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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][size=7] [/size][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s hard to see if I’m sexually compatible with men when dating. I’m so grossed out by their whoring around. Sex is everything protected I’m avoiding anything but PIV because I can’t know for sure where his lips, P etc were last night

When I was exclusive with exH we could explore because I trusted him. Good sex to me comes from high level of trust

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Why not find a partner open and honest who will discuss these things beforehand so that this isn't an issue? I have had women bring this up and I am just as concerned about safety as they are. And if they weren't, it would not be a good match for me. I can't be the only man who thinks like this.[/quote]

Men who are ready to be exclusive outright either continued secretly sleeping with other women and just used exclusivity to get a “condom exception”. Or they would be unattractive . Everyone attractive - men and women - sleep around a lot[/quote]

So are you lying, unattractive, or sleep around a lot?[/quote]

I’m not a man. My experience with men was as described above. [/quote]

I got that. But do you see how ridiculous it sounds when I tried to apply it to you? At base, you keep running into undesirables because you mistrust any man who acts the way you actually wish they would act. [/quote]

Trust is earned. Trust but verify. I do ask for condoms and STD tests. Guess how many men would be willing to ? Close to none. It’s not like my picker is broken. It’s the lack of incentives  - they can get unprotected sex easily elsewhere [/quote]

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