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Anonymous wrote:I don't understand why women need to wear revealing clothing in public but men survive fine without it? Would we be as open to men wearing revealing clothing in public? If they want to flaunt what they got, shouldn't we be more accepting to see male genitalia in public?

Because we have historically been trained to please/entertain them. They get to be comfortable and functional (see flat shoes shoes), without painting their face and nails, curling their hair etc.

It is a waste of women’s time, and we should stop wearing costumes to entertain them.

And historically we as women needed to do that to secure our financial well-being. But that hasn't been the case for a long time now. So surely you do understand that a vast majority of us dress any way we like because WE LIKE IT. I like to have long hair that is not gray. I like to have nicely manicured nails, I like to wear dresses.

If you are courting sexual attention from strangers, don’t complain that they treat you like a sex object.

Existing in public isn’t “courting sexual attention from strangers”. People have foot fetishes— is everyone in sandals “courting sexual attention” from them?

If you wear yoga pants that reveals your cameltoe, go braless or something low cut, you have to be aware that you are attracting sexual attention. Maybe it’s what you want - and that’s fine! personally I think all attractive women should dress like that… weirdly, not all do - it’s like some of them don’t want men to leer at them and objectify them.

What you seem to not understand is that one attracts sexual attention simply by existing in public. Like I said— foot fetishes are well documented. My sandals are probably turning someone on. That person is probably leering and objectifying me. So should I never go out in sandals because some dude likes feet? Why are my clothing choices supposed to be constrained by the poor behavior (leering) of men?

there's a difference between saying, "there are countless weird men with bizarre fetishes so I can't stop living my life and wearing things that are comfortable to avoid being seen as too alluring for [insert bizarre fetish here]" and walking down a street with your vagina fully displayed in your yoga pants, or wearing a top or bra that is specifically marketed as making you more sexually appealing.

Anyway, it all comes down to context. I don't think even the perviest of DCUM would say that a cameltoe or going braless at work is appropriate. Same way it's not appropriate for a male attorney to go to a hearing with no tie and the top six buttons undone, or his 5-inch running shorts. If you're capable of understanding that some contexts require different outfits, then you understand the idea behind people's belief that some clothes are too revealing to wear in public. You're just being difficult.

I don’t think there are any bras marketed any other way than making people look and feel attractive. So your point seems to be that if advertising agencies and a creepy man think something is sexual, that should constrain my choices?

Most of my bras are not very sexually alluring. Apparently you don't know a lot abotu women's undergarments.

The PP didn’t say sexually alluring. He said **marketed as** sexually appealing. Your bras are marketed to be unappealing?

You’ve missed how many are marketed to be comfortable and supportive. That’s usually not alluring.

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Anonymous wrote:For the record women (and men) don't do things to make themselves look young purely for sexual attractiveness.

All humans have a background existential fear of death, aging is a sign that you see in the mirror every day that your clock has been ticking for a good while. Staying youthful and vibrant makes people feel like they're still in the population that MATTERS (unlike children and elderly who are spoken of like obligations instead of in the conversation themselves).

There are layers to all this but in the end humans are tribal and want to be accepted and 'in the room where its happening' figuratively. Being on trend/youthful/in fashion is to attract a mate sure but it is also, I think equally, just to feel relevant.

I think that what youre describing is the idea that men adn women don't dress attractively with the intention of literally finding someone to have sex with. But that doesn't mean other people don't view them the same way.

If I lived my life entirely based on how other people were viewing me I would be pretty unhappy

True, in general.

But also, I've lived my whole life making sure I don't walk around with my genitals displayed to strangers, and you know what... it's been pretty okay! No regrets!

Stop repeating that nonsense. No one is displaying genitals.

Women with cameltoes certainly are.

Well I'm not sure they are displaying genitals but they are certainly living in your head rent free.

It feels like you don’t know what a camel toe is.

It seems you don't know that clothing covers it. Should I faint every time I see a hard on or an outline of a penus walking down the street?

If you see someone displaying their hardon on the street… you should call the police.

Are you joking?

Men jog topless around the nations capital. When they’re aroused it’s visible. You’re telling me you think we should call the police?

Yes. If you see men showing their erections off in public they are a sex offender.

“Showing them off” meaning wearing running shorts in public?

You’re absolutely off your rocker.

Pls don’t normalize male flashers.

It’s not flashing— it’s covered by exercise clothing exactly like the yoga pants “camel toe” issue that a PP is so worked up over.

I think there’s a lot of DCUM that needs to drastically calm down.

In real life, I have never met a normal woman who is okay about her privates showing through. This is such a weird internet-only reaction. (Also a woman).

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Anonymous wrote:For the record women (and men) don't do things to make themselves look young purely for sexual attractiveness.

All humans have a background existential fear of death, aging is a sign that you see in the mirror every day that your clock has been ticking for a good while. Staying youthful and vibrant makes people feel like they're still in the population that MATTERS (unlike children and elderly who are spoken of like obligations instead of in the conversation themselves).

There are layers to all this but in the end humans are tribal and want to be accepted and 'in the room where its happening' figuratively. Being on trend/youthful/in fashion is to attract a mate sure but it is also, I think equally, just to feel relevant.

I think that what youre describing is the idea that men adn women don't dress attractively with the intention of literally finding someone to have sex with. But that doesn't mean other people don't view them the same way.

If I lived my life entirely based on how other people were viewing me I would be pretty unhappy

True, in general.

But also, I've lived my whole life making sure I don't walk around with my genitals displayed to strangers, and you know what... it's been pretty okay! No regrets!

Stop repeating that nonsense. No one is displaying genitals.

Women with cameltoes certainly are.

Well I'm not sure they are displaying genitals but they are certainly living in your head rent free.

It feels like you don’t know what a camel toe is.

It seems you don't know that clothing covers it. Should I faint every time I see a hard on or an outline of a penus walking down the street?

If you see someone displaying their hardon on the street… you should call the police.

Are you joking?

Men jog topless around the nations capital. When they’re aroused it’s visible. You’re telling me you think we should call the police?

You see men jogging around with hard-ons? I have never seen this. Ever. It sounds quite uncomfortable.

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Anonymous wrote:For the record women (and men) don't do things to make themselves look young purely for sexual attractiveness.

All humans have a background existential fear of death, aging is a sign that you see in the mirror every day that your clock has been ticking for a good while. Staying youthful and vibrant makes people feel like they're still in the population that MATTERS (unlike children and elderly who are spoken of like obligations instead of in the conversation themselves).

There are layers to all this but in the end humans are tribal and want to be accepted and 'in the room where its happening' figuratively. Being on trend/youthful/in fashion is to attract a mate sure but it is also, I think equally, just to feel relevant.

I think that what youre describing is the idea that men adn women don't dress attractively with the intention of literally finding someone to have sex with. But that doesn't mean other people don't view them the same way.

If I lived my life entirely based on how other people were viewing me I would be pretty unhappy

True, in general.

But also, I've lived my whole life making sure I don't walk around with my genitals displayed to strangers, and you know what... it's been pretty okay! No regrets!

Stop repeating that nonsense. No one is displaying genitals.

Women with cameltoes certainly are.

Well I'm not sure they are displaying genitals but they are certainly living in your head rent free.

It feels like you don’t know what a camel toe is.

It seems you don't know that clothing covers it. Should I faint every time I see a hard on or an outline of a penus walking down the street?

If you see someone displaying their hardon on the street… you should call the police.

Are you joking?

Men jog topless around the nations capital. When they’re aroused it’s visible. You’re telling me you think we should call the police?

You see men jogging around with hard-ons? I have never seen this. Ever. It sounds quite uncomfortable.

Same. Never seen. But if you did that at a gym it would get you banned and if you put it in any other context than “jogging” it’s something that will get you on a sex offender list.

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Anonymous wrote:For the record women (and men) don't do things to make themselves look young purely for sexual attractiveness.

All humans have a background existential fear of death, aging is a sign that you see in the mirror every day that your clock has been ticking for a good while. Staying youthful and vibrant makes people feel like they're still in the population that MATTERS (unlike children and elderly who are spoken of like obligations instead of in the conversation themselves).

There are layers to all this but in the end humans are tribal and want to be accepted and 'in the room where its happening' figuratively. Being on trend/youthful/in fashion is to attract a mate sure but it is also, I think equally, just to feel relevant.

I think that what youre describing is the idea that men adn women don't dress attractively with the intention of literally finding someone to have sex with. But that doesn't mean other people don't view them the same way.

If I lived my life entirely based on how other people were viewing me I would be pretty unhappy

True, in general.

But also, I've lived my whole life making sure I don't walk around with my genitals displayed to strangers, and you know what... it's been pretty okay! No regrets!

Stop repeating that nonsense. No one is displaying genitals.

Women with cameltoes certainly are.

Well I'm not sure they are displaying genitals but they are certainly living in your head rent free.

It feels like you don’t know what a camel toe is.

It seems you don't know that clothing covers it. Should I faint every time I see a hard on or an outline of a penus walking down the street?

If you see someone displaying their hardon on the street… you should call the police.

Are you joking?

Men jog topless around the nations capital. When they’re aroused it’s visible. You’re telling me you think we should call the police?

You see men jogging around with hard-ons? I have never seen this. Ever. It sounds quite uncomfortable.

Same. Never seen. But if you did that at a gym it would get you banned and if you put it in any other context than “jogging” it’s something that will get you on a sex offender list.

Did what????? You don't seem to know how erections work.

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Anonymous wrote:For the record women (and men) don't do things to make themselves look young purely for sexual attractiveness.

All humans have a background existential fear of death, aging is a sign that you see in the mirror every day that your clock has been ticking for a good while. Staying youthful and vibrant makes people feel like they're still in the population that MATTERS (unlike children and elderly who are spoken of like obligations instead of in the conversation themselves).

There are layers to all this but in the end humans are tribal and want to be accepted and 'in the room where its happening' figuratively. Being on trend/youthful/in fashion is to attract a mate sure but it is also, I think equally, just to feel relevant.

I think that what youre describing is the idea that men adn women don't dress attractively with the intention of literally finding someone to have sex with. But that doesn't mean other people don't view them the same way.

If I lived my life entirely based on how other people were viewing me I would be pretty unhappy

True, in general.

But also, I've lived my whole life making sure I don't walk around with my genitals displayed to strangers, and you know what... it's been pretty okay! No regrets!

Stop repeating that nonsense. No one is displaying genitals.

Women with cameltoes certainly are.

Well I'm not sure they are displaying genitals but they are certainly living in your head rent free.

It feels like you don’t know what a camel toe is.

It seems you don't know that clothing covers it. Should I faint every time I see a hard on or an outline of a penus walking down the street?

If you see someone displaying their hardon on the street… you should call the police.

Are you joking?

Men jog topless around the nations capital. When they’re aroused it’s visible. You’re telling me you think we should call the police?

You see men jogging around with hard-ons? I have never seen this. Ever. It sounds quite uncomfortable.

DP, not the crazy one. I have never seen this but I HAVE seen guys walking around in shorts or joggers where the outline is visible. This doesn't have a cute name like camel toe. Maybe the 'coke bottle' effect? Haha.

Regardless, people have bodies. Sometimes we see parts of them, c'est la vie.

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Anonymous wrote:For the record women (and men) don't do things to make themselves look young purely for sexual attractiveness.

All humans have a background existential fear of death, aging is a sign that you see in the mirror every day that your clock has been ticking for a good while. Staying youthful and vibrant makes people feel like they're still in the population that MATTERS (unlike children and elderly who are spoken of like obligations instead of in the conversation themselves).

There are layers to all this but in the end humans are tribal and want to be accepted and 'in the room where its happening' figuratively. Being on trend/youthful/in fashion is to attract a mate sure but it is also, I think equally, just to feel relevant.

I think that what youre describing is the idea that men adn women don't dress attractively with the intention of literally finding someone to have sex with. But that doesn't mean other people don't view them the same way.

If I lived my life entirely based on how other people were viewing me I would be pretty unhappy

True, in general.

But also, I've lived my whole life making sure I don't walk around with my genitals displayed to strangers, and you know what... it's been pretty okay! No regrets!

Stop repeating that nonsense. No one is displaying genitals.

Women with cameltoes certainly are.

Well I'm not sure they are displaying genitals but they are certainly living in your head rent free.

It feels like you don’t know what a camel toe is.

It seems you don't know that clothing covers it. Should I faint every time I see a hard on or an outline of a penus walking down the street?

If you see someone displaying their hardon on the street… you should call the police.

Are you joking?

Men jog topless around the nations capital. When they’re aroused it’s visible. You’re telling me you think we should call the police?

You see men jogging around with hard-ons? I have never seen this. Ever. It sounds quite uncomfortable.

DP, not the crazy one. I have never seen this but I HAVE seen guys walking around in shorts or joggers where the outline is visible. This doesn't have a cute name like camel toe. Maybe the 'coke bottle' effect? Haha.

Regardless, people have bodies. Sometimes we see parts of them, c'est la vie.

EXACTLY!!!!!

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OP, are you the poster in the Beauty & Fashion forum who thinks that with climate change we need to bring back billowy clothing and veils?

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Anonymous wrote:For the record women (and men) don't do things to make themselves look young purely for sexual attractiveness.

All humans have a background existential fear of death, aging is a sign that you see in the mirror every day that your clock has been ticking for a good while. Staying youthful and vibrant makes people feel like they're still in the population that MATTERS (unlike children and elderly who are spoken of like obligations instead of in the conversation themselves).

There are layers to all this but in the end humans are tribal and want to be accepted and 'in the room where its happening' figuratively. Being on trend/youthful/in fashion is to attract a mate sure but it is also, I think equally, just to feel relevant.

I think that what youre describing is the idea that men adn women don't dress attractively with the intention of literally finding someone to have sex with. But that doesn't mean other people don't view them the same way.

If I lived my life entirely based on how other people were viewing me I would be pretty unhappy

True, in general.

But also, I've lived my whole life making sure I don't walk around with my genitals displayed to strangers, and you know what... it's been pretty okay! No regrets!

Stop repeating that nonsense. No one is displaying genitals.

Women with cameltoes certainly are.

Well I'm not sure they are displaying genitals but they are certainly living in your head rent free.

It feels like you don’t know what a camel toe is.

It seems you don't know that clothing covers it. Should I faint every time I see a hard on or an outline of a penus walking down the street?

If you see someone displaying their hardon on the street… you should call the police.

"Constable! That man is displaying his....shame!"

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You said Constable...lol!

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Anonymous wrote:For the record women (and men) don't do things to make themselves look young purely for sexual attractiveness.

All humans have a background existential fear of death, aging is a sign that you see in the mirror every day that your clock has been ticking for a good while. Staying youthful and vibrant makes people feel like they're still in the population that MATTERS (unlike children and elderly who are spoken of like obligations instead of in the conversation themselves).

There are layers to all this but in the end humans are tribal and want to be accepted and 'in the room where its happening' figuratively. Being on trend/youthful/in fashion is to attract a mate sure but it is also, I think equally, just to feel relevant.

I think that what youre describing is the idea that men adn women don't dress attractively with the intention of literally finding someone to have sex with. But that doesn't mean other people don't view them the same way.

If I lived my life entirely based on how other people were viewing me I would be pretty unhappy

True, in general.

But also, I've lived my whole life making sure I don't walk around with my genitals displayed to strangers, and you know what... it's been pretty okay! No regrets!

Stop repeating that nonsense. No one is displaying genitals.

Women with cameltoes certainly are.

Well I'm not sure they are displaying genitals but they are certainly living in your head rent free.

It feels like you don’t know what a camel toe is.

It seems you don't know that clothing covers it. Should I faint every time I see a hard on or an outline of a penus walking down the street?

If you see someone displaying their hardon on the street… you should call the police.

"Constable! That man is displaying his....shame!"

Clearly you’re not a woman who has ever had a man display his erection to you in a public place you thought it was safe. I’m not going to normalize men showing their erections in public.

That’s vastly different from a sweaty man’s genitalia being faintly visible in his jogging shorts. Just as how a woman accidentally wearing yoga pants that show the shape of her genitalia is different from the woman who intentionally wear super tight leggings to make a super prominent cameltoe that displays every contour. That is a real thing - go to M Street, Tysons, anywhere young and dumb and horny people congregate - and it’s as tacky and inappropriate - but not as menacing- as a man trying to make you look at his erection.

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Anonymous wrote:For the record women (and men) don't do things to make themselves look young purely for sexual attractiveness.

All humans have a background existential fear of death, aging is a sign that you see in the mirror every day that your clock has been ticking for a good while. Staying youthful and vibrant makes people feel like they're still in the population that MATTERS (unlike children and elderly who are spoken of like obligations instead of in the conversation themselves).

There are layers to all this but in the end humans are tribal and want to be accepted and 'in the room where its happening' figuratively. Being on trend/youthful/in fashion is to attract a mate sure but it is also, I think equally, just to feel relevant.

I think that what youre describing is the idea that men adn women don't dress attractively with the intention of literally finding someone to have sex with. But that doesn't mean other people don't view them the same way.

If I lived my life entirely based on how other people were viewing me I would be pretty unhappy

True, in general.

But also, I've lived my whole life making sure I don't walk around with my genitals displayed to strangers, and you know what... it's been pretty okay! No regrets!

Stop repeating that nonsense. No one is displaying genitals.

Women with cameltoes certainly are.

Well I'm not sure they are displaying genitals but they are certainly living in your head rent free.

It feels like you don’t know what a camel toe is.

It seems you don't know that clothing covers it. Should I faint every time I see a hard on or an outline of a penus walking down the street?

If you see someone displaying their hardon on the street… you should call the police.

"Constable! That man is displaying his....shame!"

Clearly you’re not a woman who has ever had a man display his erection to you in a public place you thought it was safe. I’m not going to normalize men showing their erections in public.

That’s vastly different from a sweaty man’s genitalia being faintly visible in his jogging shorts. Just as how a woman accidentally wearing yoga pants that show the shape of her genitalia is different from the woman who intentionally wear super tight leggings to make a super prominent cameltoe that displays every contour. That is a real thing - go to M Street, Tysons, anywhere young and dumb and horny people congregate - and it’s as tacky and inappropriate - but not as menacing- as a man trying to make you look at his erection.

Ma'am what you are describing is voyeurism and no one is justifying that. Simply getting an erection in public is not the same as flashing you his erection.

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Anonymous wrote:For the record women (and men) don't do things to make themselves look young purely for sexual attractiveness.

All humans have a background existential fear of death, aging is a sign that you see in the mirror every day that your clock has been ticking for a good while. Staying youthful and vibrant makes people feel like they're still in the population that MATTERS (unlike children and elderly who are spoken of like obligations instead of in the conversation themselves).

There are layers to all this but in the end humans are tribal and want to be accepted and 'in the room where its happening' figuratively. Being on trend/youthful/in fashion is to attract a mate sure but it is also, I think equally, just to feel relevant.

I think that what youre describing is the idea that men adn women don't dress attractively with the intention of literally finding someone to have sex with. But that doesn't mean other people don't view them the same way.

If I lived my life entirely based on how other people were viewing me I would be pretty unhappy

True, in general.

But also, I've lived my whole life making sure I don't walk around with my genitals displayed to strangers, and you know what... it's been pretty okay! No regrets!

Stop repeating that nonsense. No one is displaying genitals.

Women with cameltoes certainly are.

Well I'm not sure they are displaying genitals but they are certainly living in your head rent free.

It feels like you don’t know what a camel toe is.

It seems you don't know that clothing covers it. Should I faint every time I see a hard on or an outline of a penus walking down the street?

If you see someone displaying their hardon on the street… you should call the police.

"Constable! That man is displaying his....shame!"

Clearly you’re not a woman who has ever had a man display his erection to you in a public place you thought it was safe. I’m not going to normalize men showing their erections in public.

That’s vastly different from a sweaty man’s genitalia being faintly visible in his jogging shorts. Just as how a woman accidentally wearing yoga pants that show the shape of her genitalia is different from the woman who intentionally wear super tight leggings to make a super prominent cameltoe that displays every contour. That is a real thing - go to M Street, Tysons, anywhere young and dumb and horny people congregate - and it’s as tacky and inappropriate - but not as menacing- as a man trying to make you look at his erection.

Ma'am what you are describing is voyeurism and no one is justifying that. Simply getting an erection in public is not the same as flashing you his erection.

No, it’s exhibitionism, showing yourself not an audience that hasn’t asked to see it. Voyeurism is when you want to see someone who doesn’t know you’re looking.

Accidentally getting an erection or accidentally wearing yoga pants that ride up in an awkward way is a wardrobe malfunction. Running around Capitol Hill with a raging hardon is inappropriate and exhibitionism, as is intentionally wearing tight leggings and no undies for the purpose of showing your vagina. Don’t normalize sickos.

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Until we know what OP meant by "revealing", its a useless discussion.

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Anonymous wrote:For the record women (and men) don't do things to make themselves look young purely for sexual attractiveness.

All humans have a background existential fear of death, aging is a sign that you see in the mirror every day that your clock has been ticking for a good while. Staying youthful and vibrant makes people feel like they're still in the population that MATTERS (unlike children and elderly who are spoken of like obligations instead of in the conversation themselves).

There are layers to all this but in the end humans are tribal and want to be accepted and 'in the room where its happening' figuratively. Being on trend/youthful/in fashion is to attract a mate sure but it is also, I think equally, just to feel relevant.

I think that what youre describing is the idea that men adn women don't dress attractively with the intention of literally finding someone to have sex with. But that doesn't mean other people don't view them the same way.

If I lived my life entirely based on how other people were viewing me I would be pretty unhappy

True, in general.

But also, I've lived my whole life making sure I don't walk around with my genitals displayed to strangers, and you know what... it's been pretty okay! No regrets!

Stop repeating that nonsense. No one is displaying genitals.

Women with cameltoes certainly are.

Well I'm not sure they are displaying genitals but they are certainly living in your head rent free.

It feels like you don’t know what a camel toe is.

It seems you don't know that clothing covers it. Should I faint every time I see a hard on or an outline of a penus walking down the street?

If you see someone displaying their hardon on the street… you should call the police.

"Constable! That man is displaying his....shame!"

Clearly you’re not a woman who has ever had a man display his erection to you in a public place you thought it was safe. I’m not going to normalize men showing their erections in public.

That’s vastly different from a sweaty man’s genitalia being faintly visible in his jogging shorts. Just as how a woman accidentally wearing yoga pants that show the shape of her genitalia is different from the woman who intentionally wear super tight leggings to make a super prominent cameltoe that displays every contour. That is a real thing - go to M Street, Tysons, anywhere young and dumb and horny people congregate - and it’s as tacky and inappropriate - but not as menacing- as a man trying to make you look at his erection.

Ma'am what you are describing is voyeurism and no one is justifying that. Simply getting an erection in public is not the same as flashing you his erection.

No, it’s exhibitionism, showing yourself not an audience that hasn’t asked to see it. Voyeurism is when you want to see someone who doesn’t know you’re looking.

Accidentally getting an erection or accidentally wearing yoga pants that ride up in an awkward way is a wardrobe malfunction. Running around Capitol Hill with a raging hardon is inappropriate and exhibitionism, as is intentionally wearing tight leggings and no undies for the purpose of showing your vagina. Don’t normalize sickos.

I think you are the biggest sicko personally.