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[quote=Anonymous][quote]People always make this argument and I don't understand the point.[/quote]

What point do you not understand? Women have a greater opportunity to be promiscuous than men do. Given that fact, the key difference between a woman with six partners and one with 60 partners is that the former is more discriminating. In other words, the woman with six partners has more carefully selected who she was with than the woman with 60 partners.

[quote]If you say that it's the number that's disgusting, then it should apply the same to a man with the same number.[/quote]

Because women grant access to themselves, a higher number means she has granted more access. However, men vie for access to women. If one person can give something away, and another has to earn it, the person who earns it has a greater perceived value. A man with 60 partners likely offered something that his peer group did not, whereas a woman with 60 partners was just less discriminating than her peer group.

[quote]But apparently it's actually about skill or effort because a man with 60 partners must have great game or whatever.[/quote] See my point above.

[quote]So is it less disgusting for an ugly woman to have had 60 partners than a beautiful woman to have had 60, because it was less easy?[/quote] This statement is a false comparison. Both the ugly woman and the beautiful woman can have as many partners as they want (i.e., both can sleep with 60 men). The difference is that the beautiful woman is more likely to be a partner's target for a relationship rather than an ONS.

[quote]Is this really about rewarding effort? And if it is, then anyone who has anything that came easily to them is disgusting?[/quote] This is another false comparison. We are talking about the perception of a woman with 60 partners. It was easy to sleep with her, meaning she did not require much (if anything) in terms of courtship or effort. And, yes, something easily obtained tends to have a lower value than something that requires a lot of effort.[/quote]

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