Revealing clothing

Anonymous
Less now than when I was younger; he likes it but he doesn't encourage or discourage it. He doesn't offer his opinion on what I should or should not wear.
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Anonymous wrote:I don't understand why women need to wear revealing clothing in public but men survive fine without it? Would we be as open to men wearing revealing clothing in public? If they want to flaunt what they got, shouldn't we be more accepting to see male genitalia in public?


You see women's genitalia in public? Please do tell!!!


Then why are we using word revealing?
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Anonymous wrote:I don't understand why women need to wear revealing clothing in public but men survive fine without it? Would we be as open to men wearing revealing clothing in public? If they want to flaunt what they got, shouldn't we be more accepting to see male genitalia in public?


Because we have historically been trained to please/entertain them. They get to be comfortable and functional (see flat shoes shoes), without painting their face and nails, curling their hair etc.

It is a waste of women’s time, and we should stop wearing costumes to entertain them.


And historically we as women needed to do that to secure our financial well-being. But that hasn't been the case for a long time now. So surely you do understand that a vast majority of us dress any way we like because WE LIKE IT. I like to have long hair that is not gray. I like to have nicely manicured nails, I like to wear dresses.


If you are courting sexual attention from strangers, don’t complain that they treat you like a sex object.



Existing in public isn’t “courting sexual attention from strangers”. People have foot fetishes— is everyone in sandals “courting sexual attention” from them?


It’s cute how naive you are.

Why do you suppose this PP dyes her hair to pretend she doesn’t have any grays?


To make haters like you even more angry 😂😂😂😂


Aw, bless your heart. we’re not angry but we do pity you. I’d be sad too if I needed the validation of strange men at your age.
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Anonymous wrote:I don't understand why women need to wear revealing clothing in public but men survive fine without it? Would we be as open to men wearing revealing clothing in public? If they want to flaunt what they got, shouldn't we be more accepting to see male genitalia in public?


You see women's genitalia in public? Please do tell!!!


Then why are we using word revealing?


Because it is revealing of many things on the body but genitalia is not one of them? Do you think breasts are genitalia?
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Anonymous wrote:I don't understand why women need to wear revealing clothing in public but men survive fine without it? Would we be as open to men wearing revealing clothing in public? If they want to flaunt what they got, shouldn't we be more accepting to see male genitalia in public?


Because we have historically been trained to please/entertain them. They get to be comfortable and functional (see flat shoes shoes), without painting their face and nails, curling their hair etc.

It is a waste of women’s time, and we should stop wearing costumes to entertain them.


And historically we as women needed to do that to secure our financial well-being. But that hasn't been the case for a long time now. So surely you do understand that a vast majority of us dress any way we like because WE LIKE IT. I like to have long hair that is not gray. I like to have nicely manicured nails, I like to wear dresses.


If you are courting sexual attention from strangers, don’t complain that they treat you like a sex object.



Never said either of those things but thanks for your very valuable contribution.


Of course you did. Or do you not understand that wearing feminine clothing, bright colors and dying your hair to pretend to be younger are signaling your desire to appear men to be more fertile and youthful? Let’s not pretend we don’t understand how the world works dear.


If how I look turns you on, that’s a you issue; not a me issue and need to worry about. And where did I complain about the attention that do or don’t get? In fact, when I get attention from my husband based on how I look that day, I quite enjoy it. But you’re just a old bitty who is likely overweight and dresses like a frump, which I’m sure is ONLY to prove how much you DONT need a man.


DP. Your response is that someone who disagrees with is fat and a frump? I thought the poster - who is likely a woman - was more honest about why women, including her, dress up.
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Anonymous wrote:I don't understand why women need to wear revealing clothing in public but men survive fine without it? Would we be as open to men wearing revealing clothing in public? If they want to flaunt what they got, shouldn't we be more accepting to see male genitalia in public?


Because we have historically been trained to please/entertain them. They get to be comfortable and functional (see flat shoes shoes), without painting their face and nails, curling their hair etc.

It is a waste of women’s time, and we should stop wearing costumes to entertain them.


And historically we as women needed to do that to secure our financial well-being. But that hasn't been the case for a long time now. So surely you do understand that a vast majority of us dress any way we like because WE LIKE IT. I like to have long hair that is not gray. I like to have nicely manicured nails, I like to wear dresses.


If you are courting sexual attention from strangers, don’t complain that they treat you like a sex object.



Existing in public isn’t “courting sexual attention from strangers”. People have foot fetishes— is everyone in sandals “courting sexual attention” from them?


It’s cute how naive you are.

Why do you suppose this PP dyes her hair to pretend she doesn’t have any grays?


To make haters like you even more angry 😂😂😂😂


Aw, bless your heart. we’re not angry but we do pity you. I’d be sad too if I needed the validation of strange men at your age.


No need to putty me. I look great and feel great. Hence, don’t need to hate on other women for what they choose to wear. You, on the other hand ……
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Anonymous wrote:I don't understand why women need to wear revealing clothing in public but men survive fine without it? Would we be as open to men wearing revealing clothing in public? If they want to flaunt what they got, shouldn't we be more accepting to see male genitalia in public?


Because we have historically been trained to please/entertain them. They get to be comfortable and functional (see flat shoes shoes), without painting their face and nails, curling their hair etc.

It is a waste of women’s time, and we should stop wearing costumes to entertain them.


And historically we as women needed to do that to secure our financial well-being. But that hasn't been the case for a long time now. So surely you do understand that a vast majority of us dress any way we like because WE LIKE IT. I like to have long hair that is not gray. I like to have nicely manicured nails, I like to wear dresses.


If you are courting sexual attention from strangers, don’t complain that they treat you like a sex object.



Never said either of those things but thanks for your very valuable contribution.


Of course you did. Or do you not understand that wearing feminine clothing, bright colors and dying your hair to pretend to be younger are signaling your desire to appear men to be more fertile and youthful? Let’s not pretend we don’t understand how the world works dear.


If how I look turns you on, that’s a you issue; not a me issue and need to worry about. And where did I complain about the attention that do or don’t get? In fact, when I get attention from my husband based on how I look that day, I quite enjoy it. But you’re just a old bitty who is likely overweight and dresses like a frump, which I’m sure is ONLY to prove how much you DONT need a man.


DP. Your response is that someone who disagrees with is fat and a frump? I thought the poster - who is likely a woman - was more honest about why women, including her, dress up.


We don’t know if she “dresses up” because she is not brave enough to let us critique her choices. She is here for one reason only and that is to be hateful to other women.
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Anonymous wrote:I don't understand why women need to wear revealing clothing in public but men survive fine without it? Would we be as open to men wearing revealing clothing in public? If they want to flaunt what they got, shouldn't we be more accepting to see male genitalia in public?


Because we have historically been trained to please/entertain them. They get to be comfortable and functional (see flat shoes shoes), without painting their face and nails, curling their hair etc.

It is a waste of women’s time, and we should stop wearing costumes to entertain them.


And historically we as women needed to do that to secure our financial well-being. But that hasn't been the case for a long time now. So surely you do understand that a vast majority of us dress any way we like because WE LIKE IT. I like to have long hair that is not gray. I like to have nicely manicured nails, I like to wear dresses.


If you are courting sexual attention from strangers, don’t complain that they treat you like a sex object.



Never said either of those things but thanks for your very valuable contribution.


Of course you did. Or do you not understand that wearing feminine clothing, bright colors and dying your hair to pretend to be younger are signaling your desire to appear men to be more fertile and youthful? Let’s not pretend we don’t understand how the world works dear.


If how I look turns you on, that’s a you issue; not a me issue and need to worry about. And where did I complain about the attention that do or don’t get? In fact, when I get attention from my husband based on how I look that day, I quite enjoy it. But you’re just a old bitty who is likely overweight and dresses like a frump, which I’m sure is ONLY to prove how much you DONT need a man.


DP. Your response is that someone who disagrees with is fat and a frump? I thought the poster - who is likely a woman - was more honest about why women, including her, dress up.


Her response to everything I do to assume I only do it to get male attention, so if we are assuming…..
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don't understand why women need to wear revealing clothing in public but men survive fine without it? Would we be as open to men wearing revealing clothing in public? If they want to flaunt what they got, shouldn't we be more accepting to see male genitalia in public?


You see women's genitalia in public? Please do tell!!!


Then why are we using word revealing?

Are you 5?
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don't understand why women need to wear revealing clothing in public but men survive fine without it? Would we be as open to men wearing revealing clothing in public? If they want to flaunt what they got, shouldn't we be more accepting to see male genitalia in public?


Because we have historically been trained to please/entertain them. They get to be comfortable and functional (see flat shoes shoes), without painting their face and nails, curling their hair etc.

It is a waste of women’s time, and we should stop wearing costumes to entertain them.


And historically we as women needed to do that to secure our financial well-being. But that hasn't been the case for a long time now. So surely you do understand that a vast majority of us dress any way we like because WE LIKE IT. I like to have long hair that is not gray. I like to have nicely manicured nails, I like to wear dresses.


If you are courting sexual attention from strangers, don’t complain that they treat you like a sex object.



Never said either of those things but thanks for your very valuable contribution.


Of course you did. Or do you not understand that wearing feminine clothing, bright colors and dying your hair to pretend to be younger are signaling your desire to appear men to be more fertile and youthful? Let’s not pretend we don’t understand how the world works dear.


If how I look turns you on, that’s a you issue; not a me issue and need to worry about. And where did I complain about the attention that do or don’t get? In fact, when I get attention from my husband based on how I look that day, I quite enjoy it. But you’re just a old bitty who is likely overweight and dresses like a frump, which I’m sure is ONLY to prove how much you DONT need a man.


DP. Your response is that someone who disagrees with is fat and a frump? I thought the poster - who is likely a woman - was more honest about why women, including her, dress up.


+1 Another DP.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don't understand why women need to wear revealing clothing in public but men survive fine without it? Would we be as open to men wearing revealing clothing in public? If they want to flaunt what they got, shouldn't we be more accepting to see male genitalia in public?


Because we have historically been trained to please/entertain them. They get to be comfortable and functional (see flat shoes shoes), without painting their face and nails, curling their hair etc.

It is a waste of women’s time, and we should stop wearing costumes to entertain them.


And historically we as women needed to do that to secure our financial well-being. But that hasn't been the case for a long time now. So surely you do understand that a vast majority of us dress any way we like because WE LIKE IT. I like to have long hair that is not gray. I like to have nicely manicured nails, I like to wear dresses.


If you are courting sexual attention from strangers, don’t complain that they treat you like a sex object.



Existing in public isn’t “courting sexual attention from strangers”. People have foot fetishes— is everyone in sandals “courting sexual attention” from them?


It’s cute how naive you are.

Why do you suppose this PP dyes her hair to pretend she doesn’t have any grays?


I’m naive and you’re dodging the question.

Foot fetishes are well documented— is every person who wears sandals in public courting sexual attention? Or just the people you envy?
Anonymous
If I am wearing revealing clothing and my husband is with me, I am doing it for HIM not for strangers.
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Anonymous wrote:Depends what are we talking about here.

A low-cut V-neck, perhaps a backless classy dress.... or more like Diasy Dukes on a mother of 3?

If the former, I'll wear something like that to a wedding or party.

But if revealing is trashy, nope. That's low class to me


I always feel bad for boys whose mothers dress too trashy. And know those girls will be dressing the same way by 14 😟


Reminds me of the mom whose bumper sticker on her car said “If you’re going to ride my a$$, at least pull my hair!”
Anonymous
Wife used to have a collection of short and very tight skirts. Cheeks were almost falling out, depending on things…miss those days.
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Anonymous wrote:I don't understand why women need to wear revealing clothing in public but men survive fine without it? Would we be as open to men wearing revealing clothing in public? If they want to flaunt what they got, shouldn't we be more accepting to see male genitalia in public?


Because we have historically been trained to please/entertain them. They get to be comfortable and functional (see flat shoes shoes), without painting their face and nails, curling their hair etc.

It is a waste of women’s time, and we should stop wearing costumes to entertain them.


And historically we as women needed to do that to secure our financial well-being. But that hasn't been the case for a long time now. So surely you do understand that a vast majority of us dress any way we like because WE LIKE IT. I like to have long hair that is not gray. I like to have nicely manicured nails, I like to wear dresses.


If you are courting sexual attention from strangers, don’t complain that they treat you like a sex object.



Never said either of those things but thanks for your very valuable contribution.


Of course you did. Or do you not understand that wearing feminine clothing, bright colors and dying your hair to pretend to be younger are signaling your desire to appear men to be more fertile and youthful? Let’s not pretend we don’t understand how the world works dear.


If how I look turns you on, that’s a you issue; not a me issue and need to worry about. And where did I complain about the attention that do or don’t get? In fact, when I get attention from my husband based on how I look that day, I quite enjoy it. But you’re just a old bitty who is likely overweight and dresses like a frump, which I’m sure is ONLY to prove how much you DONT need a man.


DP. It’s biddy, not bitty.
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