NP. Agree. I guess all adcoms "expect" kids from competitive high schools to have high test scores, but my kid is just like yours - major test anxiety, does terribly on standardized tests. We also aren't super-wealthy, and didn't pay for any test prep or private counselor. She just did her best with Khan Academy. However, she's very smart and gets good grades in challenging courses. She's applying test optional and letting the chips fall where they may. It'll be interesting to see whether schools mean it when they say they're truly "test optional". I have no doubt most/all of her peers from this school will be submitting high test scores. Oh well. |
+1 The pressure of the ACT/SAT is tremendous. |
lol yes reading is fundamental. But you wrote it and lead with that sentence. So, it’s on you. |
What does all this matter? |
| Don’t worry. A 3.89 here is keeping it real. |
Thank you for reminding me of one of my favorite videos of all time: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=2UFc1pr2yUU |
+1 3.7 over here. Hey, maybe that makes our kids special?
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Another possible explanation, though: Colleges now accept a much narrower quality of applicants than they did 20-50 years ago. At selective schools we would expect higher grades and less differentiation. Any rich kid who went to a prep school used to be able to get into one of the ivies--now it is more meritocratic, high performing ivies. So who used to be the top tier at these schools is now the whole student body. There's a lot fewer rich kids with their gentleman C's and whatnot. But that's not because it's gotten easier but rather because the slackers and weaker students aren't getting admitted in the first place anymore. |
Not it isn't. Thousands and thousands of kids take it every year without vomiting. Most only take it once. The test isn't the problem. |
I told DD she should take it easy, no need to be stressed, it’s a test you can retake every month. |
Or mine 3.6? |
If your family has money to burn. |
Love how judgmental you are. Somehow I feel you’re likely the parent whose kids no longer speak to them. Im the one with the kid who has test anxiety. Ds took the SAT and submitted his score, and got into the school he wanted. Not sure why you are picking on my Ds’s story to make some kind of inane point. You can stop now because he does not fit the narrative you’re spinning. |
You are projecting, and I said nothing about your child, and I'm sorry if it sounded that way to you. I responded to the bolded idea of pressure coming from the test universally -- the test is not asserting pressure. Different people have different things that cause them anxiety, some to extremes: public speaking, text taking, bridge driving, close spaces, other people, heights. We don't eliminate these things for everyone else because of this. In too many cases (again, not talking about your child), the pressure of a test comes from subtle and not so subtle messages some kids get about the test. Most kids in the country are not getting that message. But if a parent starts prepping a kid in elementary school, makes them start taking the test in 7th grade, gets them a tutor because the practice score was "too low," buys them three versions of prep book and sets up a Khan Academy account, then pressure is going to build up, and it is not the fault of the test. People around here find it impossible to believe that most people in the country don't put that much stock and pressure into the tests. If a kid feels like a 1540 is not good enough and wants to retake because the only acceptable college is MIT, that pressure is not coming from the test. |
I love deluded parents claiming AP and SAT exams are fake and mean nothing... but their kid's inflated perfect GPA is a 100% spot on assessment of their kid's genius. lol
And spare us the vomiting, anxiety and whatever other pseudo excuses you can come up with. As if becoming a nervous freak before something important is in any way an asset to a university or a potential employer. Reminds me in the early 90s everyone "barely slept" or "partied" the night before the SAT when explaining their score.
Your child just isn't that special. And I love y'all come over the top to say but but but their college GPA is great, too! As if it's difficult to make straight As in some weak major. Have junior go sit for the LSAT, MCAT, or GMAT and the low score will again expose your kid is just simply not very bright. |