Revealing clothing

[Anonymous]

If you dress in revealing clothing in public or don't does your partner encourage it? Why do they encourage it?

[Anonymous]

Sometimes I do. DH neither encourages it or is against it. He compliments me whether I'm wearing a T-shirt and jeans or something more revealing. I sometimes wear something revealing because I've worked damn hard on my body after years and years of body issues and an eating disorder.

[Anonymous]

With one exception no. Most revealing clothing requires you to make many adjustments while you are wearing it so it doesn’t reveal more than it should. Watch IG videos of women in revealing clothing and they are always pulling at something. The one exception is a bathing suit. I can still wear a bikini (not a thong!) as even after three little kids my body is still in very good shape. My husband is fine with it as he’s always smiling when I put it on. At our club pool I will wear a one piece but I will wear a bikini everywhere else.

[Anonymous]

I discourage my spouse from revealing their body via tight and short clothing. I’m simply not attracted to people who like the validation of strangers eyeing their body parts in public.

[Anonymous]

I don’t know if encouraging is the right word, he definitely supports it. He married an attractive woman, I like teasing and flirting with him. I am very cognizant of time and place.

[Anonymous]

I can tell you. They encourage it because they are trash. End of story. Any man who wants other men to ogle their partner is trash.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I can tell you. They encourage it because they are trash. End of story. Any man who wants other men to ogle their partner is trash.

I'm sorry your partner is not conventionally attractive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I can tell you. They encourage it because they are trash. End of story. Any man who wants other men to ogle their partner is trash.

I don't think you get to dictate or define the dynamics of the relationship of others.

My husband doesn't encourage it, he enjoys it because of what he gets to see, enjoy. It has nothing to do with other men.

[Anonymous]

The older I get the more my clothing choices trend utilitarian.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I can tell you. They encourage it because they are trash. End of story. Any man who wants other men to ogle their partner is trash.

"Under his eye," eh, Aunt Lydia?

[Anonymous]

I think DH would like it, but it’s not my style. I’m almost 50, so it looks off to me on 40+ women. Even with fit bodies. It’s like the face doesn’t match the body.

[Anonymous]

Depends what are we talking about here.

A low-cut V-neck, perhaps a backless classy dress.... or more like Diasy Dukes on a mother of 3?

If the former, I'll wear something like that to a wedding or party.

But if revealing is trashy, nope. That's low class to me

[Anonymous]

What do you mean by revealing? Kanye’s wife revealing or like yoga shorts and a crop top revealing

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think DH would like it, but it’s not my style. I’m almost 50, so it looks off to me on 40+ women. Even with fit bodies. It’s like the face doesn’t match the body.

It's always disconcerting when the body is good from behind and they turn around and it's you grandmother's face.

[Anonymous]

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