Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'm a MV parent that has impromptu playdates with others in the school who live in different parts of the city. It hasn't been too difficult, at least it doesn't seem like it as we do it at least once a week. Sometimes they are at people's houses, but often they are at public places. Often, they involve one parent picking up all the kids and meeting up with the others for pizza or drinks, giving the other parents extra time to get out of work. The combo of texting and public transportation really is amazing.
Additionally, MV hosts tons of formal playdates in various parts of the city. I think one of the things that I have loved most about the school is the ability to really explore the resources of the city. For instance, I never would have known abou the amazing pool at Deanwood had it not been for a great birthday party held there. And, getting there is actually really fast via metro.
What cracks me up is the inherent assumption in this post that every parent can afford to 'meet up with the others' for pizza or drinks. It reminds me of the other thread on what it's like to be a lower income parent at an HRCS, where everyone else seems to be meeting for pizza and drinks with their kids and you can't go because you're trying to make rent. It's a bit hard to participate in the "charming" pool play date when you don't have time off on Saturdays.
Well, okay, but are you suggesting that they should never set up a playdate in case someone has to work that day? A playdate at someone's house, a public pool or a public park costs nothing to attend other than transportation. And it sound like the playdates are organized in a way to make it easy for parents to participate; e.g. one parent picks up all the kids and the adults join as they're able.
I just question the knee-jerk reaction that everything, even play dates at a park, needs to be forbidden on the off chance that one person can't afford it. I'm not a MV parent, by the way, but the impression I get is that they are very sensitive to making activities accessible to everyone.