Have you ever been with someone you’re 100% sexually compatible with?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Great Question

As a man, I've only had (3) really compatible partners out of literally dozens. Finding a woman that actually isn't shy nude, passionately enjoys oral both ways, able to O without toys, and puts in as much effort as me, is truly hard to find. Sadly, most women are just lazy, period.

Not wanting to give oral immediately isn’t a sign that a woman is lazy. Some women see it as degrading to service him like that and want to love the guy first. It’s usually low quality women that don’t hesitate.

I would abstain from giving characterizations. I personally find regular PIV more degrading or hesitant to let him down on me (out of herpes concern). Giving a man oral to me is an act of HIS submission to me, not my submission to him. His P is surrounded by my teeth, and I'm pretty safe and comfortable. No pressure for me to orgasm etc. Itss the least risky for STDs act, too

[Anonymous]

Yes, and the chemistry was wild. I would have done literally anything for him in bed and it hasn’t been like that with other partners. He had a gorgeous body. He was tall (like 6’3”), lean and muscular. The first time we were together he had gotten out of bed to take off his clothes. I was looking at the floor when he took off his pants and his penis literally cast a shadow. An enormous shadow. 🥵 He must’ve seen the look on my face because he was like “Don’t worry, we’ll go slow”.

Does it seem like these high chemistry guys have a way of making you do things you didn’t know you could do or would enjoy?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, and the chemistry was wild. I would have done literally anything for him in bed and it hasn’t been like that with other partners. He had a gorgeous body. He was tall (like 6’3”), lean and muscular. The first time we were together he had gotten out of bed to take off his clothes. I was looking at the floor when he took off his pants and his penis literally cast a shadow. An enormous shadow. 🥵 He must’ve seen the look on my face because he was like “Don’t worry, we’ll go slow”.

Does it seem like these high chemistry guys have a way of making you do things you didn’t know you could do or would enjoy?

What happened????

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, and the chemistry was wild. I would have done literally anything for him in bed and it hasn’t been like that with other partners. He had a gorgeous body. He was tall (like 6’3”), lean and muscular. The first time we were together he had gotten out of bed to take off his clothes. I was looking at the floor when he took off his pants and his penis literally cast a shadow. An enormous shadow. 🥵 He must’ve seen the look on my face because he was like “Don’t worry, we’ll go slow”.

Does it seem like these high chemistry guys have a way of making you do things you didn’t know you could do or would enjoy?

What happened????

To my relationship with him?

I wanted something more serious and he wasn’t on the same page at the time. I had started dating my now DH around the same time. The guy has a family now and by all appearances is a great husband and father.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Great Question

As a man, I've only had (3) really compatible partners out of literally dozens. Finding a woman that actually isn't shy nude, passionately enjoys oral both ways, able to O without toys, and puts in as much effort as me, is truly hard to find. Sadly, most women are just lazy, period.

Not wanting to give oral immediately isn’t a sign that a woman is lazy. Some women see it as degrading to service him like that and want to love the guy first. It’s usually low quality women that don’t hesitate.

This is a weird take. If a guy didn't want to give me oral because he saw it as degrading, I'd immediately move on. Certainly wouldn't have PIV sex with him, or even kiss him.

If a guy makes you feel so icky that oral is degrading, you shouldn't be sleeping with him, falling in love with him, none of that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, and the chemistry was wild. I would have done literally anything for him in bed and it hasn’t been like that with other partners. He had a gorgeous body. He was tall (like 6’3”), lean and muscular. The first time we were together he had gotten out of bed to take off his clothes. I was looking at the floor when he took off his pants and his penis literally cast a shadow. An enormous shadow. 🥵 He must’ve seen the look on my face because he was like “Don’t worry, we’ll go slow”.

Does it seem like these high chemistry guys have a way of making you do things you didn’t know you could do or would enjoy?

What happened????

To my relationship with him?

I wanted something more serious and he wasn’t on the same page at the time. I had started dating my now DH around the same time. The guy has a family now and by all appearances is a great husband and father.

One lucky wife he's got!

Anyone claiming looks and body don't matter to women should read this. Women would do anything for great sex and partners!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, and the chemistry was wild. I would have done literally anything for him in bed and it hasn’t been like that with other partners. He had a gorgeous body. He was tall (like 6’3”), lean and muscular. The first time we were together he had gotten out of bed to take off his clothes. I was looking at the floor when he took off his pants and his penis literally cast a shadow. An enormous shadow. 🥵 He must’ve seen the look on my face because he was like “Don’t worry, we’ll go slow”.

Does it seem like these high chemistry guys have a way of making you do things you didn’t know you could do or would enjoy?

What happened????

To my relationship with him?

I wanted something more serious and he wasn’t on the same page at the time. I had started dating my now DH around the same time. The guy has a family now and by all appearances is a great husband and father.

Also, one more thing is that he could be kind of a jerk sometimes and not help fix problems he caused. For instance, I mentioned he was tall, he would have his feet pressed against the footboard of my bed when we were at it. He was pushing against it too hard and it let out a loud crack. He just kept going and never helped fix it. I also lost my deposit on the house I was renting because the hardwood floors were chewed up where my bed was.

That’s one of the things that made me fall for my dh. He helped me move and even fixed the footboard on my bed. He made some awkward jokes about it but I just played dumb. 😇

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Great Question

As a man, I've only had (3) really compatible partners out of literally dozens. Finding a woman that actually isn't shy nude, passionately enjoys oral both ways, able to O without toys, and puts in as much effort as me, is truly hard to find. Sadly, most women are just lazy, period.

Not wanting to give oral immediately isn’t a sign that a woman is lazy. Some women see it as degrading to service him like that and want to love the guy first. It’s usually low quality women that don’t hesitate.

This is a weird take. If a guy didn't want to give me oral because he saw it as degrading, I'd immediately move on. Certainly wouldn't have PIV sex with him, or even kiss him.

If a guy makes you feel so icky that oral is degrading, you shouldn't be sleeping with him, falling in love with him, none of that.

NP. I have never understood the distinctions people make like the PP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, and the chemistry was wild. I would have done literally anything for him in bed and it hasn’t been like that with other partners. He had a gorgeous body. He was tall (like 6’3”), lean and muscular. The first time we were together he had gotten out of bed to take off his clothes. I was looking at the floor when he took off his pants and his penis literally cast a shadow. An enormous shadow. 🥵 He must’ve seen the look on my face because he was like “Don’t worry, we’ll go slow”.

Does it seem like these high chemistry guys have a way of making you do things you didn’t know you could do or would enjoy?

What happened????

To my relationship with him?

I wanted something more serious and he wasn’t on the same page at the time. I had started dating my now DH around the same time. The guy has a family now and by all appearances is a great husband and father.

Also, one more thing is that he could be kind of a jerk sometimes and not help fix problems he caused. For instance, I mentioned he was tall, he would have his feet pressed against the footboard of my bed when we were at it. He was pushing against it too hard and it let out a loud crack. He just kept going and never helped fix it. I also lost my deposit on the house I was renting because the hardwood floors were chewed up where my bed was.

That’s one of the things that made me fall for my dh. He helped me move and even fixed the footboard on my bed. He made some awkward jokes about it but I just played dumb. 😇

This is most hilarious story I've read on dcum in years!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Great Question

As a man, I've only had (3) really compatible partners out of literally dozens. Finding a woman that actually isn't shy nude, passionately enjoys oral both ways, able to O without toys, and puts in as much effort as me, is truly hard to find. Sadly, most women are just lazy, period.

Not wanting to give oral immediately isn’t a sign that a woman is lazy. Some women see it as degrading to service him like that and want to love the guy first. It’s usually low quality women that don’t hesitate.

This is a weird take. If a guy didn't want to give me oral because he saw it as degrading, I'd immediately move on. Certainly wouldn't have PIV sex with him, or even kiss him.

If a guy makes you feel so icky that oral is degrading, you shouldn't be sleeping with him, falling in love with him, none of that.

NP. I have never understood the distinctions people make like the PP.

I make the distinction because I don't want to get herpes from a new partner "down there". You are aware that our lips and mouth contain more bacteria, viruses and infections than genitalia, right?

Oral sex is mixing liquids and exposes you to STDs even if you use condoms for PIV. How come you didn't study it in HS?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Great Question

As a man, I've only had (3) really compatible partners out of literally dozens. Finding a woman that actually isn't shy nude, passionately enjoys oral both ways, able to O without toys, and puts in as much effort as me, is truly hard to find. Sadly, most women are just lazy, period.

Not wanting to give oral immediately isn’t a sign that a woman is lazy. Some women see it as degrading to service him like that and want to love the guy first. It’s usually low quality women that don’t hesitate.

This is a weird take. If a guy didn't want to give me oral because he saw it as degrading, I'd immediately move on. Certainly wouldn't have PIV sex with him, or even kiss him.

If a guy makes you feel so icky that oral is degrading, you shouldn't be sleeping with him, falling in love with him, none of that.

NP. I have never understood the distinctions people make like the PP.

I make the distinction because I don't want to get herpes from a new partner "down there". You are aware that our lips and mouth contain more bacteria, viruses and infections than genitalia, right?

Oral sex is mixing liquids and exposes you to STDs even if you use condoms for PIV. How come you didn't study it in HS?

By that logic you shouldn't kiss, either. You don't use a condom for kissing.

Or, just get an STD test. Pretty simple.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Great Question

As a man, I've only had (3) really compatible partners out of literally dozens. Finding a woman that actually isn't shy nude, passionately enjoys oral both ways, able to O without toys, and puts in as much effort as me, is truly hard to find. Sadly, most women are just lazy, period.

Not wanting to give oral immediately isn’t a sign that a woman is lazy. Some women see it as degrading to service him like that and want to love the guy first. It’s usually low quality women that don’t hesitate.

This is a weird take. If a guy didn't want to give me oral because he saw it as degrading, I'd immediately move on. Certainly wouldn't have PIV sex with him, or even kiss him.

If a guy makes you feel so icky that oral is degrading, you shouldn't be sleeping with him, falling in love with him, none of that.

NP. I have never understood the distinctions people make like the PP.

I make the distinction because I don't want to get herpes from a new partner "down there". You are aware that our lips and mouth contain more bacteria, viruses and infections than genitalia, right?

Oral sex is mixing liquids and exposes you to STDs even if you use condoms for PIV. How come you didn't study it in HS?

By that logic you shouldn't kiss, either. You don't use a condom for kissing.

Or, just get an STD test. Pretty simple.

No. Kissing could be "light" eg no biting active rubbing etc. It's less shedding vs someone going down on me when I have less control and all in a moment. The time required and amount of forces applied in the act vs kissing is different. Also genitalia's skin is more prone to catch stuff. This is why condoms and dams are recommended for sex. I'm amazed people don't have basic sex safety knowledge.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Great Question

As a man, I've only had (3) really compatible partners out of literally dozens. Finding a woman that actually isn't shy nude, passionately enjoys oral both ways, able to O without toys, and puts in as much effort as me, is truly hard to find. Sadly, most women are just lazy, period.

Not wanting to give oral immediately isn’t a sign that a woman is lazy. Some women see it as degrading to service him like that and want to love the guy first. It’s usually low quality women that don’t hesitate.

This is a weird take. If a guy didn't want to give me oral because he saw it as degrading, I'd immediately move on. Certainly wouldn't have PIV sex with him, or even kiss him.

If a guy makes you feel so icky that oral is degrading, you shouldn't be sleeping with him, falling in love with him, none of that.

NP. I have never understood the distinctions people make like the PP.

I make the distinction because I don't want to get herpes from a new partner "down there". You are aware that our lips and mouth contain more bacteria, viruses and infections than genitalia, right?

Oral sex is mixing liquids and exposes you to STDs even if you use condoms for PIV. How come you didn't study it in HS?

By that logic you shouldn't kiss, either. You don't use a condom for kissing.

Or, just get an STD test. Pretty simple.

No. Kissing could be "light" eg no biting active rubbing etc. It's less shedding vs someone going down on me when I have less control and all in a moment. The time required and amount of forces applied in the act vs kissing is different. Also genitalia's skin is more prone to catch stuff. This is why condoms and dams are recommended for sex. I'm amazed people don't have basic sex safety knowledge.

To add, I would rather have herpes on my lips than "down there" . Also, your lips are dry and skin generally less porous than vulva which is moist and porous. You are less prone to catch infections if you wash mouth after kissing with simple soap, and if maintain your lips (no open sores, dont bite your lips etc). However, the female vagina and vulva are the most tender infection prone body parts

[Anonymous]

I had a second floor apartment in an older home. I became good friends with the older woman below me. I started dating a guy with whom the sex was out of this world. Soon after my neighbor said with a smile “I hear you have a new boyfriend.”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Great Question

As a man, I've only had (3) really compatible partners out of literally dozens. Finding a woman that actually isn't shy nude, passionately enjoys oral both ways, able to O without toys, and puts in as much effort as me, is truly hard to find. Sadly, most women are just lazy, period.

Not wanting to give oral immediately isn’t a sign that a woman is lazy. Some women see it as degrading to service him like that and want to love the guy first. It’s usually low quality women that don’t hesitate.

This is a weird take. If a guy didn't want to give me oral because he saw it as degrading, I'd immediately move on. Certainly wouldn't have PIV sex with him, or even kiss him.

If a guy makes you feel so icky that oral is degrading, you shouldn't be sleeping with him, falling in love with him, none of that.

NP. I have never understood the distinctions people make like the PP.

I make the distinction because I don't want to get herpes from a new partner "down there". You are aware that our lips and mouth contain more bacteria, viruses and infections than genitalia, right?

Oral sex is mixing liquids and exposes you to STDs even if you use condoms for PIV. How come you didn't study it in HS?

I wouldn’t sleep with the person who gave me this pause in the first place.