The Bachelorette 13- Rachel Lindsay

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Anonymous wrote:I wonder if Rachel knows about Bryan's past?
http://okhereisthesituation.com/2017/07/bryan-abasolo-reality-show/

Embarrassed to say I watched this show when it aired!

Guy here and saw that video. Does being a "player" really have to mean you have to be a douchey-looking hair-gelled prick? To be fair, it was the mid 2000's but gosh...such douches...

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if Rachel knows about Bryan's past?
http://okhereisthesituation.com/2017/07/bryan-abasolo-reality-show/

Embarrassed to say I watched this show when it aired!

Guy here and saw that video. Does being a "player" really have to mean you have to be a douchey-looking hair-gelled prick? To be fair, it was the mid 2000's but gosh...such douches...

oooh I clicked on the link but won't watch the video- just seeing his old photo makes me want to purell my eyes and I think my monitor now has an STD.

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Anonymous wrote:It's obvious she ends up with Bryan - Peter's not ready, Eric is younger and much less experienced, and they have 'mysteriously' left us without yet seeing anything from the date and fantasy night with Bryan. Hmm.

What a mistake. I would never want Bryan's mom as my MIL. And he's so damn phony. Eric is the only sincere one left.

Eric honestly seems like the most sincere contestant I can remember in years, maybe since Desiree's season with Chris.

With Eric there's absolutely no pretense or playing a role for the cameras, just honesty. He seems like a great guy.

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I wonder if Peter's not being ready is a red herring though.

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Yeah, I think the Peter thing is a distraction - my money is on Peter (please no spoilers if you read Reality Steve).

Did you all catch Peter's dig at Bryan? He was saying it's no secret he isn't Bryan's biggest fan, and that he's very "Miami" and Miami has lots of fake boobs, fake butts, and fake CHEEKS. Direct hit!

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Eric seems like he just wants hugs and snuggles, but I'm afraid she's beyond where he's at. They could be tricking us into thinking it's Bryan. If he doesn't win, I'd feel a little bad for him since he's seemed like the front runner the whole time. She has more of a mental connection with Peter but she's being a little spoiled wanting a proposal from him.

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Anonymous wrote:Eric seems like he just wants hugs and snuggles, but I'm afraid she's beyond where he's at. They could be tricking us into thinking it's Bryan. If he doesn't win, I'd feel a little bad for him since he's seemed like the front runner the whole time. She has more of a mental connection with Peter but she's being a little spoiled wanting a proposal from him.

I don't think she's being spoiled. Hasn't every other bachelorette gotten a proposal? He went on a show where the winner gets to propose and now he's like "we, umm, idk." Also apparently he wrote in his hs yearbook he wanted to be the bachelor in the future. Whole thing just screams of angling to be the first runner up.

Eric has really grown on me. He seems so sweet. But I agree that he's probably not her person for this stage of life. Also don't know how well he would fit into her family.

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I posted earlier about saying I think it's going to be Bryan, though I wonder the same, if the recent clips showing Peter are just to fool us, and it really ends up being him.

Agree that Eric is sweet, seems genuine. But I can't get it out of my head that he is several years younger than Rachel - is it about 6 years? It shouldn't matter if they connect emotionally and intellectually, but it seems they really aren't on the same level.

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Re: Eric, I feel like Rachel has to mother him in everything -- like he hasn't had enough life experiences to "be the man" in the relationship. She has to be the one who teaches him things and explains things and shows him life. I don't feel like he brings an equal level of knowledge/experience/mastery to the relationship.

Women want a man who, at times, takes care of them and knows how to manage life. Women don't want to have to be "in charge" of everything ALL THE TIME. Eric is just a newbie when it comes to so many things... I think Rachel wants a man who isn't just learning how to go about life. Confidence that comes from experience is sexy.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm at the point where I don't really care who she picks because none of them seem that great.

+1 She's awesome and hopefully is doing a great acting job bc Eric is the only one who matches her in terms of sincerity. But he isn't a good fit to be her husband. He's a great guy and hopefully he'll find a great woman outside of Bachelor World. Peter is not that into her or the process and Bryan is too into both.

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It's really too bad Will didn't work out

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Anonymous wrote:Peter is from Wisconsin. I bet there aren't that many black women up north so it's not strange he has never dated one before. I think he's just not that into her or is one of those guys who thinks marriage is optional, or is too normal to be ready to get married after a TV show.

I think it's this -- he's too normal to want to be engaged after knowing someone for such a short time. I'm GLAD he's hesitating, it proves he's a normal guy.

He is on the wrong show and should have never agreed to appear on this type of show. A proposal is expected at the end of each Bachelorette airing, and there is no need for Rachel to become the first to not receive a proposal.

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Anonymous wrote:I posted earlier about saying I think it's going to be Bryan, though I wonder the same, if the recent clips showing Peter are just to fool us, and it really ends up being him.

Agree that Eric is sweet, seems genuine. But I can't get it out of my head that he is several years younger than Rachel - is it about 6 years? It shouldn't matter if they connect emotionally and intellectually, but it seems they really aren't on the same level.

Rachel is 31. Eric is 29. Dean is 26.

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Eric went to college, moved cross country, and is a motivational speaker.

I think she'll wind up getting hurt by Peter and have MIL problems if she chooses Bryan.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Peter is from Wisconsin. I bet there aren't that many black women up north so it's not strange he has never dated one before. I think he's just not that into her or is one of those guys who thinks marriage is optional, or is too normal to be ready to get married after a TV show.

I think it's this -- he's too normal to want to be engaged after knowing someone for such a short time. I'm GLAD he's hesitating, it proves he's a normal guy.

He is on the wrong show and should have never agreed to appear on this type of show. A proposal is expected at the end of each Bachelorette airing, and there is no need for Rachel to become the first to not receive a proposal.

I agree. Can I say I'm low keyed annoyed with Peter right now. I think I read somewhere that he has applied several times to be the bachelor or something like that so he can't be shocked that the show has a person making up their mind within 8-9 weeks to get engaged. I would be annoyed with him even if the Bachelorette were white, sort of on behalf of every woman that had the guy string her along and missed out on being able to meet someone that wanted to marry and start a family with her. As a black woman that has seen my non-black friends have an easier time of finding love and marriage, I am very conscious of message it sends for the first black bachelorette - on her game, beautiful, smart, fun etc., to be the first and only bachelorette NOT to get an engagement at the end and have her do all the bending/concessions for Peter to maybe think about making a commitment someday, maybe, if his walls come down.... oh nooooo.