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Anonymous wrote:I had over 300 sex partners of both men and women from the time I started, including my college years before meeting my husband.

I loved the feeling. I was not molested or damaged in any way.

Couple questions: why did you feel you needed experience it with a new man so often ? You were not satisfied/finding what you need sexually, or the variety was getting you off?
And how did you find time to see so many guys ? Went to bars/constantly scheduled several dates online ?

I paid for my college as a highly paid courtesan. Probably four dates a week over four years of college. This doesn’t include my formative years of exploration.

I happen to enjoy the product that comes from sexual activity quite a bit.

You can either always have #14 on the lunch menu of your favorite Thai restaurant or you can sample the entire menu. Some you like, some you loathe and some are worth repeating.

My husband I love and lust and am in a different place today than I was then. The body has an amazing ability to cleanse itself.

No diseases or STDs. Not even Mono.

Does your husband know you were a sex worker?

Yes he does. I have a BS in civil engineering. A PE in three states. I am not some slouch. I also have zero college debt.

The poster who ASSumed I went out with old fat men is so wrong and only shows her ignorance. The comment about comparing working women to the likes of me just shows more ignorance and frankly jealousy.

My work was a business transaction nothing more. I am in love with my husband. Thankfully we will never have children to burden us down. Sex with my husband is very satisfying.

Good thing you’re not procreating, the world would be full of more nasty trolls.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I had over 300 sex partners of both men and women from the time I started, including my college years before meeting my husband.

I loved the feeling. I was not molested or damaged in any way.

Couple questions: why did you feel you needed experience it with a new man so often ? You were not satisfied/finding what you need sexually, or the variety was getting you off?
And how did you find time to see so many guys ? Went to bars/constantly scheduled several dates online ?

I paid for my college as a highly paid courtesan. Probably four dates a week over four years of college. This doesn’t include my formative years of exploration.

I happen to enjoy the product that comes from sexual activity quite a bit.

You can either always have #14 on the lunch menu of your favorite Thai restaurant or you can sample the entire menu. Some you like, some you loathe and some are worth repeating.

My husband I love and lust and am in a different place today than I was then. The body has an amazing ability to cleanse itself.

No diseases or STDs. Not even Mono.

My dear, you were a prostitute. Call a spade a spade.

Your body did not "cleanse" itself. You just took many showers.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’ll bet this gal will wear a white wedding dress someday too. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I had over 300 sex partners of both men and women from the time I started, including my college years before meeting my husband.

I loved the feeling. I was not molested or damaged in any way.

Couple questions: why did you feel you needed experience it with a new man so often ? You were not satisfied/finding what you need sexually, or the variety was getting you off?
And how did you find time to see so many guys ? Went to bars/constantly scheduled several dates online ?

I paid for my college as a highly paid courtesan. Probably four dates a week over four years of college. This doesn’t include my formative years of exploration.

I happen to enjoy the product that comes from sexual activity quite a bit.

You can either always have #14 on the lunch menu of your favorite Thai restaurant or you can sample the entire menu. Some you like, some you loathe and some are worth repeating.

My husband I love and lust and am in a different place today than I was then. The body has an amazing ability to cleanse itself.

No diseases or STDs. Not even Mono.

Does your husband know you were a sex worker?

Yes he does. I have a BS in civil engineering. A PE in three states. I am not some slouch. I also have zero college debt.

The poster who ASSumed I went out with old fat men is so wrong and only shows her ignorance. The comment about comparing working women to the likes of me just shows more ignorance and frankly jealousy.

My work was a business transaction nothing more. I am in love with my husband. Thankfully we will never have children to burden us down. Sex with my husband is very satisfying.

Do you really think women are jealous that you were a prostitute? Ew.

-dp (pardon the pun)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I had over 300 sex partners of both men and women from the time I started, including my college years before meeting my husband.

I loved the feeling. I was not molested or damaged in any way.

Couple questions: why did you feel you needed experience it with a new man so often ? You were not satisfied/finding what you need sexually, or the variety was getting you off?
And how did you find time to see so many guys ? Went to bars/constantly scheduled several dates online ?

I paid for my college as a highly paid courtesan. Probably four dates a week over four years of college. This doesn’t include my formative years of exploration.

I happen to enjoy the product that comes from sexual activity quite a bit.

You can either always have #14 on the lunch menu of your favorite Thai restaurant or you can sample the entire menu. Some you like, some you loathe and some are worth repeating.

My husband I love and lust and am in a different place today than I was then. The body has an amazing ability to cleanse itself.

No diseases or STDs. Not even Mono.

Does your husband know you were a sex worker?

Yes he does. I have a BS in civil engineering. A PE in three states. I am not some slouch. I also have zero college debt.

The poster who ASSumed I went out with old fat men is so wrong and only shows her ignorance. The comment about comparing working women to the likes of me just shows more ignorance and frankly jealousy.

My work was a business transaction nothing more. I am in love with my husband. Thankfully we will never have children to burden us down. Sex with my husband is very satisfying.

Do you really think women are jealous that you were a prostitute? Ew.

-dp (pardon the pun)

I doubt many women are jealous of being a sex worker, Pretty Woman was just a movie. It’s your life, if you are ok with it and your husband knows your past and accepts it, then more power to you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:As a man in his thirties, would you consider entering a serious relationship with a 28-year-old woman who has had over sixty sexual partners?

As a woman of any age, I would not date a man who asked me how many sexual partners I had. It's irrelevant, sexist and misogynist.

The relevant questions have to do with STDs, and agreement to jointly test and share results, plus consent about the parameters of monogamy or non-monogamy.

[Anonymous]

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Sex worker is an illegal economic choice, and a woman wouldn't have made it if she wasn't paid for that. You wouldn't sleep with over 300 men without differentiating and just by referral appointments, right?

Sex worker is not illegal in many places. In the case of PP, it sounds like she was going on dates and getting paid for her time. Grey area, but not illegal generally.

She was doing it by referrals and scheduled appointments. In fact, she would be convicted and removed from jobs in most states, if found. Amazing she’s proudly promoting it here! Wonder if her current employer and friends know about this past. If she’s so proud and thinks it’s normal - she should go ahead and disclose it to everyone.

[Anonymous]

People always make this argument and I don't understand the point.

What point do you not understand? Women have a greater opportunity to be promiscuous than men do. Given that fact, the key difference between a woman with six partners and one with 60 partners is that the former is more discriminating. In other words, the woman with six partners has more carefully selected who she was with than the woman with 60 partners.

If you say that it's the number that's disgusting, then it should apply the same to a man with the same number.

Because women grant access to themselves, a higher number means she has granted more access. However, men vie for access to women. If one person can give something away, and another has to earn it, the person who earns it has a greater perceived value. A man with 60 partners likely offered something that his peer group did not, whereas a woman with 60 partners was just less discriminating than her peer group.

But apparently it's actually about skill or effort because a man with 60 partners must have great game or whatever.

See my point above.

So is it less disgusting for an ugly woman to have had 60 partners than a beautiful woman to have had 60, because it was less easy?

This statement is a false comparison. Both the ugly woman and the beautiful woman can have as many partners as they want (i.e., both can sleep with 60 men). The difference is that the beautiful woman is more likely to be a partner's target for a relationship rather than an ONS.

Is this really about rewarding effort? And if it is, then anyone who has anything that came easily to them is disgusting?

This is another false comparison. We are talking about the perception of a woman with 60 partners. It was easy to sleep with her, meaning she did not require much (if anything) in terms of courtship or effort. And, yes, something easily obtained tends to have a lower value than something that requires a lot of effort.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:As a man in his thirties, would you consider entering a serious relationship with a 28-year-old woman who has had over sixty sexual partners?

As a woman of any age, I would not date a man who asked me how many sexual partners I had. It's irrelevant, sexist and misogynist.

The relevant questions have to do with STDs, and agreement to jointly test and share results, plus consent about the parameters of monogamy or non-monogamy.

That is your choice. Understanding someone’s past is a huge indicator of future patterns. If you were wild as a teen and had a lot of partners but had monogamous relationships since, then you are a higher value partner than someone that has had 7 partners but cheated during monogamous Relationships.

I had a very unstable childhood, all kinds of mental trauma. I slept with prob 60 females before 21 trying to make myself feel worthy of love, then a lightbulb went off. Since 21 been with 3. I have been faithfully married to for 24 years so far. Prior to engagement my wife knew about my college girlfriend and some of my past, then we discussed it in detail and she felt I was a stable choice as a life partner.

[Anonymous]

A man with 60+ partners (assuming he did not pay for any of them) is likely to be near the top 1% of desirability since most women are more discriminating (except the women like the one who is the subject of this thread).

"Top 1%" -- listen to yourself. Like this is some kind of game. You absolute child.

Listen to what, exactly? It is a fact that the most desirable men will have the most access to sex, casual or otherwise. You are angry because you are (or were) promiscuous and resent that the men you most wanted to be with did not want you after you slept with them.

Reply with "evidence" of how great you are, how men love you, etc. You will make my point by doing so. The game you need to play is getting therapy ASAP for the broken little girl that lives inside you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I had over 300 sex partners of both men and women from the time I started, including my college years before meeting my husband.

I loved the feeling. I was not molested or damaged in any way.

Couple questions: why did you feel you needed experience it with a new man so often ? You were not satisfied/finding what you need sexually, or the variety was getting you off?
And how did you find time to see so many guys ? Went to bars/constantly scheduled several dates online ?

I paid for my college as a highly paid courtesan. Probably four dates a week over four years of college. This doesn’t include my formative years of exploration.

I happen to enjoy the product that comes from sexual activity quite a bit.

You can either always have #14 on the lunch menu of your favorite Thai restaurant or you can sample the entire menu. Some you like, some you loathe and some are worth repeating.

My husband I love and lust and am in a different place today than I was then. The body has an amazing ability to cleanse itself.

No diseases or STDs. Not even Mono.

Finally, after a long drought a DCUM, "I was an escort in college/grad school and now a typical suburban woman" post. It has been ages.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:As a man in his thirties, would you consider entering a serious relationship with a 28-year-old woman who has had over sixty sexual partners?

OP - how many partners have you had?

[Anonymous]

If you ask my 70 years old dad he would say she is a wh**re......The days are GONE when men can have multiple partners and women can't....It is equal promiscuity today. Personally I wouldn't have sex with someone who has had that many partners. I am not a promiscuous man and I don't want a promiscuous woman either.

[Anonymous]

Being in a relationship with a woman who had 60+ partners is like paying full price for a new car and receiving a rental or used car. Why would anyone agree to that?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

A man with 60+ partners (assuming he did not pay for any of them) is likely to be near the top 1% of desirability since most women are more discriminating (except the women like the one who is the subject of this thread).

"Top 1%" -- listen to yourself. Like this is some kind of game. You absolute child.

Listen to what, exactly? It is a fact that the most desirable men will have the most access to sex, casual or otherwise. You are angry because you are (or were) promiscuous and resent that the men you most wanted to be with did not want you after you slept with them.

Reply with "evidence" of how great you are, how men love you, etc. You will make my point by doing so. The game you need to play is getting therapy ASAP for the broken little girl that lives inside you.

"The most desirable men" / "access to sex." These kind of phrases reflect a warped worldview. Find people you like. Have sex with them if that will make both of your lives happier. Don't make it any more complicated than that. Certainly don't make it some creepy algorithm where the highest scorers in your f**ked up game get more sex coins to deploy for sex and obtain an even higher score!