When we (whoever we is) allow seniors to do that, we tell them that certificates of completion are a means to an end, not an end in themselves. |
You're getting really emotional and disrespectful in your answers, but not actually providing good analysis of the benefit to the kid of sitting for those last tests. The fact that you feel so passionately about this, have had numerous prior discussions with parents and kids, but are not able to articulate a real benefit beyond "completion" is telling. Sure, there is value on sticking with something, but if you have already displayed that in other ways in your life, the value of this particular completion is much less -- perhaps enough to be negligible in the scheme of things for the student's particular circumstances, particularly since the kid in this scenario is finishing the class, getting good grades, doing all the work, etc. just not sitting for the final IB exams. I'm all for the IB program and rigorous study and inculcating love of earning. My question is very small and focused on the benefits of sitting for those last exams. It would be great if someone could give a real defense of why that is so valuable for the student. |
What obligation? |
These is no obligation! Students are free to make the choices that serve them best. I know an IB student who was successful all the way through senior year but then became very stressed at the end. She did not complete all of the exams/earn the diploma. She still benefitted from the program and is a successful MPCS grad. |
+1. Thank you. This is well said. Those arguing against IB are those who just do not understand it. And are perhaps a little invious of the program. |
| I have 3 kids, one is a sophomore in Wootton, and two older ones graduated from Blair magnet and RM IB. Overall, having experienced all 3 schools, my DS had a great experience with the Blair magnet program. STEM experience was good, which is expected but the non STEM teaching was very good as well. Since he enjoyed writing, he was able to take an elective with the newspaper publication. I would highly recommend the BLAIR program for parents deciding between the two 'magnet' schools |
You think you are so smart but your approach says a lot about you and why your kids would never do well in life. If your kid is playing a game (soccer for example) and her team is down 3-0 with 2 min to go. Do you tell your kid to stop playing? Or do you tell your kid to do her best and finish the game? Sometimes you learn more from the journey than the end point. Being able to complete what you started is a priceless lesson in life. Sigh... |
? I know what I'm talking about, which is the level of disrespect some people have for teachers and school administrators. It must be hard to live in your heads. I feel sorry for your kids because your attitude probably rubs off on your kids. No wonder there are so many kids who are disrespectful to teachers. I was taught to be respectful, even if the teachers were not very good. What were you taught? To be a self absorbed entitled ahole, no doubt. I am indeed a parent. For all we know, you could be a private school administrator who wants to stir the pot in public schools to steer more people to private. See how that works? |
You are not helping your case by continuing to be disrespectful and insulting -- and devolving to making a personal attack on my kids is, I imagine, beneath you in real life, outside the protection of an anonymous board. It makes it seem as if there is no real argument on the other side. I made a mistake in posting this query in a thread that was not devoted to this topic, which means that not too many people are reading it for this purpose. Reading between the lines of some of the posts, it seems the answer is that the real benefit in the circumstances I described is for the greater good. It helps the program to show successful completion of those last hoops, and that makes it more likely that the program is continued for future generations, and that is a significant value. And, for many children, the value of completion is likely not non-negligible given that the IB program has been such a significant part of their lives, and even for you if it is not so important you help your peers by working together towards completion and so that lifts up the whole class, and so those benefits combined with the good to the future students makes it worthwhile. |
Finishing things you start is important. |
| ^ let’s just say our approaches in how we live our lives and teach our kids are different. You do what works for you. My kids have done fine (2 in med school and 1 PhD in engineering) thanks to the foundation they built in high school. IB was a huge part of their success. To me, your approach is extremely narrow minded and not helpful to your kids. But whatever... they are your kids not mine. |
This was to 9:13 |
As a general principle, yes. But not necessarily in every specific circumstance. |
So RM sucks is what you are saying? Lol |
Except, it’s not like a soccer game (team effort). It’s more like being in the Ironman (individual competition). If my child doesn’t finish, no one else is hurt. But even with a soccer game, if my child wanted to stop because she felt physically run down, emotionally distraught, or otherwise like continuing was not in her best interests, I’d support her decision to stop playing —team or no team. |