me unattractive. But men, that's a different story[b] and I know if they are not sleeping with me they would be sleeping with someone else. It's always the married persons fault. The AP is just a convenience.

Men have very low standards when it comes to no-strings sex. It’s not something to be proud of. JFC

Some things are more important than superficial looks.

P@@ssy? Lol. You admit if it wasn’t you it would be someone else. Sounds very superficial to me.

Thats my point. Its all superficial.

It’s not superficial to the spouses and children that have been betrayed. It’s very real.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Same reason people don't wear masks and get vaccinated during a pandemic. Their "freedom" is more important than the impact of their actions on third parties.

Adultery should be illegal and more severally punished

I agree with you.

It already is if you have a good prenup. Other than that, the state has quite enough to do with marriage as it is, thanks. Your bad experience should not diminish the rights of others.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't say they're absolved. I think people are just moving away from the traditional thinking that cheating men are upright family men led astray by jezebels.

This. I wouldn't particularly care for a woman involved in an affair with my partner/spouse, but she is irrelevant. I expect my partner to respect and protect me. Only he can do that. I turn down men, he can turn down women too.