Women, at what age did you find men become "old"?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband is 54 and acting more like an old man. Turning into his dad and not in a good way.

What is that like? How is he acting more like an old man? Stuck in his ways? Physically weak or lazy?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband is 54 and acting more like an old man. Turning into his dad and not in a good way.

52 and exact same. Even if the physical is holding up people underestimate the mental shift. Such a curmudgeon!

[Anonymous]

Willingness to try new things, lack of thoughtfulness, focused a lot on health issues.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Women "hit the wall" as they say around menopause, so late 40s to late 50s women age fast.

Men don't hit a wall really, and age like wine IF they take care of themselves.

However like wine, eventually they do hit a wall, albeit a smaller wall, eventually. If they take care of themselves, that is usually in their 70s when they catch up to women in aging looks.

TLDR Women 40s-50s. Men 70s. Which is why a 10-20 year age gap is best for women/men.

Hahahahaha!

Most men age very poorly. The only thing that gets better when fat is their wallet.

The men in their 50s at the top of their career game and at the height of fitness have turned into bitter narcissistic a$$holes. The nice successful men have usually aged like a good cheese rather than fine wine. The fit ones usually have lost their career and have wallets and CVs to match their slender physiques.

[Anonymous]

Never met an attractive man in their 60s or 70s IRL. Where do you see these people?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women "hit the wall" as they say around menopause, so late 40s to late 50s women age fast.

Men don't hit a wall really, and age like wine IF they take care of themselves.

However like wine, eventually they do hit a wall, albeit a smaller wall, eventually. If they take care of themselves, that is usually in their 70s when they catch up to women in aging looks.

TLDR Women 40s-50s. Men 70s. Which is why a 10-20 year age gap is best for women/men.

Men = 60. I can't think of a single man over 60 who is f*******.

George Clooney
Brad Pitt
Tom Cruise
Obama

So, basically, if you are wealthy and can pay for your upkeep, you're f***** .

Wrong. If you are wealthy, you can pay to play with a younger woman, but she may vomit afterward and tell her friends how gross it was. If you date someone your age, you can accept each other as you are.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women "hit the wall" as they say around menopause, so late 40s to late 50s women age fast.

Men don't hit a wall really, and age like wine IF they take care of themselves.

However like wine, eventually they do hit a wall, albeit a smaller wall, eventually. If they take care of themselves, that is usually in their 70s when they catch up to women in aging looks.

TLDR Women 40s-50s. Men 70s. Which is why a 10-20 year age gap is best for women/men.

Men = 60. I can't think of a single man over 60 who is f*******.

George Clooney
Brad Pitt
Tom Cruise
Obama

Ew, no.

Honestly I'm 52 and at this point I'd date the Hollywood women over the men because the men look terrible.

[Anonymous]

I'm starting to understand why some women will only bother if the older guy does things like plan great dates, pays for everything and is ideally really wealthy

[Anonymous]

Based on my informal survey of dating apps, there is a marked decline after 40, at least looks wise.

[Anonymous]

My DH turned into an utter crab@$$ at 45 on the dot. So I would say 45.

[Anonymous]

Personal care really matters after 40. If they don’t work out and take care of themselves, they fall off a cliff between age 40-45.

If they do manage their weight and health, they can be in great shape well into their 60s.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Personal care really matters after 40. If they don’t work out and take care of themselves, they fall off a cliff between age 40-45.

If they do manage their weight and health, they can be in great shape well into their 60s.

It's all relative. A woman in her 60s might find a healthy, fit man in his 60s attractive. Just not a woman in her 40s or younger.

[Anonymous]

Men in general don’t age well. Balding, fat beer belly, moobs, and just out of shape. Definitely most by 55-60 are unf***able

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women "hit the wall" as they say around menopause, so late 40s to late 50s women age fast.

Men don't hit a wall really, and age like wine IF they take care of themselves.

However like wine, eventually they do hit a wall, albeit a smaller wall, eventually. If they take care of themselves, that is usually in their 70s when they catch up to women in aging looks.

TLDR Women 40s-50s. Men 70s. Which is why a 10-20 year age gap is best for women/men.

Men = 60. I can't think of a single man over 60 who is f*******.

George Clooney
Brad Pitt
Tom Cruise
Obama

Are you talking about 20-30 years ago, or now? I'd definitely date Brad Pitt circa 2000. Now? No thank you. Old.

Agree. He's almost 62. Plus you never see what celebrities look like without makeup. I bet it's not pretty for the 60+.

[Anonymous]

62 he started needing little blue pills, and 65 is when you start throwing out your back from tying your shoes and other silly ways. Our experience anyway