Men, would you date or marry someone considered fat?

[Anonymous]

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Fact. Men are easily influenced by others. They are the weaker most emotional sex. They will have sex with a fat woman they said was repulsive to their friends at the drop of a hat and may even go on to build a relationship with a fat woman. They are good liars.

You are projecting again.

And yes men will dump a f**k into a fatty but they will f**k anything that squats to pee, so what.

Only the most desperate man, who is lacking any other options, will have a relationship with a fatty.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Fact. Men are easily influenced by others. They are the weaker most emotional sex. They will have sex with a fat woman they said was repulsive to their friends at the drop of a hat and may even go on to build a relationship with a fat woman. They are good liars.

You are projecting again.

And yes men will dump a f**k into a fatty but they will f**k anything that squats to pee, so what.

Only the most desperate man, who is lacking any other options, will have a relationship with a fatty.

Just to be clear PP— you’re the one who considers themselves a high value male?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Date, as in sleep with? Maybe.
But date as in an ongoing steady romantic relationship? No.

What if she were rich or extremely funny and kind? Don’t you think your hard no may change under other conditions.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If she was willing to give it up on demand and any hole, sure.

I read these reponses and am SO happy that I am married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I like some fat on women. I actually visualize Sarah Jessica Parker whenever I have to slow down.

Why not just think about Mr. Ed?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Fact. Men are easily influenced by others. They are the weaker most emotional sex. They will have sex with a fat woman they said was repulsive to their friends at the drop of a hat and may even go on to build a relationship with a fat woman. They are good liars.

You are projecting again.

Right, exactly. They will jerk of to BBW p*rn and then say they find fat women repulsive. They will claim all they are attracted to is stick thin women in the early 2000s, and now theyre all saying they like Kim Kardashian curvy types. Men's tastes change with the wind and theyre much more easily influenced than women. Most of men's attraction is towards- whatever other men will think is cool. It's actually very homoerotic.

[Anonymous]

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Fact. Men are easily influenced by others. They are the weaker most emotional sex. They will have sex with a fat woman they said was repulsive to their friends at the drop of a hat and may even go on to build a relationship with a fat woman. They are good liars.

You are projecting again.

*reformatted* Right, exactly. They will jerk of to BBW p*rn and then say they find fat women repulsive. They will claim all they are attracted to is stick thin women in the early 2000s, and now theyre all saying they like Kim Kardashian curvy types. Men's tastes change with the wind and theyre much more easily influenced than women. Most of men's attraction is towards- whatever other men will think is cool. It's actually very homoerotic.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Fact. Men are easily influenced by others. They are the weaker most emotional sex. They will have sex with a fat woman they said was repulsive to their friends at the drop of a hat and may even go on to build a relationship with a fat woman. They are good liars.

You are projecting again.

And yes men will dump a f**k into a fatty but they will f**k anything that squats to pee, so what.

Only the most desperate man, who is lacking any other options, will have a relationship with a fatty.

Just to be clear PP— you’re the one who considers themselves a high value male?

Pretty sure he knows he's not a high value man, that's where the bitterness and rage and name calling comes in.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I like some fat on women. I actually visualize Sarah Jessica Parker whenever I have to slow down.

I never got more attention from men then when I was 140 lbs at 5'5. I prefer myself at a slimmer weight so I'm about 120 now. After a particularly indulgent holiday season a couple years ago my weight crept up to around 130 and there it was again with way more male attention and stares and such. I have to keep my weight down for job related reasons but yeah... definitely seems to me that men like women at a somewhat higher weight.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I like some fat on women. I actually visualize Sarah Jessica Parker whenever I have to slow down.

I never got more attention from men then when I was 140 lbs at 5'5. I prefer myself at a slimmer weight so I'm about 120 now. After a particularly indulgent holiday season a couple years ago my weight crept up to around 130 and there it was again with way more male attention and stares and such. I have to keep my weight down for job related reasons but yeah... definitely seems to me that men like women at a somewhat higher weight.

Did those men ask you out or just stare at you?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I like some fat on women. I actually visualize Sarah Jessica Parker whenever I have to slow down.

I never got more attention from men then when I was 140 lbs at 5'5. I prefer myself at a slimmer weight so I'm about 120 now. After a particularly indulgent holiday season a couple years ago my weight crept up to around 130 and there it was again with way more male attention and stares and such. I have to keep my weight down for job related reasons but yeah... definitely seems to me that men like women at a somewhat higher weight.

Did those men ask you out or just stare at you?

Both

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Anonymous wrote:No, because all women get fatter after marriage. I married an overweight woman, and she got a lot bigger.

Did you stay the same weight?

I'd put on 20 lbs and then lose 30 lbs. At times I was in better shape than when I got married, which made her angry.

So your weight fluctuation is forgivable, even admirable, her hers is not. Got you.

I'm not the pp, but my wife and I were comparably thin when we met. I've gained 10 pounds in 20 years, she's gained 40+. I think it's our duty as partners to stay within 10% of the weight we were when we met.

Oh, really? Where was that in the marriage vows again? “For richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, but only if she’s within 10% of her weight today even after she has my children.”

Fool.

[Anonymous]

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I have heard some fat women say (and maybe on this thread, I haven’t read all the comments) that they date and then marry very desirable (and conventionally attractive men) because dating a conventionally attractive woman affords a man social status. Extremely desirable men don’t need that extra social status, but men who are less attractive, make less money, don’t have awesome personalities etc can’t afford the hit in social capital that comes from dating somebody who is overweight

File under: huge cope

Very desirable men have very desirable women throwing themselves at them, they don’t need to settle for a fatty.

Every time you type “fatty” you embarrass yourself. You’re supposed to grow out of stupid, childish nonsense like that in middle school.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I think we need to be clear that men commenting here are not those "highly desirable" partners we are talking about. Sorry but the mere fact that you are a man commenting on an anonymous forum on the internet about fat women takes you out of that category. (And yes it takes me out of the "highly desirable women" category too)

Exactly. I'm also very thin and any man bashing "fatties" on an anonymous mommy forum is the definition of low value and no high value woman would want anything to do with them. We women are trying to figure out what the DESIRABLE men want, not the losers and leftovers.

So any man who comments here should automatically be ignored? Yeah, whatever, keep drinking your own delusional bathwater then.

I'm a high value man. No, I don't care if you believe it or not. Neither I nor any of my peers is married to a fatty. If you want a desirable man, lose weight. It's about that simple.

No, you’re not. You’re a grown man repeatedly calling people childish playground names like “fatty.” You think it makes you sound oh so cool and superior. You don’t realize that in reality, your own insecurity is screaming from the rooftops.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Black and Hispanic men are more likely to date someone heavier or fat than someone skinny or thin. They don't generally find thin to be too attractive.

Funny the average US white man is fat and is married to a fat US woman.