My teen refuses to live with her mother

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This thread proves how man-hating DCUM is. The wife cheated and is asking for ANY child support or ANYTHING financially? Gross. He's keeping her on his insurance so she doesn't have to pay more? The guy is on here looking for support and you nitpick a few words he said.

I'm sorry OP and I wish you the best. You deserve better.

Insurance is not the issue. He wants to travel and have fun and not be a full time parent.

Don’t you see he is the victim here? And he is still trying to do the right thing? I can’t even imagine your life circumstance if you don’t understand this.

Yes, he is a "victim" but his daughter is more of a victim. She was victimized by her mother and now all he can think about is dating. He doesn't want her either... she is in the way. This whole thread is not about 50/50 vs 100%... his main question is how can he date under these circumstances.

This is what I took away as well. I mean the older daughter is with you only for another year or so. Can’t you wait to date until she leaves for college? Clearly your older daughter is affected and why not just put your adult activities on the back burner for now?

[Anonymous]

OP, your mistakebwas saying you're a man
If you were a woman you would receive nothing but hugs and sympathy. The misandry on DCUM is mind boggling!

My advice is to seek legal advice.

Good luck and you sound like a good and loving father.

[Anonymous]

I don’t know anything about custody agreements, but can’t you have your agreement amended so your daughter can live with you full time? I would not leave your daughter alone when you travel. I would put off any dating until your children are both 18. They need to know and genuinely feel that your full attention is on them.