DH is never jealous.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, I know this is a good thing. But we have been married 23 years and I have never seen him be jealous. I'm curious if this is normal? It's bit annoying.

When we bumped into my ex...he bought him a drink.
When a guy hits on me (not recent), he was never jealous or bothered.

This is an alpha move....

Says the beta to himself!

Look who is back on DCUM bright and early this morning still screaming his hostility towards us guys who don't care about a woman's sexual history. In case you haven't figured this out, most women have had sex before they settle down with their spouses so they are going to have several ex boyfriends. Being concerned about that fact is insecure and an unproductive waste of time. Why should I be the least bit concerned about who my wife slept with before I married her?

And looks who's also back! The guy who admitted to being a cuck on another thread, said he wouldnt mind if his wife slept with someone else, and who thinks "I played football 50 years ago" is an excuse about his sad, bizarre mentality. You are not a strong man. No one is talking about "shaming" women for their past sexual history. We're talking about how weak and bizarre it is that you would pay for a drink for the man who's p**is your wife sucked! It's hysterically dysfunctional, weird, and pathetic. And yes, very unmasculine.

The young men have a term for you: coomer. And it fits!

This is right. Women love possessive men who act with anger and aggression at any man who shows interest in them. Who insist on the passwords to their phones and ensure they are never out by themselves. This conveys strength and confidence as opposed to weak men who show mercy to others. Extra points if you make fun of handicap people, for they are weaklings who should be dominated.

This is modern day hypermasculinity.

Hmmm… it’s almost like there’s a spectrum and the goal is to be somewhere in the middle between flying into a rage about a text and buying a drink for your wife’s ex. I just can’t with coomer logic. A bunch of losers

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What's a coomer? And you realize you are on a parents forum where most men you are talking to are late 30s to late 40s? That's old to you?

I promise you quiet confidence and BDE is more attractive than your insecurity of your wife having dating and GASP having had sex with men before you.

Being angry at women for having sex and men for being ok with it is by definition incel behavior. You will grow out of it, I hope.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, I know this is a good thing. But we have been married 23 years and I have never seen him be jealous. I'm curious if this is normal? It's bit annoying.

When we bumped into my ex...he bought him a drink.
When a guy hits on me (not recent), he was never jealous or bothered.

This is an alpha move....

Says the beta to himself!

Look who is back on DCUM bright and early this morning still screaming his hostility towards us guys who don't care about a woman's sexual history. In case you haven't figured this out, most women have had sex before they settle down with their spouses so they are going to have several ex boyfriends. Being concerned about that fact is insecure and an unproductive waste of time. Why should I be the least bit concerned about who my wife slept with before I married her?

And looks who's also back! The guy who admitted to being a cuck on another thread, said he wouldnt mind if his wife slept with someone else, and who thinks "I played football 50 years ago" is an excuse about his sad, bizarre mentality. You are not a strong man. No one is talking about "shaming" women for their past sexual history. We're talking about how weak and bizarre it is that you would pay for a drink for the man who's p**is your wife sucked! It's hysterically dysfunctional, weird, and pathetic. And yes, very unmasculine.

The young men have a term for you: coomer. And it fits!

This is right. Women love possessive men who act with anger and aggression at any man who shows interest in them. Who insist on the passwords to their phones and ensure they are never out by themselves. This conveys strength and confidence as opposed to weak men who show mercy to others. Extra points if you make fun of handicap people, for they are weaklings who should be dominated.

This is modern day hypermasculinity.

Is this sarcasm because this post is disgusting if it isn't. The whole alpha beta things is disgusting. Losers look at relationships in this way.

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Anonymous wrote:I am same as your husband. I am 6'4", 235lb and former college hockey player.

I am just not sexually insecure and not really sexually jealous either. I suppose it possible my wife could cheat but I wouldn't take it personally. I am good in bed and have no shortage of women I could revenge with

Are you the cuck guy from another thread? You may be good in bed but plenty of other men are good in bed too 🤷🏼‍♀️

I feel pretty much the same way as the hockey player except I'm a klutz (out of bed) and I'm shorter and weigh more than he does.

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You people are a bunch of mental cases with this obsession over who is or is not a beta male.

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Some jealousy is normal. Married 20 years with 3 kids and an old boyfriend (from my sexually active past) started contacting me. DH was jealous,which I thought was fine.

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. I have been with him for a quarter of a century. I can tell you he is very confident. So much so that it pisses me off. He thinks he can do anything. He thinks he is great looking (he is decent but he over inflates his looks). Physically he thinks he is so ao strong. Maybe if you have not dealt with this....you wouldn't understand.

If he was insecure, I would have picked up on it.

When other men talk to me...it's as if he thinks they wouldn't stand a chance because he is so much better

Op, I am like your DH. Tall, attractive (I probably think i am better looking than I am 😃). It doesn't bother me if my wife talks with other men or goes out with them solo. I trust her and I definitely have the "she isn't doing better than me" attitude.

There are a lot of insecure incels on here projecting on your DH and guys like me. We just aren't the jealous type. And it's not necessarily a great trait, I have had many women who I have dated tell me it feels like I don't care if they stay or go. The truth is, of course I love my wife but I would be fine on the dating market if single. That's probably the vibe your DH gives. Some women find it sexy, others feel the need to be possessed. We are not for everyone

Yes, they dont like it because it's not strong male energy, and heterosexual women are attracted to male energy. The complacent "shrug, whatever happens is fine" attitude is very feminine and feminine women are going to be repelled. It's simply not masculine and those who are attracted to masculinity are going to be repelled/annoyed by you because youre not masculine. But you dont seem to care about much in life regardless and seem complacent so whatever... not trying to be mean but it is what it is.

I utterly disagree. To me this is the ultimate in masculinity. Men who get jealous and possessive are little b*tches.

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Anonymous wrote:Wouldn't an insecure guy get upset in the above situations? Instead of not caring.

No. A secure man certainly wouldnt want to buy a drink for a man who's been all up in the guts of his wife. LOL. So embarrassing

You must be a woman because you have no idea about male confidence. I’d buy my wife’s former boyfriend a drink. It’s ridiculous to think that somehow shows a lack of confidence.

Of course it does. And if a woman finds it unattractive doesnt that say it all? LOL.

What is a man supposed to do? Stomp off and make a scene? Be rude and refuse to speak to the ex boyfriend? It’s the OP that has the issue with it, not her husband so it’s her who has the issue. Doesn’t seem to bother the husband. Maybe OP needs to figure out why she wants her husband to be jealous.

My husband would politely/icily greet the guy and move on. Making it clear that he was the shot caller in the situation. Definitely not invite him for a drink Very simple. If you know how to handle yourself, it's not an issue. But a lot of men have social issues, so it doesnt surprise me this stymies them

Being an asshole to the other guy in this situation is a sign of insecurity. If you know your d is better than his, you can be friendly and relaxed. Your woman isn’t going anywhere.

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Anonymous wrote:Wouldn't an insecure guy get upset in the above situations? Instead of not caring.

No. A secure man certainly wouldnt want to buy a drink for a man who's been all up in the guts of his wife. LOL. So embarrassing

You must be a woman because you have no idea about male confidence. I’d buy my wife’s former boyfriend a drink. It’s ridiculous to think that somehow shows a lack of confidence.

Of course it does. And if a woman finds it unattractive doesnt that say it all? LOL.

What is a man supposed to do? Stomp off and make a scene? Be rude and refuse to speak to the ex boyfriend? It’s the OP that has the issue with it, not her husband so it’s her who has the issue. Doesn’t seem to bother the husband. Maybe OP needs to figure out why she wants her husband to be jealous.

My husband would politely/icily greet the guy and move on. Making it clear that he was the shot caller in the situation. Definitely not invite him for a drink Very simple. If you know how to handle yourself, it's not an issue. But a lot of men have social issues, so it doesnt surprise me this stymies them

Being an asshole to the other guy in this situation is a sign of insecurity. If you know your d is better than his, you can be friendly and relaxed. Your woman isn’t going anywhere.

Why not invite him back to your place for a drink then? You should definitely make sure your DW exchanged numbers with him so they can stay in touch.

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I have a dh who is also never jealous. It is a little annoying. He is super confidant to an annoying degree too.

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I dated a guy who claimed to not be jealous and in fact wanted us to both see other people. He broke up with me and when I started seeing someone else he said, ‘he’s a little b*tch.’ So, it’s easy to be cool if there’s no threat….

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Jealousy in dating is nothing at all like jealousy in marriage because someone you dated has not devoted significant resources to you nor had officially confirmed the presumption of exclusive access to you intimately. Boyfriends do not back up any of their feelings. The ones who do are the ones we know are serious about us.

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Anonymous wrote:Wouldn't an insecure guy get upset in the above situations? Instead of not caring.

No. A secure man certainly wouldnt want to buy a drink for a man who's been all up in the guts of his wife. LOL. So embarrassing

You must be a woman because you have no idea about male confidence. I’d buy my wife’s former boyfriend a drink. It’s ridiculous to think that somehow shows a lack of confidence.

Of course it does. And if a woman finds it unattractive doesnt that say it all? LOL.

What is a man supposed to do? Stomp off and make a scene? Be rude and refuse to speak to the ex boyfriend? It’s the OP that has the issue with it, not her husband so it’s her who has the issue. Doesn’t seem to bother the husband. Maybe OP needs to figure out why she wants her husband to be jealous.

My husband would politely/icily greet the guy and move on. Making it clear that he was the shot caller in the situation. Definitely not invite him for a drink Very simple. If you know how to handle yourself, it's not an issue. But a lot of men have social issues, so it doesnt surprise me this stymies them

Being an asshole to the other guy in this situation is a sign of insecurity. If you know your d is better than his, you can be friendly and relaxed. Your woman isn’t going anywhere.

Why not invite him back to your place for a drink then? You should definitely make sure your DW exchanged numbers with him so they can stay in touch.

Sure. No reason all three of us can’t be friends. That’s the mature approach.

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Two pages in, and I really wonder about OP. Buying a drink for the ex DH is perfectly fine. Beyond that it sounds like she tries to goad him into jealousy and he's onto her games.

If he's narcissistic then surely there are other areas where it is a problem which raises the question for me of why OP focuses on his lack of showing jealousy.

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Anonymous wrote:You people are a bunch of mental cases with this obsession over who is or is not a beta male.

Yeah, what’s gone wrong with your life that you worry about this?