5 great dates then he ghosts. Why?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Dating early on is meant to casual and with low expectations.
You are in the getting to know each other.

This is why I don't sleep on 3rd date. Honestly it would
be very awkward to have the STD conversation on
3rd date. I know I'm the exception here but sleeping
with someone on date 2 or 3 seems awkward to me.

5 dates is not a relationship.

When you are dating non exclusively men are supposed to be meeting a variety of women and women are supposed
to be meeting a variety of men. That is the real
definition of dating.

Women in particular are bad about creating a relationship
in their head way too soon.

Dating can be treacherous. I always have low expectations
when I date and enjoy being pleasantly surprised.

When I meet new men I make a point of finding out
when their last relationship ended. If it is less than
6 months prior the guy or girl has high odds of not
being over the prior relationship and even getting
back together. I steer clear of dating men who just
broke up in their marriage or broke up with a girl
less than 6 months prior.

Signed, a woman

You are not the exception. There are more women waiting than women not waiting.