Women, at what age did you find men become "old"?

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What's old beyond looks? Do your DHs who are 60s not leave the couch?

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Anonymous wrote:62 he started needing little blue pills, and 65 is when you start throwing out your back from tying your shoes and other silly ways. Our experience anyway

Do you still find your DH attractive?

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Anonymous wrote:My husband is 54 and acting more like an old man. Turning into his dad and not in a good way.

52 and exact same. Even if the physical is holding up people underestimate the mental shift. Such a curmudgeon!

Me too. DH is 55, I’m 51. He doesn’t take care of himself, and I do. It shows, and the mental shift to become a grumpy old man is real. So is the decline for him in the bedroom, wish he could keep up with me. Oh well.

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Anonymous wrote:What's old beyond looks? Do your DHs who are 60s not leave the couch?

? Of course they do. My DH exercises 5 days a week, but he still has moobs and a big belly. Middle aged men get fat around the middle, too.

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Anonymous wrote:Women "hit the wall" as they say around menopause, so late 40s to late 50s women age fast.

Men don't hit a wall really, and age like wine IF they take care of themselves.

However like wine, eventually they do hit a wall, albeit a smaller wall, eventually. If they take care of themselves, that is usually in their 70s when they catch up to women in aging looks.

TLDR Women 40s-50s. Men 70s. Which is why a 10-20 year age gap is best for women/men.

Women who workout and take HRT age waay better than the men of similar age. Menopause or not.

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Anonymous wrote:Men in general don’t age well. Balding, fat beer belly, moobs, and just out of shape. Definitely most by 55-60 are unf***able

LOL. 50 yo women are dried up hags.

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I'm in my late fifties and felt like I was most attractive in my mind 50s. At this point I still get a fair amount of attention from attractive, professional women in their 30s and 40s, but I get more attention from women my own age. Women in their 60a don't usually try. Of course I've been turned down by plenty of women younger and older.

I exercised more and took better care of myself in my 50s. That may explain my appeal to some younger women. I may have had more success in my 30s and 40s but I was married then.

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Anonymous wrote:Women "hit the wall" as they say around menopause, so late 40s to late 50s women age fast.

Men don't hit a wall really, and age like wine IF they take care of themselves.

However like wine, eventually they do hit a wall, albeit a smaller wall, eventually. If they take care of themselves, that is usually in their 70s when they catch up to women in aging looks.

TLDR Women 40s-50s. Men 70s. Which is why a 10-20 year age gap is best for women/men.

Women who workout and take HRT age waay better than the men of similar age. Menopause or not.

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Anonymous wrote:Men in general don’t age well. Balding, fat beer belly, moobs, and just out of shape. Definitely most by 55-60 are unf***able

This

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Anonymous wrote:62 he started needing little blue pills, and 65 is when you start throwing out your back from tying your shoes and other silly ways. Our experience anyway

Do you still find your DH attractive?

Get on OLD, grandma! I hear there is a huge market for old prunes that look like Betty White!

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women "hit the wall" as they say around menopause, so late 40s to late 50s women age fast.

Men don't hit a wall really, and age like wine IF they take care of themselves.

However like wine, eventually they do hit a wall, albeit a smaller wall, eventually. If they take care of themselves, that is usually in their 70s when they catch up to women in aging looks.

TLDR Women 40s-50s. Men 70s. Which is why a 10-20 year age gap is best for women/men.

Men = 60. I can't think of a single man over 60 who is f*******.

George Clooney
Brad Pitt
Tom Cruise
Obama

So, basically, if you are wealthy and can pay for your upkeep, you're f***** .

Meh. George Clooney looks horrible. He has lost bone mass or muscle mass in his face. He looks like a vampire sucked the blood out of him.

My DH looks much younger, but the white hair gives it away.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m 39, so at that fun age where I’ve dated from 25-55.

I’ve found 40ish is when men start to tank - they lose their sex drive, lose energy, tend to go on autopilot and just coast through the rest of their career. There’s a HUGE difference in the bedroom between a 35 year old and 45 year old.

The sweet spot for me is 33-36, although right now I’m dating a really great 30yo. I worried about the lack of shared life milestones, but all of his friends are married with young kids, and he actively helps care for them, so he “gets” it so to speak.

Does this mean women who don't want to date anyone in their 30s are doomed to be with men who can't keep up?

Ha! I mean, I’m sure there are some 40s men who can. I know an 80yo man who still travels the world, works out daily, and has the energy of a much younger guy (can’t speak to what he’s like in bed, tho).

Depends on your energy levels, too. I need someone I can go out with 2-3 times a week (OUT out, not just dinner out), train for marathons with, sex near daily, etc.

[Anonymous]

DH is almost 60 and is still fit, and I'm younger and still attracted to him because I see him through rose-colored glasses, almost as if he looks like he did at 40. He'd look old to me now if we didn't have a shared history. Objectively, he was at his hottest at 45 when he was fit, had all his hair, and was approaching his peak in his career.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m 39, so at that fun age where I’ve dated from 25-55.

I’ve found 40ish is when men start to tank - they lose their sex drive, lose energy, tend to go on autopilot and just coast through the rest of their career. There’s a HUGE difference in the bedroom between a 35 year old and 45 year old.

The sweet spot for me is 33-36, although right now I’m dating a really great 30yo. I worried about the lack of shared life milestones, but all of his friends are married with young kids, and he actively helps care for them, so he “gets” it so to speak.

Does this mean women who don't want to date anyone in their 30s are doomed to be with men who can't keep up?

Ha! I mean, I’m sure there are some 40s men who can. I know an 80yo man who still travels the world, works out daily, and has the energy of a much younger guy (can’t speak to what he’s like in bed, tho).

Depends on your energy levels, too. I need someone I can go out with 2-3 times a week (OUT out, not just dinner out), train for marathons with, sex near daily, etc.

How old are you?

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women "hit the wall" as they say around menopause, so late 40s to late 50s women age fast.

Men don't hit a wall really, and age like wine IF they take care of themselves.

However like wine, eventually they do hit a wall, albeit a smaller wall, eventually. If they take care of themselves, that is usually in their 70s when they catch up to women in aging looks.

TLDR Women 40s-50s. Men 70s. Which is why a 10-20 year age gap is best for women/men.

Women who workout and take HRT age waay better than the men of similar age. Menopause or not.

I see many attractive 50s women profiles on Hinge in a large urban area. Maybe you live in West Virginia . Honestly, can’t even see a difference between 40 and 50 anymore - all the facial enhancements help women. Men rarely take a good care of themselves