Women who have affairs w/ men they know are married

[Anonymous]

Please spare me. It’s very interesting to note how women have fought so hard over the years to become free, liberated and empowered, but yet, still want to absolve men of their duty of care to their wives and children by honoring their vows. They still want women to coddle men and hold them harmless in these situations. It’s still the role of women to help men to control their d*cks.
No, the women who partake in this behavior are not morally upstanding and should not be heralded as martyrs. However, she owes no loyalty or respect to the woman (and kids) who is the victim of her cheating husband’s poor choices. Women, please decide if you truly want to be free, liberated and empowered, or if you still want to coddle men and play the role of apologist and mammy for low-life men.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:On a different note, why do married men profess that they are happily married but cheat? I don’t think you can be happily married and do and say nasty things behind your wife’s back but I hear it all the time. Memo to yourself if you are a cheater - you are not happily married just fyi

They are not a good/happy person but their marriage is good/their wife is good.

Stop hoping their marriage is bad and they are leaving her for you.

Not hoping their marriage is bad but think its better to say nothing at all the profess how great it is. Obviously it isn't that great. I suppose people tell themselves the things they want to hear.

It’s often situational. In my cheating years, midlife, I was struggling inside. I had death of a college friend and a parent. I had a lot of unresolved stuff..and I went out and cheated. Zero to do with my wife or kids.

I hit the lottery with my wife, in-laws and kids. I truly did. I would tell you and told my AP then that my marriage was great. I needed to deal with my demons.

That’s in the past and I do have a marriage and partnership and kids that are incredible. I’m very happy.

It wasn’t “me” when I went through that phase if that makes sense. I was not a good person then and what I was doing did not make me happy. It made things worse.

Most cheating men straight out lie to their AP about their marriage - and try to tell the AP that it is (negative this or that). AP's are too stupid to know the truth.

I didn’t even lie. I never said anything bad about my wife to anyone. Plenty of married women that don’t care.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Please spare me. It’s very interesting to note how women have fought so hard over the years to become free, liberated and empowered, but yet, still want to absolve men of their duty of care to their wives and children by honoring their vows. They still want women to coddle men and hold them harmless in these situations. It’s still the role of women to help men to control their d*cks.
No, the women who partake in this behavior are not morally upstanding and should not be heralded as martyrs. However, she owes no loyalty or respect to the woman (and kids) who is the victim of her cheating husband’s poor choices. Women, please decide if you truly want to be free, liberated and empowered, or if you still want to coddle men and play the role of apologist and mammy for low-life men.

And if she want to be the side-whore or actually have some self-respect.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I am a widow who was happily married and I have been floored by the number of married men who show interest….and pursue…..I never realized how many bored, unhappy, unappreciated men there are out there. If I didn’t object morally, it would be EASY.

+1. Married men are the worst; a very aggressive bunch who show blatant disregard for their wives/marriages. It is very appalling and rampant. I had no clue it was like this until I got divorced, but I am of the opinion that the married men are the aggressors, and wives are none the wiser.

--Signed, single and reporting from the field

I believe you, but there are divorced women who are the aggressors, too. They effed up their lives, and have no qualms trying to eff up someone else's life. Not saying this is you. The moms in my circle tend to know who is on the prowl. It's gross and obvious.

+100 on a mission to take down anyone they think has a happy marriage

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Please spare me. It’s very interesting to note how women have fought so hard over the years to become free, liberated and empowered, but yet, still want to absolve men of their duty of care to their wives and children by honoring their vows. They still want women to coddle men and hold them harmless in these situations. It’s still the role of women to help men to control their d*cks.
No, the women who partake in this behavior are not morally upstanding and should not be heralded as martyrs. However, she owes no loyalty or respect to the woman (and kids) who is the victim of her cheating husband’s poor choices. Women, please decide if you truly want to be free, liberated and empowered, or if you still want to coddle men and play the role of apologist and mammy for low-life men.

You don’t understand free, liberates and empowered.

So many damaged women, sad.

[Anonymous]

Desperado...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Please spare me. It’s very interesting to note how women have fought so hard over the years to become free, liberated and empowered, but yet, still want to absolve men of their duty of care to their wives and children by honoring their vows. They still want women to coddle men and hold them harmless in these situations. It’s still the role of women to help men to control their d*cks.
No, the women who partake in this behavior are not morally upstanding and should not be heralded as martyrs. However, she owes no loyalty or respect to the woman (and kids) who is the victim of her cheating husband’s poor choices. Women, please decide if you truly want to be free, liberated and empowered, or if you still want to coddle men and play the role of apologist and mammy for low-life men.

I hold the man in equal contempt. They are both pond scum.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Please spare me. It’s very interesting to note how women have fought so hard over the years to become free, liberated and empowered, but yet, still want to absolve men of their duty of care to their wives and children by honoring their vows. They still want women to coddle men and hold them harmless in these situations. It’s still the role of women to help men to control their d*cks.
No, the women who partake in this behavior are not morally upstanding and should not be heralded as martyrs. However, she owes no loyalty or respect to the woman (and kids) who is the victim of her cheating husband’s poor choices. Women, please decide if you truly want to be free, liberated and empowered, or if you still want to coddle men and play the role of apologist and mammy for low-life men.

I hold the man in equal contempt. They are both pond scum.

+1
Skeevy relationship between two losers

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Please spare me. It’s very interesting to note how women have fought so hard over the years to become free, liberated and empowered, but yet, still want to absolve men of their duty of care to their wives and children by honoring their vows. They still want women to coddle men and hold them harmless in these situations. It’s still the role of women to help men to control their d*cks.
No, the women who partake in this behavior are not morally upstanding and should not be heralded as martyrs. However, she owes no loyalty or respect to the woman (and kids) who is the victim of her cheating husband’s poor choices. Women, please decide if you truly want to be free, liberated and empowered, or if you still want to coddle men and play the role of apologist and mammy for low-life men.

I hold the man in equal contempt. They are both pond scum.

+1000. Like, Nobody is absolved??? PP obviously has an agenda here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am a widow who was happily married and I have been floored by the number of married men who show interest….and pursue…..I never realized how many bored, unhappy, unappreciated men there are out there. If I didn’t object morally, it would be EASY.

Correct bc married men think widowed or divorced women are easy. They will treat you like garbage after they have their fun. Total dicks.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Because it’s 2022 and we’re done blaming women for the transgressions of men. What an affair partner does is not good, but they’re not the one breaking their vows, taking away their spouses informed consent, and harming their children.

Agreed

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I really don’t see how you can make a case that the AP woman (assuming she is not married herself) is as equally at fault as the cheater since she made no vows of fidelity. Fwiw I have no problem with women or men who play the AP role and place 100% of the blame on the individual who broke his/her vows. You can’t force someone to cheat.

THIS^

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I really don’t see how you can make a case that the AP woman (assuming she is not married herself) is as equally at fault as the cheater since she made no vows of fidelity. Fwiw I have no problem with women or men who play the AP role and place 100% of the blame on the individual who broke his/her vows. You can’t force someone to cheat.

THIS^

Who cares if you fault her or not? You can 100% blame your spouse and still think the AP is a complete POS, trash person. The whole trajectory of this thread is ridiculous.

Even if a wife divorces her cheating husband and holds him 100% to blame, do you really think she's going to be besties with the OW or do you think she is going to think the OW was a piece of worthless dog crap/trash human?

How would you feel about a person that was secretly plotting your demise without your knowledge? I'm guessing you wouldn't think very highly of them either.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Please spare me. It’s very interesting to note how women have fought so hard over the years to become free, liberated and empowered, but yet, still want to absolve men of their duty of care to their wives and children by honoring their vows. They still want women to coddle men and hold them harmless in these situations. It’s still the role of women to help men to control their d*cks.
No, the women who partake in this behavior are not morally upstanding and should not be heralded as martyrs. However, she owes no loyalty or respect to the woman (and kids) who is the victim of her cheating husband’s poor choices. Women, please decide if you truly want to be free, liberated and empowered, or if you still want to coddle men and play the role of apologist and mammy for low-life men.

I hold the man in equal contempt. They are both pond scum.

+1
Skeevy relationship between two losers

Lying, dishonest trash people with a sick fetish to lie and hide in secret.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Please spare me. It’s very interesting to note how women have fought so hard over the years to become free, liberated and empowered, but yet, still want to absolve men of their duty of care to their wives and children by honoring their vows. They still want women to coddle men and hold them harmless in these situations. It’s still the role of women to help men to control their d*cks.
No, the women who partake in this behavior are not morally upstanding and should not be heralded as martyrs. However, she owes no loyalty or respect to the woman (and kids) who is the victim of her cheating husband’s poor choices. Women, please decide if you truly want to be free, liberated and empowered, or if you still want to coddle men and play the role of apologist and mammy for low-life men.

And if she want to be the side-whore or actually have some self-respect.

Yes where was that other pp going? So the cheating side whore is liberated and empowered in her mind? Give me a break. Feminists don't typically shit on other women.