Has every cheater you met been trashy?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Did you think JFK was trashy? And Clinton? And General Petraeus? Lots and lot of people have cheat- from every socioeconomic level and background. From WASP to trailer park. From car salesman to President.

I think all of them are scumbags. And Clinton was from a trailer park.

Clinton transcended his challenging past rather well, I think. Have you gone from child with an absent parent and virtually no money to the president of the united states? I don't think so. Just because somebody does not have money does not make theym trashy or less valuable than any other person. That's an embarrassing statement from you. I wish I knew you in real life so I could shun you. Yeesh.

I think he's trashy with women. These are different aspects of a person's life. Someone can be successful in one area and terrible in another. Clinton fits this category. And yes, I think his behavior showed up in other areas of his life. He was still successful but I don't think a lot of people think he has great character.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am lonely, disillusioned, overworked, taken for granted, disrespected, exhausted, etc. but not trashy. I want to cheat to finally enjoy something/someone of my own.

He usually is not “your own”. He is married to another woman.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I am lonely, disillusioned, overworked, taken for granted, disrespected, exhausted, etc. but not trashy. I want to cheat to finally enjoy something/someone of my own.

Or....you could leave your current relationship and just start a new one.

Easier said than done. I just live in a fantasy world, I never cheated, but live constantly in my head. The logistics of leaving my family and starting over are just too extraordinary.

You can never be happy in your marriage, in the present, when you live in your head constantly. It’s imaging how people could be happy if they actually were present and appreciated and leaned in instead of looking for only fault.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am lonely, disillusioned, overworked, taken for granted, disrespected, exhausted, etc. but not trashy. I want to cheat to finally enjoy something/someone of my own.

He usually is not “your own”. He is married to another woman.

I agree, I guess I am jealous. I am jealous of his wife and dissatisfied with the way my relationship has turned out after two decades. I am too overwhelmed and too intimidated to leave and start over. I have young children. Therapy hasn’t helped me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did you think JFK was trashy? And Clinton? And General Petraeus? Lots and lot of people have cheat- from every socioeconomic level and background. From WASP to trailer park. From car salesman to President.

I think all of them are scumbags. And Clinton was from a trailer park.

Clinton transcended his challenging past rather well, I think. Have you gone from child with an absent parent and virtually no money to the president of the united states? I don't think so. Just because somebody does not have money does not make theym trashy or less valuable than any other person. That's an embarrassing statement from you. I wish I knew you in real life so I could shun you. Yeesh.

Just because someone is successful doesn't mean that they aren't trashy. Clinton is definitely trashy, unless you can come up with a better term for a married man getting blowjobs from interns

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am lonely, disillusioned, overworked, taken for granted, disrespected, exhausted, etc. but not trashy. I want to cheat to finally enjoy something/someone of my own.

He usually is not “your own”. He is married to another woman.

I agree, I guess I am jealous. I am jealous of his wife and dissatisfied with the way my relationship has turned out after two decades. I am too overwhelmed and too intimidated to leave and start over. I have young children. Therapy hasn’t helped me.

Therapy is as often as not just a place to vent about things you can’t or won’t change.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Baloney. My Mom and Dad have been married 50+ years and I am 1,000 percent sure they have both been faithful. Ditto for my wife and myself, married nearly twenty years. When you have solid relationships and trust each other, you know.

DP. You are not part of your parents’ marriage. I am not saying either has cheated, but the ere are absolutely things about their marriage that you do not know.

Yep, and speak from experience. Not all kids will know history if parents stay together.

[Anonymous]

Hoping to choose the most suitable life partner while in your 20s is really a leap of faith.