I kicked my husband out

[Anonymous]

OP will likely be going to the pokey, as she illegally kicked DH out of HIS house.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Sorry but you sound selfish and it’s all about you. Good things come to those that wait.

I disagree. Op waited 5 prime years...not for husbay to get tenure but yo get tenure track! That should happen in a year or two, not at age 35ish.

If it's DH failed to get a tenure track job, he should have accepted he's not competitive, deferred to his well.paid wife and started a family while they still could.

Op sacrificed fertility and has multiple m/c do DH could pursue his dream.

Sorry op, I feel for you and understand why you're done.

This is OP. This is exactly how I feel. People familiar with academia and fertility will agree with you as well. A lot of people commenting have knowledge of neither.

People have kids in all kinds of situations, biology does not wait. There was no excuse and I feel like her DH pulled a bait and switch. I wouldn't have waited, but it's done.

I would promptly divorce him OP, and have a child on your own. It will be much easier and you won't ever have to worry about divorce and a tug of war with the kid.

You always have time to find a mate, but the next 5 years is the time to plan your family. You're still young and yes find another doctor...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why didn’t you freeze your eggs? That’s on you

You're a mean girl. GTFO.

[Anonymous]

OP, I don't know if you are reading this thread still, but I encourage you to seek out a therapist before you turn your back on your marriage. Your body has been through a lot in the past couple of years. with so many failed pregnancies.