Found a condom in my husband's car

[Anonymous]

I bought condoms yesterday and they had an expiration date of Aug 2018.

[Anonymous]

I'd just ask. In person. Watch his eyes to see if he's lying.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Does anyone else think hookers when there's condoms and lube in the car?

My thoughts exactly.

[Anonymous]

Jerking off in the car seem more likely to me than gay sex meet ups and hookers.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Jerking off in the car seem more likely to me than gay sex meet ups and hookers.

Sure. But not jerking off with lube and condoms. It would probably take a guy an hour to get himself off while wearing a condom. Plus, they run the risk of exactly what happened here/ trying to explain to angry DW "I was using them to jack off I swear!"

[Anonymous]

Where is OP? My curiosity needs an update.

[Anonymous]

When the lube became involved, my first thought was the "perfect husband" DC lawyer that was killed in that hotel after meeting up with what he thought was a man for sex, like he had done many times before (craigslist ads). Yuck.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

When the lube became involved, my first thought was the "perfect husband" DC lawyer that was killed in that hotel after meeting up with what he thought was a man for sex, like he had done many times before (craigslist ads). Yuck.

+1. Unfortunately, I don't think there can be an innocent explanation for this.

[Anonymous]

Some (a lot) of you watch way too much SVU. Or you're just stupid. You do realize men cheating with other women also use condoms so, I don't know, they don't knock up their mistress?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Some (a lot) of you watch way too much SVU. Or you're just stupid. You do realize men cheating with other women also use condoms so, I don't know, they don't knock up their mistress?

Right, but they probably don't use condoms AND lube.

[Anonymous]

The lube seems to seal the deal that he is having extramarital relations, but I don't think it definitely means men. TMI but I went through a patch after having kids when I was dry as the Sahara and my husband and I used lube liberally and some women just are kind of dry. I think having this stuff in the car is bad news, though. Who keeps lube in the car? That would indicate to me that the husband is getting it on in the car, which many people in affairs do (just wander over to the explicit forum to see how many people seem to have sex in cars in parking garages and such with their other men/women).

[Anonymous]

Run away OP. Life is too short to be with a man who has weird sex with strangers. Lube and condoms in his car is NO joke. He is gross. Move on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe he's using them to masturbate because he doesn't like the mess. That would also explain the lube. Kind of weird, but a possibility.

Man here...and since we're anonymous and all...

I used to use condoms, and yes lube, to masturbate. I'll spare you all the details but yeah, it's a distinct possibility. I never hid them in the car because at that time we used condoms ourselves so there was no need, but if we weren't using condoms I suppose I'd have to keep them somewhere. Might seem far fetched, but perhaps not as far fetched as some women might think. Dudes be freaky sometimes.

I'm an old guy now and we're condom free, and also in a better place, so my occasional solo flights are no longer quite so elaborate.

The part I'm having a hard time getting past is why he'd leave them so easily found.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Maybe he's using them to masturbate because he doesn't like the mess. That would also explain the lube. Kind of weird, but a possibility.

Man here...and since we're anonymous and all...

I used to use condoms, and yes lube, to masturbate. I'll spare you all the details but yeah, it's a distinct possibility. I never hid them in the car because at that time we used condoms ourselves so there was no need, but if we weren't using condoms I suppose I'd have to keep them somewhere. Might seem far fetched, but perhaps not as far fetched as some women might think. Dudes be freaky sometimes.

I'm an old guy now and we're condom free, and also in a better place, so my occasional solo flights are no longer quite so elaborate.

The part I'm having a hard time getting past is why he'd leave them so easily found.

I know of another man who does this. So I'd definitely want more evidence.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some (a lot) of you watch way too much SVU. Or you're just stupid. You do realize men cheating with other women also use condoms so, I don't know, they don't knock up their mistress?

Right, but they probably don't use condoms AND lube.

... Because only gay men use lube??