Good thing you’re not procreating, the world would be full of more nasty trolls. |
My dear, you were a prostitute. Call a spade a spade. Your body did not "cleanse" itself. You just took many showers. |
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Do you really think women are jealous that you were a prostitute? Ew. -dp (pardon the pun) |
I doubt many women are jealous of being a sex worker, Pretty Woman was just a movie. It’s your life, if you are ok with it and your husband knows your past and accepts it, then more power to you. |
As a woman of any age, I would not date a man who asked me how many sexual partners I had. It's irrelevant, sexist and misogynist. The relevant questions have to do with STDs, and agreement to jointly test and share results, plus consent about the parameters of monogamy or non-monogamy. |
She was doing it by referrals and scheduled appointments. In fact, she would be convicted and removed from jobs in most states, if found. Amazing she’s proudly promoting it here! Wonder if her current employer and friends know about this past. If she’s so proud and thinks it’s normal - she should go ahead and disclose it to everyone. |
What point do you not understand? Women have a greater opportunity to be promiscuous than men do. Given that fact, the key difference between a woman with six partners and one with 60 partners is that the former is more discriminating. In other words, the woman with six partners has more carefully selected who she was with than the woman with 60 partners.
Because women grant access to themselves, a higher number means she has granted more access. However, men vie for access to women. If one person can give something away, and another has to earn it, the person who earns it has a greater perceived value. A man with 60 partners likely offered something that his peer group did not, whereas a woman with 60 partners was just less discriminating than her peer group. See my point above. This statement is a false comparison. Both the ugly woman and the beautiful woman can have as many partners as they want (i.e., both can sleep with 60 men). The difference is that the beautiful woman is more likely to be a partner's target for a relationship rather than an ONS. This is another false comparison. We are talking about the perception of a woman with 60 partners. It was easy to sleep with her, meaning she did not require much (if anything) in terms of courtship or effort. And, yes, something easily obtained tends to have a lower value than something that requires a lot of effort. |
That is your choice. Understanding someone’s past is a huge indicator of future patterns. If you were wild as a teen and had a lot of partners but had monogamous relationships since, then you are a higher value partner than someone that has had 7 partners but cheated during monogamous Relationships. I had a very unstable childhood, all kinds of mental trauma. I slept with prob 60 females before 21 trying to make myself feel worthy of love, then a lightbulb went off. Since 21 been with 3. I have been faithfully married to for 24 years so far. Prior to engagement my wife knew about my college girlfriend and some of my past, then we discussed it in detail and she felt I was a stable choice as a life partner. |
Listen to what, exactly? It is a fact that the most desirable men will have the most access to sex, casual or otherwise. You are angry because you are (or were) promiscuous and resent that the men you most wanted to be with did not want you after you slept with them. Reply with "evidence" of how great you are, how men love you, etc. You will make my point by doing so. The game you need to play is getting therapy ASAP for the broken little girl that lives inside you. |
Finally, after a long drought a DCUM, "I was an escort in college/grad school and now a typical suburban woman" post. It has been ages. |
OP - how many partners have you had? |
If you ask my 70 years old dad he would say she is a wh**re......The days are GONE when men can have multiple partners and women can't....It is equal promiscuity today. Personally I wouldn't have sex with someone who has had that many partners. I am not a promiscuous man and I don't want a promiscuous woman either. |
Being in a relationship with a woman who had 60+ partners is like paying full price for a new car and receiving a rental or used car. Why would anyone agree to that? |
"The most desirable men" / "access to sex." These kind of phrases reflect a warped worldview. Find people you like. Have sex with them if that will make both of your lives happier. Don't make it any more complicated than that. Certainly don't make it some creepy algorithm where the highest scorers in your f**ked up game get more sex coins to deploy for sex and obtain an even higher score! |