| I was casually dating/sleeping with this guy who I assumed was divorced and had been for years. Two weeks after we broke up I got a text from a woman claiming to be his pregnant wife asking me how long I’d been dating her husband. Wtf! |
| Yikes. |
| Ha! |
| Casually dating? Doesn’t sound casual. |
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You assumed he was divorced or he told you he was divorced?
Who knocked up his wife? |
It’s not unreasonable to assume that a guy who asks you out is single. |
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Ask this question next time:
“Does anyone else think they are in a relationship with you?” Not “are you in a relationship with anyone?” See the difference? |
Trust but verify. No ring? |
| Have you stopped seeing him or is he still pounding you on the regular |
Wow, your'e lazy. It says in the first post that they broke up. But you didn't come here to offer advice, just to have the tiny thrill of writing out "is he still pounding you," so there you go, you got your thrill for the day! |
Oh, "casual dating" is now defined as "I barely know this person but am having sex with him." |
| You have known this person for years and just “assumed” he was divorced?! Why hadn’t you had talks with him about his past? |
| Sucks for her, she married a dirtbag and now is tied to him forever. Unless you knew, you are not responsible. |
| I’d be completely honest with her about your relationship with her husband. She deserves to know the truth. |
Married and never owned or worn a ring. |