Can gray hair be bad ass?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if Nancy Pelosi would have gone so far politically if she had white hair- which I’m fairly certain she does be now. Agism, especially among women, is real.

Maybe we should ask Sandra Day O’Connor. If you think Pelosi or RBG got where they did from dying their hair you are not so bright. Explains why you cling to your fading looks.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Very much so

He is a very handsome guy with an excellent sense of style. He’s also a GUY.

He's also had a shit ton of procedures done, and his face shows it. If anything, he didn't go 'natural'.

[Anonymous]

It really does look silly to have dyed hair on top of an older face. Unless you get a lot of work done, too. Do you have a lot of work done on your face to match the work done on your hair? Do men find this sexy?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if Nancy Pelosi would have gone so far politically if she had white hair- which I’m fairly certain she does be now. Agism, especially among women, is real.

Maybe we should ask Sandra Day O’Connor. If you think Pelosi or RBG got where they did from dying their hair you are not so bright. Explains why you cling to your fading looks.

And neither were sworn into office with white hair. What's your point?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if Nancy Pelosi would have gone so far politically if she had white hair- which I’m fairly certain she does be now. Agism, especially among women, is real.

Maybe we should ask Sandra Day O’Connor. If you think Pelosi or RBG got where they did from dying their hair you are not so bright. Explains why you cling to your fading looks.

And neither were sworn into office with white hair. What's your point?

And they also don't need to be repeatedly elected into office, so they had the luxury of not being judged (as much) by their looks.

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[Anonymous]

... or get a better dye job??


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Wait? Do you really think that people can't tell you dye your hair? That we can't see the gray/white hair peeking out within a week of the dye job? You can't see it but we do.


No. Exactly zero people said that. Try to keep up.

^^cuz people are afraid of you. Geez - you have some anger issues lady.

Whether they say it or not, people know you dye your hair.
They think - 'wow, she has a good colorist', until they see the gray hairs poke out. As another poster said, why the need to cling to looking young.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Ok Patti Smith is badass but I doubt anyone (or most) in Dcum-land wants to (or could pull
Off) looking like an aged artist poet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:... or get a better dye job??


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Wait? Do you really think that people can't tell you dye your hair? That we can't see the gray/white hair peeking out within a week of the dye job? You can't see it but we do.


No. Exactly zero people said that. Try to keep up.

^^cuz people are afraid of you. Geez - you have some anger issues lady.

Whether they say it or not, people know you dye your hair.
They think - 'wow, she has a good colorist', until they see the gray hairs poke out. As another poster said, why the need to cling to looking young.

Again, nobody has said that it is impossible to tell your hair is dyed. That isn't the point.

But whatever. Ignore the parts of the world you think are mean. You want people to think gray-haired women are sexy and attractive, so...they are! Sure. Anyone who says otherwise is a meanie and allowing yourself to go gray has no effect on the trajectory of your career. If your dh is more attracted to women who aren't gray (of course, YOUR husband LOVES your grays and finds you sexier than ever), then their opinions don't matter. OK.

[Anonymous]

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That is Patti Smith? I guess she’s bad ass due to her reputation but that hair is very creepy. Got the homeless person vibe going there.

[Anonymous]

Of course people know you due your hair! But you also do many other things to keep up your image as you age. Good teeth for one. It’s unfair that men look ok with gray or white hair but women not do much. Welcome to the real world.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Very much so

He is a very handsome guy with an excellent sense of style. He’s also a GUY.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Very much so

He is a very handsome guy with an excellent sense of style. He’s also a GUY.

And before you say it's only celebrities. Here is the blog of just a regular woman of a certain age looking badass with gray hair

https://www.styleatacertainage.com/style-at-a-certain-age/double-denim-2/

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Very much so

He is a very handsome guy with an excellent sense of style. He’s also a GUY.

And before you say it's only celebrities. Here is the blog of just a regular woman of a certain age looking badass with gray hair

https://www.styleatacertainage.com/style-at-a-certain-age/double-denim-2/

This is a picture of a stunningly beautiful (and heavily photoshopped) movie star. OK. Regular people don’t look like that. Also this is a photograph. Both of them are. IRL I wonder how they look.

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Meryl Streep doesn’t have one line sag or wrinkle on her face or neck. Hmmmm.