I'm a man. See bold. I'm not sure why you think I have a particular interest in high status men. I'm just responding to PP suggesting that most men are looking to trade up. And regardless of the anecdotal evidence you may know, the truth is that divorce rates are falling and are under 30% for high-income marriages after 25. |
I don’t know any men who married someone with an associates degree. I can’t think of one person. Then again, I don’t think I know anyone with an associates degree. |
Hopefully they don't care so much about your high-paying career that they decide to become your kid's sahd when that wasn't the deal, while smoking weed, hanging out with their buddies and living off the lady boss largesse! I hear it happens. |
No guy is trying to marry the dumb hot girl. Dh earns a seven figure income and we know a lot of wealthy people. Most of the wives are quite plain looking and smart. They are definitely attractive, fit and thin. There are a handful of very pretty woman but they are also well educated and often good athletes. The higher up the food chain you are, the better your options. This goes for both men and women. |
Exactly. Don’t care |
You are half right. Men care about looks and being attractive. But there are plenty of men who are attracted to uncalm and assertive women. They are usually more on the stoic/quiet side and like women who are energetic, socially dynamic, and/or dramatic. And yes, looks are always most important. |
High achieving, well educated men don’t. They marry high achieving women. Whether the woman continues to be high achieving after marriage varies, but MBAs do not marry waitresses, there’s plenty of data on this kind of thing. They *date* waitresses or have a waitress as a FWB. |
I don’t know a single person with a professional degree who married or even considered anyone with an associate degree. Some won’t even consider state school alumni, unless they have grad or professional degrees. |
*professional degree from a reputable school |
I said 12 or 13. Not 14. |
+1. I don’t know any college educated married men who married a woman without at least an undergrad degree. I do know men who are married to social workers, teachers, and sahms. I don’t think earning power matters is many cases but a certain level of educational attainment and self sufficiency does. This isn’t to say there aren’t extremely wealthy men who marry models with a GED but it’s likely a moderately successful man will look for a spouse that comes from a similar background |
Outside of television, well educated women are generally more attractive than less well educated women.
Look around next time you go to the doctor or the dentist. (One e you account for age) the most attractive woman there is the dentist or the doctor, not the receptionist. |
As Joan Rivers once famously said, no man ever went up a woman’s dress looking for her library card. |
For those games, degree or college or career may not matter to some but if they are taking someone home to see their family, introducing them to their friends/colleagues, planning to have children with and hoping to travel/retire with, its 99.99% going to be an educated girl from a similar family. |
Not in my circles, maybe in yours. I don't know any men married to women with associate's degrees. Zero. The women in this expensive neighborhood have multiple degrees from top schools, and there is very little divorce. That is the cold, hard truth. |