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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s cheating especially given the on going attraction. Over the course of my marriage I’ve had a lot of guy friends in business and just socially and a few times  I definitely knew that they wanted something more than just friendship. It’s almost a sixth sense or radar system kicking in and when it did I’d just distance myself from the person. It’s a weirdly nice feeling to be viewed as desireable by someone other than my husband but allowing just a kiss to happen is starting down a very slippery slope. I’ve been happily married a very long time and I get all the kisses I need plus other nice things. [/quote]

+1 It took a few years of being married for me to develop that sixth sense especially in regard to men I would meet in business. I wore a wedding ring and I assumed that that meant it was hands off but that’s not the way it was. A couple of times I had to push men away who started pawing at me and then I realized that my being nice and friendly was viewed by some as some kind of message. [/quote]

I remember when I used to think that my wedding ring and knowing the other man was married was a good sign of not having to worry about being hit on.  Then after about the 50th time being propositioned by "one of the good guys" I realized they all cheat if you let them.

OP, it's cheating but if that's the worst of your sins, you are doing better than most.[/quote]

When I was single and in my 20's, the VAST majority of men who hit on me at work were married. It was far more common--and out of line--than what single men did. [/quote]

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