DH having an attitude after strip club

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Anonymous wrote:I don't equate exotic dancing with sex work and I think it is dangerous to confound the two.

Um what? What do you the end goal is of exotic dancing?! It's absolutely sex work. Men aren't going to listen to the women debate world Peace... Despite that all the strippers are working their way through Harvard (lmao!!)

Um what yourself. Not all dancers escort.

The whole purpose of stripping is to get naked to get men off ... sometimes involving physical contact. It's a kind of sex work.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don't equate exotic dancing with sex work and I think it is dangerous to confound the two.

You can think what you want. I consider it sex work.

Well, you can consider that the sky is green.
That doesn’t mean you’re correct.

How is stripping not sex work? The entire purpose is to dance to get men sexually aroused

So, many actresses on TV programs and in movies are also sex workers in your mind.

Porn is a kind of sex work, yes.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don't equate exotic dancing with sex work and I think it is dangerous to confound the two.

You can think what you want. I consider it sex work.

Well, you can consider that the sky is green.
That doesn’t mean you’re correct.

How is stripping not sex work? The entire purpose is to dance to get men sexually aroused

So, many actresses on TV programs and in movies are also sex workers in your mind.

So porn actresses aren't sex workers to you?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don't equate exotic dancing with sex work and I think it is dangerous to confound the two.

You can think what you want. I consider it sex work.

Well, you can consider that the sky is green.
That doesn’t mean you’re correct.

How is stripping not sex work? The entire purpose is to dance to get men sexually aroused

So, many actresses on TV programs and in movies are also sex workers in your mind.

Porn is a kind of sex work, yes.

I think PP means regular tv/movies. Many actors and actresses are attractive, wear revealing clothes, do sex scenes, etc. Does that make them sex workers? I mean, I like seeing Thor shirtless, but it’s not like that really adds to the plot at all. It’s straight up eye candy.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don't equate exotic dancing with sex work and I think it is dangerous to confound the two.

You can think what you want. I consider it sex work.

Well, you can consider that the sky is green.
That doesn’t mean you’re correct.

How is stripping not sex work? The entire purpose is to dance to get men sexually aroused

So, many actresses on TV programs and in movies are also sex workers in your mind.

Porn is a kind of sex work, yes.

I think PP means regular tv/movies. Many actors and actresses are attractive, wear revealing clothes, do sex scenes, etc. Does that make them sex workers? I mean, I like seeing Thor shirtless, but it’s not like that really adds to the plot at all. It’s straight up eye candy.

dumb argument that doesn't warrant a response.

Right? If you can't the difference between nudity as apart of a broader artistic story being told versus a show whose only purpose is to sexually arouse the audience, then your argument isn't worth a response. I can't believe the people of DCUM are this dense.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't equate exotic dancing with sex work and I think it is dangerous to confound the two.

You can think what you want. I consider it sex work.

Well, you can consider that the sky is green.
That doesn’t mean you’re correct.

How is stripping not sex work? The entire purpose is to dance to get men sexually aroused

So, many actresses on TV programs and in movies are also sex workers in your mind.

Porn is a kind of sex work, yes.

I think PP means regular tv/movies. Many actors and actresses are attractive, wear revealing clothes, do sex scenes, etc. Does that make them sex workers? I mean, I like seeing Thor shirtless, but it’s not like that really adds to the plot at all. It’s straight up eye candy.

dumb argument that doesn't warrant a response.

Right? If you can't the difference between nudity as apart of a broader artistic story being told versus a show whose only purpose is to sexually arouse the audience, then your argument isn't worth a response. I can't believe the people of DCUM are this dense.

I cant believe there are people dense enough to argue that pole dancing is sex work. It just doesn't make any sense. I'd hate to see the world through their lens.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't equate exotic dancing with sex work and I think it is dangerous to confound the two.

Um what? What do you the end goal is of exotic dancing?! It's absolutely sex work. Men aren't going to listen to the women debate world Peace... Despite that all the strippers are working their way through Harvard (lmao!!)

Um what yourself. Not all dancers escort.

The whole purpose of stripping is to get naked to get men off ... sometimes involving physical contact. It's a kind of sex work.

By "get off" do you mean ejaculate? Have you ever been to a strip club? You sound like the kind of person who is often wrong but never in doubt.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't equate exotic dancing with sex work and I think it is dangerous to confound the two.

Um what? What do you the end goal is of exotic dancing?! It's absolutely sex work. Men aren't going to listen to the women debate world Peace... Despite that all the strippers are working their way through Harvard (lmao!!)

Um what yourself. Not all dancers escort.

Never said they were though a lot of them are.

What study are you basing this little nugget of information on?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So two lap dances is fine but 3 crosses a line?

That seems very arbitrary!

Your best bet would have to been to discuss before the strip club what attending as a couple would look like. Many couples would choose not to attend. You did so define that before you go next time

+1.

OP sounds like a control freak.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't equate exotic dancing with sex work and I think it is dangerous to confound the two.

Um what? What do you the end goal is of exotic dancing?! It's absolutely sex work. Men aren't going to listen to the women debate world Peace... Despite that all the strippers are working their way through Harvard (lmao!!)

Um what yourself. Not all dancers escort.

Never said they were though a lot of them are.

What study are you basing this little nugget of information on?

Right?! For a person who has never set foot in a strip club, she seems to have done extensive research on them.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don't equate exotic dancing with sex work and I think it is dangerous to confound the two.

You can think what you want. I consider it sex work.

Well, you can consider that the sky is green.
That doesn’t mean you’re correct.

How is stripping not sex work? The entire purpose is to dance to get men sexually aroused

So, many actresses on TV programs and in movies are also sex workers in your mind.

Porn is a kind of sex work, yes.

I think PP means regular tv/movies. Many actors and actresses are attractive, wear revealing clothes, do sex scenes, etc. Does that make them sex workers? I mean, I like seeing Thor shirtless, but it’s not like that really adds to the plot at all. It’s straight up eye candy.

dumb argument that doesn't warrant a response.

Right? If you can't the difference between nudity as apart of a broader artistic story being told versus a show whose only purpose is to sexually arouse the audience, then your argument isn't worth a response. I can't believe the people of DCUM are this dense.

Most tv shows and movies aren’t art. They’re designed to make money, and sex sells.

Or what about advertisements? Are the girls in Carl’s Jr. ads sex workers?

What about places like Hooters? Are they sex workers?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't equate exotic dancing with sex work and I think it is dangerous to confound the two.

You can think what you want. I consider it sex work.

Well, you can consider that the sky is green.
That doesn’t mean you’re correct.

How is stripping not sex work? The entire purpose is to dance to get men sexually aroused

So, many actresses on TV programs and in movies are also sex workers in your mind.

Porn is a kind of sex work, yes.

I think PP means regular tv/movies. Many actors and actresses are attractive, wear revealing clothes, do sex scenes, etc. Does that make them sex workers? I mean, I like seeing Thor shirtless, but it’s not like that really adds to the plot at all. It’s straight up eye candy.

dumb argument that doesn't warrant a response.

Right? If you can't the difference between nudity as apart of a broader artistic story being told versus a show whose only purpose is to sexually arouse the audience, then your argument isn't worth a response. I can't believe the people of DCUM are this dense.

Most tv shows and movies aren’t art. They’re designed to make money, and sex sells.

Or what about advertisements? Are the girls in Carl’s Jr. ads sex workers?

What about places like Hooters? Are they sex workers?

Thank you. That was my point.

And on the other side of the coin, many of my former colleagues were classically trained dancers who did view exotic dancing as an art form. I know of two that now own and manage dance studios that teach your daughters. These women are perfectly kind, respectful, decent and loving individuals. That was the norm, not the damaged, drug addicted, "slutty" narrative that PP is portraying.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't equate exotic dancing with sex work and I think it is dangerous to confound the two.

You can think what you want. I consider it sex work.

Well, you can consider that the sky is green.
That doesn’t mean you’re correct.

How is stripping not sex work? The entire purpose is to dance to get men sexually aroused

So, many actresses on TV programs and in movies are also sex workers in your mind.

Porn is a kind of sex work, yes.

I think PP means regular tv/movies. Many actors and actresses are attractive, wear revealing clothes, do sex scenes, etc. Does that make them sex workers? I mean, I like seeing Thor shirtless, but it’s not like that really adds to the plot at all. It’s straight up eye candy.

dumb argument that doesn't warrant a response.

Right? If you can't the difference between nudity as apart of a broader artistic story being told versus a show whose only purpose is to sexually arouse the audience, then your argument isn't worth a response. I can't believe the people of DCUM are this dense.

Most tv shows and movies aren’t art. They’re designed to make money, and sex sells.

Or what about advertisements? Are the girls in Carl’s Jr. ads sex workers?

What about places like Hooters? Are they sex workers?

Thank you. That was my point.

And on the other side of the coin, many of my former colleagues were classically trained dancers who did view exotic dancing as an art form. I know of two that now own and manage dance studios that teach your daughters. These women are perfectly kind, respectful, decent and loving individuals. That was the norm, not the damaged, drug addicted, "slutty" narrative that PP is portraying.

You both sound dense. LOL. Strippers are sex workers.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't equate exotic dancing with sex work and I think it is dangerous to confound the two.

You can think what you want. I consider it sex work.

Well, you can consider that the sky is green.
That doesn’t mean you’re correct.

How is stripping not sex work? The entire purpose is to dance to get men sexually aroused

So, many actresses on TV programs and in movies are also sex workers in your mind.

Porn is a kind of sex work, yes.

I think PP means regular tv/movies. Many actors and actresses are attractive, wear revealing clothes, do sex scenes, etc. Does that make them sex workers? I mean, I like seeing Thor shirtless, but it’s not like that really adds to the plot at all. It’s straight up eye candy.

dumb argument that doesn't warrant a response.

Right? If you can't the difference between nudity as apart of a broader artistic story being told versus a show whose only purpose is to sexually arouse the audience, then your argument isn't worth a response. I can't believe the people of DCUM are this dense.

Most tv shows and movies aren’t art. They’re designed to make money, and sex sells.

Or what about advertisements? Are the girls in Carl’s Jr. ads sex workers?

What about places like Hooters? Are they sex workers?

Thank you. That was my point.

And on the other side of the coin, many of my former colleagues were classically trained dancers who did view exotic dancing as an art form. I know of two that now own and manage dance studios that teach your daughters. These women are perfectly kind, respectful, decent and loving individuals. That was the norm, not the damaged, drug addicted, "slutty" narrative that PP is portraying.

You both sound dense. LOL. Strippers are sex workers.

Ah, a sound argument. You're quite the intellect, aren't you?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Did you go to Camelot?

I knew girls who worked there in the late 90s. They were cool girls. Troubled, but cool. You should hear what strippers think of people who go to clubs.

LOL you should try to imagine how much I care about the good opinion of stupid sluts who dance naked for money.

Ok, wow. Former dancer here. I now have a family and professional job, and you would never, ever know about my past employment. Women I worked with are now lawyers, real estate agents, computer programmers, librarians, social workers, nurses, etc. Honestly everyone reading this thread probably knows a former dancer and has no idea, so I would watch it with sentiments like this. Most women who work in strip clubs aren't "stupid sluts", in my experience it was usually college students and moms who wanted to work three days a week and spend the rest of the time with their kids. I for one am one of the only people I know that didn't have family pay for college and has no student loans. So.

On to what dancers think of customers. Honestly, female customers were the bane of my existence. Women either think they have a license to get handsy and that the rules don't apply to them because they're women, or get super jealous about their dad bod husband they came with. Newsflash: chris rock wasn't lying when he said there was no sex in the champagne room. Dancers just want to make money and are not trying to get with your loser husbands. Dancing is basically a hardcore sales job, so everything that is said and done is done with the goal of selling dances. Sob story? Probably not true, just a hustle. Smooth talking about how attractive and fun the customer is? Also a hustle.

As for OP, next time you go you should talk with your husband first about what your boundaries are.

Former dancer: please, please, please do an AMA thread!

There’s a really long AMA by a stripper from a couple years ago here: https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/468478.page
You probably wouldn’t be able to ask any new questions, but I bet your questions were already asked in 25 pages.