While on travel, I met someone; nothing happened, .but I can not stop comparing her to my wife

[Anonymous]

op, she is good at what she does. don't take the bait.

[Anonymous]

OP, your wife might feel the same way about you that you feel about her.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. I also blocked her. I do not think I gave her my last name, but I might have in the initial introduction.

In 20 years of marriage, I have never strayed. And I do not intend to start now. There are issues in the marriage; DW and I are both at ages where bodies do not work as well as they used too. So libido is down for her.

But, the relationship is there, and we work well in a crisis.

You kissed another woman. YOU DID STRAY.

To be technical, she kissed me, and I did not stop it right away. That was wrong, I know.

You kissed another woman. You should have stopped it right away. You did stray. I consider that cheating.

Oh, so since this person says you already cheated you might as well go pound her for real now.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. I also blocked her. I do not think I gave her my last name, but I might have in the initial introduction.

In 20 years of marriage, I have never strayed. And I do not intend to start now. There are issues in the marriage; DW and I are both at ages where bodies do not work as well as they used too. So libido is down for her.

But, the relationship is there, and we work well in a crisis.

You kissed another woman. YOU DID STRAY.

To be technical, she kissed me, and I did not stop it right away. That was wrong, I know.

You should not have been hanging out with the woman in the first place! I don't believe you are telling the whole story.

I'll bet your husband thinks you are amazing .... how do I know you're a woman?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. In hindsight, I regret the interaction with this woman. I thought I was being friendly; I do not notice subtle flirting. Heck, I might not notice flirting unless the woman said "I am flirting with you". I think my initial reaction was more out of the surprise that someone finds me attractive.

I am really glad I did not take her up on her offer -- I do not need more drama in my life. And, frankly, I would hate to do that to my wife. I do love her, though we have grown complacent with each other.

Since you're done with her, how can I get in touch with her?