7 and 5 year old. Would you have another one in my situation?

[Anonymous]

I have three kids but with a much smaller age span (4 years between oldest to youngest). I adore having three. I think our small age gap made for some wild and woolly years when they were all small--it got better when they were all school age. Now that they're teens, it's pretty wonderful.

Here are some things that I think would be helpful if adding a third, especially with a large age gap:

Flexibility
Are you and DH roll-with-it types or are you more scheduled? How do you feel about napping in the car or on the go? How do you feel about interrupted sleep with a baby and then being on the go at a soccer tournament all day? (How do you feel about missing part of said tournament if baby has to be home to nap?)

Support
Do you have local family or a network of friends or trusted caregivers?

Interests
Do your first two kids have common interests/activities or are you already stretched in two directions running one kid to swim and one to gymnastics?

School
How much are you loving school age and everything it entails ... communication with the school/teacher, homework, spirit days, conferences? Because you'll be adding another 6+ years into your time in the school system, which is like another whole run through elementary school after your middle child would be moving to middle.