Women, at what age did you find men become "old"?

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Men age much worse than women, but by simply deciding their evidence of aging is less unsightly than women’s signs of aging, they live in denial about it. So odd.

[Anonymous]

I feel like a lot of men really let themselves go after 50/55. I'm a woman in her mid-fifties and I work hard to stay fit, get decent hair cuts, wear decent clothes... so many men my age on OLD look positively ancient. Or seedy. Or ancient and seedy.

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Anonymous wrote:In their 40s most start to hit a wall. Hair loss, starting to develop a stoop, greying, body weight distribution shifting.

After mid-40’s my DH looks okay but definitely acts older. Lower energy, falling asleep early, not flexible with thinking, loses patience.

Yeah, my DH is 12 years older and he looks pretty good but he went from being fun and great to old and dickish around 50 and theres no amount of gym workouts or testosterone or peptides that's going to change it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I feel like a lot of men really let themselves go after 50/55. I'm a woman in her mid-fifties and I work hard to stay fit, get decent hair cuts, wear decent clothes... so many men my age on OLD look positively ancient. Or seedy. Or ancient and seedy.

On OLD male looks seem to fall off a cliff after 40.

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Anonymous wrote:I feel like a lot of men really let themselves go after 50/55. I'm a woman in her mid-fifties and I work hard to stay fit, get decent hair cuts, wear decent clothes... so many men my age on OLD look positively ancient. Or seedy. Or ancient and seedy.

On OLD male looks seem to fall off a cliff after 40.

I think everyone lies about age

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I feel like a lot of men really let themselves go after 50/55. I'm a woman in her mid-fifties and I work hard to stay fit, get decent hair cuts, wear decent clothes... so many men my age on OLD look positively ancient. Or seedy. Or ancient and seedy.

I'm sure that men on OLD feel the same way about you. You are probably just delusional.

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Anonymous wrote:In their 40s most start to hit a wall. Hair loss, starting to develop a stoop, greying, body weight distribution shifting.

After mid-40’s my DH looks okay but definitely acts older. Lower energy, falling asleep early, not flexible with thinking, loses patience.

Yeah, my DH is 12 years older and he looks pretty good but he went from being fun and great to old and dickish around 50 and theres no amount of gym workouts or testosterone or peptides that's going to change it.

Many men in their 20s-30s will put themselves second in exchange for the p--zy. Not so much in 40s-50s. That may be what you're experiencing especially if you're 12y younger.

In general I agree with the tone of this thread that older men should look in the mirror sometimes. But maybe think about how your men walked-on-eggshells to avoid the dreaded "headache", but don't want to do it anymore.

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Anonymous wrote:Men in general don’t age well. Balding, fat beer belly, moobs, and just out of shape. Definitely most by 55-60 are unf***able

LOL. 50 yo women are dried up hags.

Your mama

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Anonymous wrote:So I am 54. I have always been baby faced and it’s benefiting me now, or so I am told. I am too heavy, although not really fat — I am broad shouldered with 48” shoulders and 36” waist, so I am not thin. My full head hair is more grey than not, and I let it be so. I recently started taking better care of my skin, so I don’t really show that. I am physically active and 25 years of cycling and umpiring make my lower half rock solid (I do maybe a thousand squats a weekend during tournaments, so my quads and calves are like tree trunks).

I told the PT tech I was 54 the other day and he goes, “you don’t look it, dude.” I was legit surprised because I think I *do* look it. But I will take the compliment.

I am not trying to impress anyone. I just got remarried. I’d like to be around another 30-40 years to be her husband and see my kids marry and have families of their own.

I do make an effort to dress well now, something I didn’t do when I was younger (and poorer!). Covid did that to me — I got so sick of living in joggers and pyjamas and sweat pants, so I have steadily built a real wardrobe and invested in quality pieces. I think this projects confidence is when I go out with my wife. She also puts more effort into looking good for our outings; it’s a virtuous cycle.

So, it can be done. I think. Like I said, I think I am old AF. But, apparently some people believe I look a decade younger. So, who knows? I do think I look better now than I did in my mid-40s…

Autism in kids born from older dads is a thing. If you already have first batch - ficus on them instead of making new ones that old….

My new wife is 50. We aren’t making any babies.

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Anonymous wrote:Women "hit the wall" as they say around menopause, so late 40s to late 50s women age fast.

Men don't hit a wall really, and age like wine IF they take care of themselves.

However like wine, eventually they do hit a wall, albeit a smaller wall, eventually. If they take care of themselves, that is usually in their 70s when they catch up to women in aging looks.

TLDR Women 40s-50s. Men 70s. Which is why a 10-20 year age gap is best for women/men.

Men = 60. I can't think of a single man over 60 who is f*******.

George Clooney
Brad Pitt
Tom Cruise
Obama

George cloony and Obama are f--- only to long term partners or people who also love their personality (husbands, they have to pay bills and do chores or they are trash) . tom cruise is so god damned ugly now its hurts to look at him. brad Pitt has gotten an amazing facelift which makes up for his non-personality and is the only person on this list who anyone would voluntarily get undressed for.

[Anonymous]

Doesn't everyone's idea of old progress with age?

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Anonymous wrote:Never met an attractive man in their 60s or 70s IRL. Where do you see these people?

My 60 yo DH looks like this.

He looks old so what's your point?

New poster here: To me, he looks a bit like a younger version of the Most Interesting Man in the World on the Dos Equis commercials. Or maybe Richard Gere or Harrison Ford. I think those guys look pretty good, but I'm not a straight woman.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Women "hit the wall" as they say around menopause, so late 40s to late 50s women age fast.

Men don't hit a wall really, and age like wine IF they take care of themselves.

However like wine, eventually they do hit a wall, albeit a smaller wall, eventually. If they take care of themselves, that is usually in their 70s when they catch up to women in aging looks.

TLDR Women 40s-50s. Men 70s. Which is why a 10-20 year age gap is best for women/men.

Women who workout and take HRT age waay better than the men of similar age. Menopause or not.

I see many attractive 50s women profiles on Hinge in a large urban area. Maybe you live in West Virginia . Honestly, can’t even see a difference between 40 and 50 anymore - all the facial enhancements help women. Men rarely take a good care of themselves

I’m sorry, women in their 40s and 50s look old and unattractive. No surprise they aren’t the ones winning the beauty contests.

I’m a bisexual woman and wonder what differs in mens tastes vs women because there are definitely attractive women in that age group for me

You can find them attractive and that’s fine. It’s your choice. The overwhelming majority of people disagree with you.

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Anonymous wrote:Never met an attractive man in their 60s or 70s IRL. Where do you see these people?

My 60 yo DH looks like this.

He looks old so what's your point?

The point is that he looks very attractive.

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Anonymous wrote:Women "hit the wall" as they say around menopause, so late 40s to late 50s women age fast.

Men don't hit a wall really, and age like wine IF they take care of themselves.

However like wine, eventually they do hit a wall, albeit a smaller wall, eventually. If they take care of themselves, that is usually in their 70s when they catch up to women in aging looks.

TLDR Women 40s-50s. Men 70s. Which is why a 10-20 year age gap is best for women/men.

Women who workout and take HRT age waay better than the men of similar age. Menopause or not.

I see many attractive 50s women profiles on Hinge in a large urban area. Maybe you live in West Virginia . Honestly, can’t even see a difference between 40 and 50 anymore - all the facial enhancements help women. Men rarely take a good care of themselves

I’m sorry, women in their 40s and 50s look old and unattractive. No surprise they aren’t the ones winning the beauty contests.

I’m a bisexual woman and wonder what differs in mens tastes vs women because there are definitely attractive women in that age group for me

You can find them attractive and that’s fine. It’s your choice. The overwhelming majority of people disagree with you.

That’s OK as long as I meet sufficient number of men who think I’m attractive I’m fine. But the question is why men think that they are truly attractive to women who are much younger? Men in 40-50s look way worse than women on average