And rightfully so. Please don't start up again. You are offensive and continue to think that somehow if it was just online then it is somehow better. He wasn't just online drinking his own urine. He was sharing pictures of child sexual abuse. Do you know who those children were? Do you know what school they go to? Do you know if he took the picture? So until there is more information you shouldn't sleep at night. The chances of him being caught on the very first time he did this are ZERO. You (and none of us) have any idea of the scope, so stay awake and don't let your guard down. This thread made me take a walk down the DCUM postings about the LAMB scandal and that is truly DCUM at its finest including posters staying thankfully that abuse, that went on for years AT the school, was only touching and not penetration. Phew! |
There’s so much we don’t know about timeline, extent, etc. But asking us to believe that the Toth/Carroll 3rd grade overlap was a coincidence is a bridge too far. |
Ok, self-appointed wise person who has no familiarity with NCRC: Tell us all about that access. Because, as most NCRC parents know, JC was generally in his office doing HOS stuff, while kids were in busy classrooms with multiple teachers. Kids are rarely alone with a single teacher, except some maybe for OT; kids are very, very rarely alone with the HOS. I almost wonder if moving from classroom teacher to outplacement to HOS were self-protective moves on his part. |
So. Are you saying that IF he was only talking about this topic with another adult and that was ALL he was doing - then he’s “innocent” ? Legally speaking? I still understand that he needs to be thoroughly investigated based on this and that exchanging pornography images of this topic is also illegal but they could discover that was the extent of his crime and it didn’t carry over to physical acts of sexual abuse on students at the schools. It would be good to learn that students were not touched by him physically. |
Please stop the BS! When a child was late. Mr. Eric usually took the child to the classroom, but if another child was also late, JC would take over. Some classrooms were on the ground floor and safe, while others were on the second floor—or even in the treetop class. Mr. Eric or JC would use the back door and take the stairs where nobody could see them. |
You think abuse was happening during 3 minutes on a stairwell that other people can use? I suppose it's possible, but seems highly unlikely to me. |
Parents should hire their own counselors! |
Why do I feel like there is someone in this conversation who wants the worst case scenario to be true. Like they somehow resent all these private school families and are secretly glad this is happening. This site is full of such toxic hate. |
This entire situation is “highly unlikely”. That’s the territory we are in. |
I haven’t researched the child exploitation laws thoroughly, so can’t say whether that would violate a different law. I certainly hope it does, because it is despicable behavior beyond belief. But my reading of the statute cited by the DOJ is that his conduct doesn’t clearly fall within that statute. Would another lawyer on here please read it and the complaint and share your thoughts? |
Who at BVR recalls Mr. Toth being referred to as Mr. Eric? All the teachers at BVR were addressed as Ms or Mrs or Mr last name as far as I can recall…,,are you a former BVR student or parent? |
A child is late, and everyone is in the busy classroom, engaged in their activities. Who said he can’t stop for longer than 3 minutes? Why not 10 or even 20, pausing on the stairs? Most parents at NCRC seem to live in a “Disney World” mindset. 🙈🙉🙊 |
I find the amount of denial by NCRC parents that anything remotely bad could have happened at school absolutely fascinating. “Toxic” positivity might be a way to describe it. |
Why aren’t you being attacked when you say that you “certainly hope it does” and somehow, I’m attacked for saying the same thing as a parent?! I’ve posted here several times saying that I hope his activity was limited to online viewings, and that he never touched a single child and someone on this board attacks me every time I say that! But when a lawyer speaks up and says the same thing, they are not attacked? |
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