Have you ever been with someone you’re 100% sexually compatible with?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It’s hard to see if I’m sexually compatible with men when dating. I’m so grossed out by their whoring around. Sex is everything protected I’m avoiding anything but PIV because I can’t know for sure where his lips, P etc were last night

When I was exclusive with exH we could explore because I trusted him. Good sex to me comes from high level of trust

Why not find a partner open and honest who will discuss these things beforehand so that this isn't an issue? I have had women bring this up and I am just as concerned about safety as they are. And if they weren't, it would not be a good match for me. I can't be the only man who thinks like this.

Men who are ready to be exclusive outright either continued secretly sleeping with other women and just used exclusivity to get a “condom exception”. Or they would be unattractive . Everyone attractive - men and women - sleep around a lot

So are you lying, unattractive, or sleep around a lot?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It’s hard to see if I’m sexually compatible with men when dating. I’m so grossed out by their whoring around. Sex is everything protected I’m avoiding anything but PIV because I can’t know for sure where his lips, P etc were last night

When I was exclusive with exH we could explore because I trusted him. Good sex to me comes from high level of trust

Why not find a partner open and honest who will discuss these things beforehand so that this isn't an issue? I have had women bring this up and I am just as concerned about safety as they are. And if they weren't, it would not be a good match for me. I can't be the only man who thinks like this.

Men who are ready to be exclusive outright either continued secretly sleeping with other women and just used exclusivity to get a “condom exception”. Or they would be unattractive . Everyone attractive - men and women - sleep around a lot

So are you lying, unattractive, or sleep around a lot?

I’m not a man. My experience with men was as described above.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It’s hard to see if I’m sexually compatible with men when dating. I’m so grossed out by their whoring around. Sex is everything protected I’m avoiding anything but PIV because I can’t know for sure where his lips, P etc were last night

When I was exclusive with exH we could explore because I trusted him. Good sex to me comes from high level of trust

Why not find a partner open and honest who will discuss these things beforehand so that this isn't an issue? I have had women bring this up and I am just as concerned about safety as they are. And if they weren't, it would not be a good match for me. I can't be the only man who thinks like this.

Men who are ready to be exclusive outright either continued secretly sleeping with other women and just used exclusivity to get a “condom exception”. Or they would be unattractive . Everyone attractive - men and women - sleep around a lot

So are you lying, unattractive, or sleep around a lot?

I’m not a man. My experience with men was as described above.

I got that. But do you see how ridiculous it sounds when I tried to apply it to you? At base, you keep running into undesirables because you mistrust any man who acts the way you actually wish they would act.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ex was awesome. But ex for reasons.

This. THIS

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It’s hard to see if I’m sexually compatible with men when dating. I’m so grossed out by their whoring around. Sex is everything protected I’m avoiding anything but PIV because I can’t know for sure where his lips, P etc were last night

When I was exclusive with exH we could explore because I trusted him. Good sex to me comes from high level of trust

Why not find a partner open and honest who will discuss these things beforehand so that this isn't an issue? I have had women bring this up and I am just as concerned about safety as they are. And if they weren't, it would not be a good match for me. I can't be the only man who thinks like this.

Men who are ready to be exclusive outright either continued secretly sleeping with other women and just used exclusivity to get a “condom exception”. Or they would be unattractive . Everyone attractive - men and women - sleep around a lot

So are you lying, unattractive, or sleep around a lot?

I’m not a man. My experience with men was as described above.

I got that. But do you see how ridiculous it sounds when I tried to apply it to you? At base, you keep running into undesirables because you mistrust any man who acts the way you actually wish they would act.

Trust is earned. Trust but verify. I do ask for condoms and STD tests. Guess how many men would be willing to ? Close to none. It’s not like my picker is broken. It’s the lack of incentives - they can get unprotected sex easily elsewhere

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he is compatible and/or just really good and generous in the bedroom! I did have someone I was 100% sexually compatible with, but it was a long distance relationship and we had to breakup for other reasons. I still moss it. But my husband and I are like 95% compatible, so it works

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, and the chemistry was wild. I would have done literally anything for him in bed and it hasn’t been like that with other partners. He had a gorgeous body. He was tall (like 6’3”), lean and muscular. The first time we were together he had gotten out of bed to take off his clothes. I was looking at the floor when he took off his pants and his penis literally cast a shadow. An enormous shadow. 🥵 He must’ve seen the look on my face because he was like “Don’t worry, we’ll go slow”.

Does it seem like these high chemistry guys have a way of making you do things you didn’t know you could do or would enjoy?

Wow! Shadow guy sounds great! 😂

What do you mean by doing things you wouldn’t normally do?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, and the chemistry was wild. I would have done literally anything for him in bed and it hasn’t been like that with other partners. He had a gorgeous body. He was tall (like 6’3”), lean and muscular. The first time we were together he had gotten out of bed to take off his clothes. I was looking at the floor when he took off his pants and his penis literally cast a shadow. An enormous shadow. 🥵 He must’ve seen the look on my face because he was like “Don’t worry, we’ll go slow”.

Does it seem like these high chemistry guys have a way of making you do things you didn’t know you could do or would enjoy?

Wow! Shadow guy sounds great! 😂

What do you mean by doing things you wouldn’t normally do?

How big does he have to be to cast a shadow? Seriously, asking for a friend, and for science.

[Anonymous]

Oh yes and it was amazing. So perfect in all ways. But her family hated me because I wasn’t Jewish, so marriage wasnt going to work. I miss her so much even 15 years later. Yes, they HATED me.

[Anonymous]

I have indeed and it's a special thing.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, and the chemistry was wild. I would have done literally anything for him in bed and it hasn’t been like that with other partners. He had a gorgeous body. He was tall (like 6’3”), lean and muscular. The first time we were together he had gotten out of bed to take off his clothes. I was looking at the floor when he took off his pants and his penis literally cast a shadow. An enormous shadow. 🥵 He must’ve seen the look on my face because he was like “Don’t worry, we’ll go slow”.

Does it seem like these high chemistry guys have a way of making you do things you didn’t know you could do or would enjoy?

Wow! Shadow guy sounds great! 😂

What do you mean by doing things you wouldn’t normally do?

I meant certain positions that aren’t really possible with others, different places and oral. I probably gave him oral every time we were together which isn’t something I’m normally into.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, and the chemistry was wild. I would have done literally anything for him in bed and it hasn’t been like that with other partners. He had a gorgeous body. He was tall (like 6’3”), lean and muscular. The first time we were together he had gotten out of bed to take off his clothes. I was looking at the floor when he took off his pants and his penis literally cast a shadow. An enormous shadow. 🥵 He must’ve seen the look on my face because he was like “Don’t worry, we’ll go slow”.

Does it seem like these high chemistry guys have a way of making you do things you didn’t know you could do or would enjoy?

Wow! Shadow guy sounds great! 😂

What do you mean by doing things you wouldn’t normally do?

How big does he have to be to cast a shadow? Seriously, asking for a friend, and for science.

I never measured. Who would do that anyway? I remember that when he laid it on my stomach it was up past my belly button. It was up past his as well and really thick.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, and the chemistry was wild. I would have done literally anything for him in bed and it hasn’t been like that with other partners. He had a gorgeous body. He was tall (like 6’3”), lean and muscular. The first time we were together he had gotten out of bed to take off his clothes. I was looking at the floor when he took off his pants and his penis literally cast a shadow. An enormous shadow. 🥵 He must’ve seen the look on my face because he was like “Don’t worry, we’ll go slow”.

Does it seem like these high chemistry guys have a way of making you do things you didn’t know you could do or would enjoy?

Wow! Shadow guy sounds great! 😂

What do you mean by doing things you wouldn’t normally do?

How big does he have to be to cast a shadow? Seriously, asking for a friend, and for science.

I never measured. Who would do that anyway? I remember that when he laid it on my stomach it was up past my belly button. It was up past his as well and really thick.

Dear Penthouse, I always thought your stories were made up until the following happened. I was with a guy for the first time and swear, it looked like a thick flagpole....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, and the chemistry was wild. I would have done literally anything for him in bed and it hasn’t been like that with other partners. He had a gorgeous body. He was tall (like 6’3”), lean and muscular. The first time we were together he had gotten out of bed to take off his clothes. I was looking at the floor when he took off his pants and his penis literally cast a shadow. An enormous shadow. 🥵 He must’ve seen the look on my face because he was like “Don’t worry, we’ll go slow”.

Does it seem like these high chemistry guys have a way of making you do things you didn’t know you could do or would enjoy?

Wow! Shadow guy sounds great! 😂

What do you mean by doing things you wouldn’t normally do?

How big does he have to be to cast a shadow? Seriously, asking for a friend, and for science.

I never measured. Who would do that anyway? I remember that when he laid it on my stomach it was up past my belly button. It was up past his as well and really thick.

Dear Penthouse, I always thought your stories were made up until the following happened. I was with a guy for the first time and swear, it looked like a thick flagpole....

I don’t get the reference. Is this an older person’s pop culture reference or what?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, and the chemistry was wild. I would have done literally anything for him in bed and it hasn’t been like that with other partners. He had a gorgeous body. He was tall (like 6’3”), lean and muscular. The first time we were together he had gotten out of bed to take off his clothes. I was looking at the floor when he took off his pants and his penis literally cast a shadow. An enormous shadow. 🥵 He must’ve seen the look on my face because he was like “Don’t worry, we’ll go slow”.

Does it seem like these high chemistry guys have a way of making you do things you didn’t know you could do or would enjoy?

Wow! Shadow guy sounds great! 😂

What do you mean by doing things you wouldn’t normally do?

How big does he have to be to cast a shadow? Seriously, asking for a friend, and for science.

I never measured. Who would do that anyway? I remember that when he laid it on my stomach it was up past my belly button. It was up past his as well and really thick.

Dear Penthouse, I always thought your stories were made up until the following happened. I was with a guy for the first time and swear, it looked like a thick flagpole....

I don’t get the reference. Is this an older person’s pop culture reference or what?

LOL, yes, indeed.