Potomac parents are SO ANNOYING

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Anonymous wrote:Mean take, but here goes nothing: I feel like if you are willing to live in NOVA, acceptance to the one decent private there is probably the biggest social signifier you have, and thus more important to flaunt.

So mean, and sadly, I 100% agree with you. I find people in parts of Alexandria to be tolerable, but the rest of NOVA is not for me. Arlington and McLean folks are insufferable and are somehow even more obnoxious with their independent school humble brags than many others. Though Potomac, MD folks are similar....maybe the word Potomac brings out the crazy LOL

You forgot to mention The Real Housewives of Potomac (who live scattered about Virginia and Maryland... not even specifically the DMV). I think you may be onto something 🤣

All private school moms

Disagree, but I could see how a Potomac mom would think that...

You didn’t actually watch it, did you?

I don't have any idea how my response would imply that, but I can see how this thread leads to some jumping to defense...

How would you who was on it and where their kids went to school?

I'm genuinely confused on what you are getting at, but you know they don't publicly state where any of the kids go (except I think Charisse put out that her daughter went to Bullis), but you do realize these are real people who live in this area right? Whether someone knows where their kids go to school is irrelevant to if they watch the show...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's interesting, when you look at their history, the school was originally much more focused on early childhood and that philosophy. It feels like as they’ve expanded into a full K–12, the identity has gotten a bit broader and possibly a little lost... which might be part of why the parent culture reads differently than some of the more tightly defined DC schools.

I think part of what’s happening is most of these schools have a really clear identity that parents mirror: Sidwell has that quiet academic push, GDS leans into voice and social impact, STA/NCS is tradition and precision, Maret is warm, thoughtful and creative, WIS is very globally oriented…

I’m not sure Potomac has as tight of a core narrative, so what you get instead is an off beat in the parent signaling...

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At the end of the day, it is all marketing and signaling. Parents from the schools that have these "identities" are always talking about how special they are. I invite OP to come to NW DC or Bethesda and see that it is all the same!

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Anonymous wrote:Mean take, but here goes nothing: I feel like if you are willing to live in NOVA, acceptance to the one decent private there is probably the biggest social signifier you have, and thus more important to flaunt.

So mean, and sadly, I 100% agree with you. I find people in parts of Alexandria to be tolerable, but the rest of NOVA is not for me. Arlington and McLean folks are insufferable and are somehow even more obnoxious with their independent school humble brags than many others. Though Potomac, MD folks are similar....maybe the word Potomac brings out the crazy LOL

You forgot to mention The Real Housewives of Potomac (who live scattered about Virginia and Maryland... not even specifically the DMV). I think you may be onto something 🤣

All private school moms

Disagree, but I could see how a Potomac mom would think that...

You didn’t actually watch it, did you?

I don't have any idea how my response would imply that, but I can see how this thread leads to some jumping to defense...

How would you who was on it and where their kids went to school?

I'm genuinely confused on what you are getting at, but you know they don't publicly state where any of the kids go (except I think Charisse put out that her daughter went to Bullis), but you do realize these are real people who live in this area right? Whether someone knows where their kids go to school is irrelevant to if they watch the show...

If no one knows where the kids went, how can you disagree they were all private school moms?

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Anonymous wrote:At the end of the day, it is all marketing and signaling. Parents from the schools that have these "identities" are always talking about how special they are. I invite OP to come to NW DC or Bethesda and see that it is all the same!

I think it’s all signaling, but not all signaling is the same. When the signal is clearer, parents are more natural with how they attach themselves to the group identity. When it’s less defined, you tend to see a bit more overcompensation and grasping for the identy, which is probably why it reads as less natural from the outside.

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Anonymous wrote:It's interesting, when you look at their history, the school was originally much more focused on early childhood and that philosophy. It feels like as they’ve expanded into a full K–12, the identity has gotten a bit broader and possibly a little lost... which might be part of why the parent culture reads differently than some of the more tightly defined DC schools.

I think part of what’s happening is most of these schools have a really clear identity that parents mirror: Sidwell has that quiet academic push, GDS leans into voice and social impact, STA/NCS is tradition and precision, Maret is warm, thoughtful and creative, WIS is very globally oriented…

I’m not sure Potomac has as tight of a core narrative, so what you get instead is an off beat in the parent signaling...

This is so good. But what do you mean by precision in reference to NCS/STA?

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Anonymous wrote:It's interesting, when you look at their history, the school was originally much more focused on early childhood and that philosophy. It feels like as they’ve expanded into a full K–12, the identity has gotten a bit broader and possibly a little lost... which might be part of why the parent culture reads differently than some of the more tightly defined DC schools.

I think part of what’s happening is most of these schools have a really clear identity that parents mirror: Sidwell has that quiet academic push, GDS leans into voice and social impact, STA/NCS is tradition and precision, Maret is warm, thoughtful and creative, WIS is very globally oriented…

I’m not sure Potomac has as tight of a core narrative, so what you get instead is an off beat in the parent signaling...

This is so good. But what do you mean by precision in reference to NCS/STA?

It is hard to capture in a quick snip like I was trying to 😂 but by saying ‘precision’ I was trying to get at how everything feels extremely intentional and structured. Like there’s a strong sense of tradition, expectations, and doing things the ‘right’ way. It’s less about one specific thing and more about the overall tone that shows up everywhere from academics to presentation to how students are guided. It's almost more felt than told, but somehow is universally recognized and consistently embraced.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:At the end of the day, it is all marketing and signaling. Parents from the schools that have these "identities" are always talking about how special they are. I invite OP to come to NW DC or Bethesda and see that it is all the same!

I think it’s all signaling, but not all signaling is the same. When the signal is clearer, parents are more natural with how they attach themselves to the group identity. When it’s less defined, you tend to see a bit more overcompensation and grasping for the identy, which is probably why it reads as less natural from the outside.

Be that as it may, it is still pathetic all around.

[Anonymous]

It seems like Potomac is trying to position itself as an elite school. Don’t get me wrong, it’s a great school but it’s not a top three (NCS/STA, GDS or Sidwell) and it has a chip on his shoulder because of that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:At the end of the day, it is all marketing and signaling. Parents from the schools that have these "identities" are always talking about how special they are. I invite OP to come to NW DC or Bethesda and see that it is all the same!

I think it’s all signaling, but not all signaling is the same. When the signal is clearer, parents are more natural with how they attach themselves to the group identity. When it’s less defined, you tend to see a bit more overcompensation and grasping for the identy, which is probably why it reads as less natural from the outside.

Be that as it may, it is still pathetic all around.

You know you wake up everyday and get dressed and in doing so, you signal something about yourself to the world. You too participate in signaling your perceived identity. Are you also pathetic because of your signaling?

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Anonymous wrote:It seems like Potomac is trying to position itself as an elite school. Don’t get me wrong, it’s a great school but it’s not a top three (NCS/STA, GDS or Sidwell) and it has a chip on his shoulder because of that.

Soon to be new family at Potomac. I think of Potomac as a neighborhood private school. Lots of people in McLean send their kids there. I would not expect anyone not in McLean to know or care about this school.

I certainly wouldn’t expect or think anyone from dc or md would care.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It seems like Potomac is trying to position itself as an elite school. Don’t get me wrong, it’s a great school but it’s not a top three (NCS/STA, GDS or Sidwell) and it has a chip on his shoulder because of that.

Soon to be new family at Potomac. I think of Potomac as a neighborhood private school. Lots of people in McLean send their kids there. I would not expect anyone not in McLean to know or care about this school.

I certainly wouldn’t expect or think anyone from dc or md would care.

Exactly. THIS!!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It's interesting, when you look at their history, the school was originally much more focused on early childhood and that philosophy. It feels like as they’ve expanded into a full K–12, the identity has gotten a bit broader and possibly a little lost... which might be part of why the parent culture reads differently than some of the more tightly defined DC schools.

I think part of what’s happening is most of these schools have a really clear identity that parents mirror: Sidwell has that quiet academic push, GDS leans into voice and social impact, STA/NCS is tradition and precision, Maret is warm, thoughtful and creative, WIS is very globally oriented…

I’m not sure Potomac has as tight of a core narrative, so what you get instead is an off beat in the parent signaling...

This is so good. But what do you mean by precision in reference to NCS/STA?

It is hard to capture in a quick snip like I was trying to 😂 but by saying ‘precision’ I was trying to get at how everything feels extremely intentional and structured. Like there’s a strong sense of tradition, expectations, and doing things the ‘right’ way. It’s less about one specific thing and more about the overall tone that shows up everywhere from academics to presentation to how students are guided. It's almost more felt than told, but somehow is universally recognized and consistently embraced.

And this shit isn’t annoying. ? 🤣

Signed,

A Potomac Mom

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's interesting, when you look at their history, the school was originally much more focused on early childhood and that philosophy. It feels like as they’ve expanded into a full K–12, the identity has gotten a bit broader and possibly a little lost... which might be part of why the parent culture reads differently than some of the more tightly defined DC schools.

I think part of what’s happening is most of these schools have a really clear identity that parents mirror: Sidwell has that quiet academic push, GDS leans into voice and social impact, STA/NCS is tradition and precision, Maret is warm, thoughtful and creative, WIS is very globally oriented…

I’m not sure Potomac has as tight of a core narrative, so what you get instead is an off beat in the parent signaling...

This is so good. But what do you mean by precision in reference to NCS/STA?

It is hard to capture in a quick snip like I was trying to 😂 but by saying ‘precision’ I was trying to get at how everything feels extremely intentional and structured. Like there’s a strong sense of tradition, expectations, and doing things the ‘right’ way. It’s less about one specific thing and more about the overall tone that shows up everywhere from academics to presentation to how students are guided. It's almost more felt than told, but somehow is universally recognized and consistently embraced.

And this shit isn’t annoying. ? 🤣

Signed,

A Potomac Mom

Spotted: just as the thread found some grounding, a calm observation hits a little too close to home…

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